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Relationship Alive!

By neilius@neilsattin.com

Neil Sattin interviews John Gottman, Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Peter Levine, Stan Tatkin, Dick Schwartz, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Diana Richardson, Terry Real, Wendy Maltz - and many others - in his quest to dig deep into all the factors that keep a Relationship Alive and Thriving! Each week Neil brings you an in-depth interview with a relationship expert. Neil is an author and relationship coach who is enthusiastic and passionate about relationships and the nuts and bolts of what makes them last. You can find out more about Neil Sattin and the Relationship Alive podcast at http://www.neilsattin.com

  1. 1.
    166: Are You Addicted to Love and Relationships? - with Sherry Gaba11/06/2018
    57:41
  2. 2.
    165: Should You Start Over with Someone New?10/31/2018
    32:56
  3. 3.
    164: How Love Can Dissolve Conflict - Relationship Magic with Guy Finley10/26/2018
    1:17:28
  4. 4.
    163: A Surprising Way to Create More Generosity in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin10/18/2018
    18:50
  5. 5.
    162: Pleasure, Touch, and The Wheel of Consent - with Betty Martin10/12/2018
    1:18:09
  6. 6.
    161: A Crucial Key for Building Trust in Your Relationship10/05/2018
    13:49
  7. 7.
    160: The Four Noble Truths of Love and Relationship - with Susan Piver09/26/2018
    58:41
  8. 8.
    159: What Is a Realistic Expectation for Change in Your Relationship?09/21/2018
    14:55
  1. 9.
    158: Loving Completely - Integrating Science, Heart, and Spirit - with Keith Witt09/12/2018
    1:15:06
  2. 10.
    157: Celebrating and Taking Stock09/06/2018
    29:58
  3. 11.
    156: Rethinking Narcissism and Its Impact on Your Relationship - with Craig Malkin08/29/2018
    1:18:21
  4. 12.
    155: How to Communicate about Something You've Been Avoiding08/22/2018
    51:49
  5. 13.
    154: What's Different and What's Universal - Gay Male Relationships - with Rick Miller08/14/2018
    1:07:12
  6. 14.
    153: Turn Blame into Something Positive - with Neil Sattin08/09/2018
    48:37
  7. 15.
    152: Get Unstuck and onto the Same Team - Relationship Development with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson08/01/2018
    59:14
  8. 16.
    151: How to Stop Coping and Start Growing07/25/2018
    1:02:11
  9. 17.
    150: Attachment Styles and Relationship Repair - with Stan Tatkin07/19/2018
    1:19:01
  10. 18.
    149: Getting Back Together with an Ex - Should You? How to do it right.07/11/2018
    36:40
  11. 19.
    148: How to Strengthen the Safety and Resilience of Your Relationship - with Gabrielli LaChiara07/05/2018
    1:18:39
  12. 20.
    147: A Simple, Radical Way to Improve Your Ability to Connect06/28/2018
    18:44
  13. 21.
    146: How and Why to Have a Good Divorce - with Constance Ahrons06/19/2018
    53:28
  14. 22.
    145: Core Relationship Principles #3 - Fostering Curiosity and Dismantling Limiting Stories - with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin06/13/2018
    35:24
  15. 23.
    144: Extreme Self Care for a Healthy Relationship - with Cheryl Richardson06/06/2018
    52:39
  16. 24.
    143: Mismatched Sex Drive? What To Do.05/29/2018
    41:35
  17. 25.
    142: Loving Bravely - How Self Discovery Can Transform Your Relationship - with Alexandra Solomon05/19/2018
    1:16:23
  18. 26.
    141: Is Your Relationship Healthy? - with Neil Sattin05/11/2018
    24:05
  19. 27.
    140: Mastering the Art of Inner Transformation - Internal Family Systems with Dick Schwartz05/03/2018
    1:20:21
  20. 28.
    139: Change Your Pattern - How to BE an Invitation04/26/2018
    22:55
  21. 29.
    138: How Orgasms are Hurting Your Relationship - with Marnia Robinson - from the Archives04/18/2018
    1:06:58
  22. 30.
    137: Calling in The One - No Matter Your Status - with Katherine Woodward Thomas04/11/2018
    1:09:38
  23. 31.
    136: An Important Action Step for Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin04/04/2018
    29:20
  24. 32.
    135: Improve Your Communication Skills for Deeper Understanding - with Deborah Tannen03/28/2018
    1:08:20
  25. 33.
    134: Snooping, Secrets, and Rebuilding Trust - What to Do - with Neil Sattin03/20/2018
    50:25
  26. 34.
    133: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life - Cognitive Distortions with Dr. David Burns03/15/2018
    1:32:22
  27. 35.
    132: Core Relationship Principles #2 - Finding Play, Humor, Fun, and Lightness - with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin03/06/2018
    52:56
  28. 36.
    131: How Love is Evolving You - Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere02/28/2018
    1:09:57
  29. 37.
    130: On Valentine's Day and Uncertainty in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin02/20/2018
    41:02
  30. 38.
    129: Unlocking the Secrets of The Smart Couple - with Jayson Gaddis02/14/2018
    1:07:10
  31. 39.
    128: Practical Masculinity: Beyond Stereotypes - with Shana James02/03/2018
    52:53
  32. 40.
    127: Peter Levine - Building Resiliency in Yourself, Your Relationship, and Your Children01/31/2018
    1:07:06
  33. 41.
    126: Core Relationship Principles #1: Mutual Support without Codependence - with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin01/23/2018
    51:07
  34. 42.
    125: Developing the "Yes Brain" in Yourself and Your Kids - with Dan Siegel01/13/2018
    51:09
  35. 43.
    124: Jealousy - How to Deal and Heal01/09/2018
    48:45
  36. 44.
    123: Pleasure is the Measure: The Science of Sex and Desire - with Emily Nagoski01/01/2018
    1:06:22
  37. 45.
    122: The Science of Empathