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Relationship Alive!

By neilius@neilsattin.com

Neil Sattin interviews John Gottman, Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Peter Levine, Stan Tatkin, Dick Schwartz, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Diana Richardson, Terry Real, Wendy Maltz - and many others - in his quest to dig deep into all the factors that keep a Relationship Alive and Thriving! Each week Neil brings you an in-depth interview with a relationship expert. Neil is an author and relationship coach who is enthusiastic and passionate about relationships and the nuts and bolts of what makes them last. You can find out more about Neil Sattin and the Relationship Alive podcast at http://www.neilsattin.com

  1. 1.
    159: What Is a Realistic Expectation for Change in Your Relationship?21 September 2018
    14:55
  2. 2.
    158: Loving Completely - Integrating Science, Heart, and Spirit - with Keith Witt12 September 2018
    1:15:06
  3. 3.
    157: Celebrating and Taking Stock6 September 2018
    29:58
  4. 4.
    156: Rethinking Narcissism and Its Impact on Your Relationship - with Craig Malkin29 August 2018
    1:18:21
  5. 5.
    155: How to Communicate about Something You've Been Avoiding22 August 2018
    51:49
  6. 6.
    154: What's Different and What's Universal - Gay Male Relationships - with Rick Miller14 August 2018
    1:07:12
  7. 7.
    153: Turn Blame into Something Positive - with Neil Sattin9 August 2018
    48:37
  8. 8.
    152: Get Unstuck and onto the Same Team - Relationship Development with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson1 August 2018
    59:14
  1. 9.
    151: How to Stop Coping and Start Growing25 July 2018
    1:02:11
  2. 10.
    150: Attachment Styles and Relationship Repair - with Stan Tatkin19 July 2018
    1:19:01
  3. 11.
    149: Getting Back Together with an Ex - Should You? How to do it right.11 July 2018
    36:40
  4. 12.
    148: How to Strengthen the Safety and Resilience of Your Relationship - with Gabrielli LaChiara5 July 2018
    1:18:39
  5. 13.
    147: A Simple, Radical Way to Improve Your Ability to Connect28 June 2018
    18:44
  6. 14.
    146: How and Why to Have a Good Divorce - with Constance Ahrons19 June 2018
    53:28
  7. 15.
    145: Core Relationship Principles #3 - Fostering Curiosity and Dismantling Limiting Stories - with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin13 June 2018
    35:24
  8. 16.
    144: Extreme Self Care for a Healthy Relationship - with Cheryl Richardson6 June 2018
    52:39
  9. 17.
    143: Mismatched Sex Drive? What To Do.29 May 2018
    41:35
  10. 18.
    142: Loving Bravely - How Self Discovery Can Transform Your Relationship - with Alexandra Solomon19 May 2018
    1:16:23
  11. 19.
    141: Is Your Relationship Healthy? - with Neil Sattin11 May 2018
    24:05
  12. 20.
    140: Mastering the Art of Inner Transformation - Internal Family Systems with Dick Schwartz3 May 2018
    1:20:21
  13. 21.
    139: Change Your Pattern - How to BE an Invitation26 April 2018
    22:55
  14. 22.
    138: How Orgasms are Hurting Your Relationship - with Marnia Robinson - from the Archives18 April 2018
    1:06:58
  15. 23.
    137: Calling in The One - No Matter Your Status - with Katherine Woodward Thomas11 April 2018
    1:09:38
  16. 24.
    136: An Important Action Step for Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin4 April 2018
    29:20
  17. 25.
    135: Improve Your Communication Skills for Deeper Understanding - with Deborah Tannen28 March 2018
    1:08:20
  18. 26.
    134: Snooping, Secrets, and Rebuilding Trust - What to Do - with Neil Sattin20 March 2018
    50:25
  19. 27.
    133: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life - Cognitive Distortions with Dr. David Burns15 March 2018
    1:32:22
  20. 28.
    132: Core Relationship Principles #2 - Finding Play, Humor, Fun, and Lightness - with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin6 March 2018
    52:56
  21. 29.
    131: How Love is Evolving You - Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere28 February 2018
    1:09:57
  22. 30.
    130: On Valentine's Day and Uncertainty in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin20 February 2018
    41:02
  23. 31.
    129: Unlocking the Secrets of The Smart Couple - with Jayson Gaddis14 February 2018
    1:07:10
  24. 32.
    128: Practical Masculinity: Beyond Stereotypes - with Shana James3 February 2018
    52:53
  25. 33.
    127: Peter Levine - Building Resiliency in Yourself, Your Relationship, and Your Children31 January 2018
    1:07:06
  26. 34.
    126: Core Relationship Principles #1: Mutual Support without Codependence - with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin23 January 2018
    51:07
  27. 35.
    125: Developing the "Yes Brain" in Yourself and Your Kids - with Dan Siegel13 January 2018
    51:09
  28. 36.
    124: Jealousy - How to Deal and Heal9 January 2018
    48:45
  29. 37.
    123: Pleasure is the Measure: The Science of Sex and Desire - with Emily Nagoski1 January 2018
    1:06:22
  30. 38.
    122: The Science of Empathy and How to Keep Yourself Clear26 December 2017
    35:37
  31. 39.
    121: Tackling the Fears of Loneliness and Abandonment19 December 2017
    25:25
  32. 40.
    120: Strengthen Your Connection: Undefended Love with Jett Psaris12 December 2017
    1:09:00
  33. 41.
    119: The Most Important Thing Is What You Bring6 December 2017
    25:38
  34. 42.
    118: Crafting an Uncommon Bond and Soulshaping - with Jeff Brown28 November 2017
    1:14:59
  35. 43.
    117: Why Projection Can Be Useful - Neil Sattin21 November 2017
    23:18
  36. 44.
    116: Sex, Love, and Dating: From Addiction to Health with Alex Katehakis14 November 2017
    53:40
  37. 45.
    115: The Courage to Not Be Perfect - with Neil Sattin6 November 2017
    33:50
  38. 46.
    114: How to Get the Most Out of Therapy - with Jeff Zeig31 October 2017
    1:04:25
  39. 47.
    113: How to Find Healing and Connection in a Dark Time - with Neil Sattin24 October 2017
    46:42
  40. 48.
    112: How and Why to Apologize Effectively with Harriet Lerner18 October 2017
    1:06:25
  41. 49.
    111: How to Ask for Support - with Neil Sattin10 October 2017
    32:10
  42. 50.
    110: Your Tantra Questions Answered - with Diana Richardson4 October 2017
    41:59
  43. 51.
    109: Is This Normal?26 September 2017
    15:55
  44. 52.
    108: Creating Positive Intensity in Your Connection with Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt19 September 2017
    57:18
  45. 53.
    107: A Little Honesty Goes a Long Way13 September 2017
    28:11
  46. 54.
    106: Stopping The Nice Guy Syndrome with Robert Glover6 September 2017
    1:11:40
  47. 55.
    105: One Small Thing That Can Change Everything29 August 2017
    25:59
  48. 56.
    104: How to Get What You Need - Nonviolent Communication with Max Rivers22 August 2017
    1:13:47
  49. 57.
    103: Are You Being Codependent or Considerate?15 August 2017
    23:54
  50. 58.
    102: How to Evolve Your Relationship with Jeffrey Zeig8 August 2017
    47:55
  51. 59.
    101: A User Manual for You2 August 2017
    8:57
  52. 60.
    100: Attraction - How to Sustain It and How to Revive It - with John Gottman and Sue Johnson22 July 2017
    1:21:17
  53. 61.
    99: The Secrets of Scheduling Sex Successfully17 July 2017
    38:48
  54. 62.
    98: How to Stop Being a Victim - Feeling Good Together with David Burns11 July 2017
    1:23:05
  55. 63.
    A Brief Interlude5 July 2017
    4:49
  56. 64.
    97: How to Enlist Your Friends to Support Your Relationship27 June 2017
    22:15
  57. 65.
    96: How to Transform the Hidden Beliefs that Hold You Back with Katherine Woodward Thomas20 June 2017
    1:02:25
  58. 66.
    95: Who is Holding You Back?13 June 2017
    18:46
  59. 67.
    94: Conscious Weddings and Commitment with Lila Sophia and David Tresemer6 June 2017
    1:10:43
  60. 68.
    93: How to Find the Gift in Any Moment31 May 2017
    18:53
  61. 69.
    92: Creating New Possibilities from the Inside Out - Winning from Within - Erica Ariel Fox23 May 2017
    1:10:17
  62. 70.
    91: The Power of Deep Relating16 May 2017
    26:59
  63. 71.
    90: Heal Your Relationship at the Deepest Level With Hedy Schleifer6 May 2017
    1:36:55
  64. 72.
    89: How to Have a Healthy Long Distance Relationship2 May 2017
    46:58
  65. 73.
    88: Helen Fisher - The Anatomy of Love: What Makes Love Last22 April 2017
    58:31
  66. 74.
    87: How to Know If Someone Is Right for You19 April 2017
    29:26
  67. 75.
    86: Beyond Mars and Venus - Reducing Stress and Improving Nutrition with John Gray9 April 2017
    1:21:00
  68. 76.
    85: How and Why to Take Space5 April 2017
    25:29
  69. 77.
    84: Deepening the Divine in Your Relationship - Andrew Harvey28 March 2017
    1:11:48
  70. 78.
    83: How to Be OK No Matter What22 March 2017
    25:21
  71. 79.
    82: How Safety Leads to Better Sex - Sue Johnson15 March 2017
    58:52
  72. 80.
    81: Are You Addicted to Distraction?8 March 2017
    17:38
  73. 81.
    80: Bring Your Shadow Into the Light - Keith Witt28 February 2017
    1:28:40
  74. 82.
    79: How To Speak Your Truth22 February 2017
    20:06
  75. 83.
    78: How to Have More Fun in Your Relationship with Cathy Salit14 February 2017
    57:18
  76. 84.
    77: 21 Days to Deeper Intimacy9 February 2017
    7:00
  77. 85.
    76: Healing from Infidelity with Michele Weiner Davis1 February 2017
    1:23:25
  78. 86.
    75: A Powerful Oxytocin Booster for Your Relationship26 January 2017
    12:32
  79. 87.
    74: John Gottman - How to Build Trust and Positive Energy in Your Relationship18 January 2017
    53:18
  80. 88.
    73: Neil Sattin - If It Were Easy You Would Already Be Doing It11 January 2017
    10:19
  81. 89.
    72: Love, Sex, and Awakening with Margot Anand4 January 2017
    1:04:28
  82. 90.
    71: Just One Thing29 December 2016
    7:58
  83. 91.
    70: How to Get Your Partner to Do What You Want21 December 2016
    13:53
  84. 92.
    69: How to Be Completely Alive in Your Relationship - Hedy Schleifer13 December 2016
    1:25:49
  85. 93.
    68: Are You Willing?7 December 2016
    15:54
  86. 94.
    67: How to Get Your Ex Back with Chris Seiter29 November 2016
    1:10:20
  87. 95.
    66: The Impact of Gratitude23 November 2016
    11:10
  88. 96.
    65: Divorce Busting and Strategies for Relationship Success with Michele Weiner Davis15 November 2016
    1:28:46
  89. 97.
    64: How to Amplify the Positive in Your Relationship9 November 2016
    13:43
  90. 98.
    63: Dan Wile - How Collaboration Creates Intimacy2 November 2016
    1:10:36
  91. 99.
    62: Neil Sattin: The Secrets of Relationship Repair27 October 2016
    34:39
  92. 100.
    61: Orgasmic Meditation with Aubrey Fuller19 October 2016
    1:09:29
  93. 101.
    60: Neil Sattin on Risk, Vulnerability, and Courage13 October 2016
    21:48
  94. 102.
    59: How to Make Difficult Conversations So Much Easier with Sheila Heen5 October 2016
    1:27:05
  95. 103.
    58: Self-Care: A Crucial Step with Neil Sattin29 September 2016
    23:01
  96. 104.
    57: Mastering Mindfulness in Your Relationship - with Dan Siegel21 September 2016
    56:39
  97. 105.
    56 - How to Create Amazing Days with Your Partner15 September 2016
    16:31
  98. 106.
    55: Defeating Emotional Blackmail and Manipulation with Susan Forward7 September 2016
    55:09
  99. 107.
    54: A Quick Practice to Change Everything About Your Relationship with Neil Sattin31 August 2016
    8:29
  100. 108.
    53: How to Embrace Your Fear of Intimacy with Ken Page19 August 2016
    41:01
  101. 109.
    52: Intimacy and Connection from the Inside Out with Toni Herbine-Blank16 August 2016
    1:11:32
  102. 110.
    51: Neil Sattin: How to Get Inspired in Your Relationship11 August 2016
    11:26
  103. 111.
    50: Wired for Dating and Love - Psychobiology with Stan Tatkin2 August 2016
    1:03:23
  104. 112.
    49: How to Figure Out What You Really Want with Neil Sattin27 July 2016
    19:20
  105. 113.
    48: Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs and Show Up Fully with Kyle Cease19 July 2016
    1:27:46
  106. 114.
    47: The Best Ways to Come Back into Balance When You're Triggered with Neil Sattin12 July 2016
    38:39
  107. 115.
    46: Finding Freedom in Commitment with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin5 July 2016
    57:52
  108. 116.
    45: Overcoming Jealousy and What About Polyamory with Janet W Hardy29 June 2016
    1:08:22
  109. 117.
    44: How to Know if It's Worth It with Neil Sattin22 June 2016
    42:46
  110. 118.
    43: Recovering from Infidelity: From Chaos to Connected with Terry Real15 June 2016
    40:24
  111. 119.
    42: How to Invite Intimacy through Deeper Presence with Guy Sengstock7 June 2016
    1:14:03
  112. 120.
    41: Unlock New Potential in Life and Love with Curiosity and Presence with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin1 June 2016
    48:44
  113. 121.
    40: Transform Your Boundaries with Sarri Gilman23 May 2016
    1:15:55
  114. 122.
    39: Catching Up With Neil Sattin18 May 2016
    5:04
  115. 123.
    38: Successful Stepcoupling for Blended Families with Susan Wisdom10 May 2016
    55:42
  116. 124.
    37: Oxytocin: the Molecule of Love with Sue Carter3 May 2016
    1:00:00
  117. 125.
    36: Relationship Repair after an Affair: Infidelity with Janis Abrahms Spring26 April 2016
    50:27
  118. 126.
    35: Happy Kids, Better Relationship: Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn19 April 2016
    32:43
  119. 127.
    34: The Science of Safety with Stephen Porges11 April 2016
    1:09:18
  120. 128.
    33: How and Why to Forgive with Fred Luskin5 April 2016
    45:48
  121. 129.
    32: Mastering Communication in Three Dimensions with Marty Babits28 March 2016
    1:08:11
  122. 130.
    31: Strategic Wisdom to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level with Shannon Waller21 March 2016
    1:06:22
  123. 131.
    30: Sparking Attraction Through Inspiration Not Deprivation - Deeper Dating with Ken Page16 March 2016
    55:20
  124. 132.
    29: How to Heal Your Triggers and Trauma with Peter Levine8 March 2016
    44:49
  125. 133.
    28: Healthy Polarity, Energetic Connection, and the Work of David Deida with Michaela Boehm1 March 2016
    52:47
  126. 134.
    27: Breaking Free from Your Patterns of Conflict with Sue Johnson23 February 2016
    58:23
  127. 135.
    26: How to Get All the Parts within You to Work Together (and with Your Partner) with Dick Schwartz16 February 2016
    1:09:42
  128. 136.
    25: Get Your Ego Out of the Way - How to Be an Adult in Love with Dave Richo9 February 2016
    1:10:08
  129. 137.
    24: Why We Lie and How to Get Back to the Truth with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson3 February 2016
    47:00
  130. 138.
    23: Useful Things You Never Knew about Feminine Sexuality with Sheri Winston27 January 2016
    1:05:24
  131. 139.
    22: Essential Skills for Conscious Relationship with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt19 January 2016
    56:06
  132. 140.
    21: Healing Pain from Past or Present Breakups through Conscious Uncoupling with Katherine Woodward Thomas12 January 2016
    45:07
  133. 141.
    20: Sparking Passion through Generosity and Being Authentically Yourself with Shana James5 January 2016
    55:58
  134. 142.
    19: Recipe for a Secure, Healthy Relationship with Stan Tatkin29 December 2015
    1:26:58
  135. 143.
    18: Integration Time with Neil Sattin21 December 2015
    5:06
  136. 144.
    17: Stop Worrying, Start Playing - The Art of Improvisation with Patti Stiles15 December 2015
    1:13:24
  137. 145.
    16: Expanding Your View of What's Possible in Relationship with Gabrielli LaChiara8 December 2015
    1:05:33
  138. 146.
    15: How to Thrive in Long Term Relationships with Gay Hendricks1 December 2015
    47:42
  139. 147.
    14: Heal the Split between Head and Heart: Inner Bonding with Margaret Paul24 November 2015
    1:01:52
  140. 148.
    13: Resolve Conflict and Create Intimacy through Attunement with Keith Witt17 November 2015
    1:22:30
  141. 149.
    12: How to Turn Your Anger into a Force for Good with Harriet Lerner10 November 2015
    54:03
  142. 150.
    11: Take Back Your Power from Porn with Gary Wilson3 November 2015
    50:06
  143. 151.
    10: How to Get Off the Rollercoaster and Get Back to Love with Diana Richardson27 October 2015
    58:26
  144. 152.
    09: Deeper Intimacy Through Sexual Healing with Wendy Maltz20 October 2015
    1:03:14
  145. 153.
    08: How To Tackle The Hard Questions with Susan Piver13 October 2015
    38:48
  146. 154.
    07: From Problems to Passion with Katie Hendricks6 October 2015
    42:27
  147. 155.
    06: How to Deepen Intimacy Through Shared Consciousness with Patricia Albere29 September 2015
    1:00:39
  148. 156.
    05: How Orgasms Are Hurting Your Relationship (and how to fix it) - Marnia Robinson22 September 2015
    1:01:27
  149. 157.
    04: Advanced Relationship Jiu Jitsu with Terry Real15 September 2015
    1:02:09
  150. 158.
    03: Katherine Woodward Thomas - Overcoming Your Barriers to Love and Connection6 September 2015
    50:23
  151. 159.
    02: Diana Richardson - Discover the Power of Slow Sex6 September 2015
    57:04
  152. 160.
    01: John Gottman - How to Be a Master of Relationship6 September 2015
    1:00:20

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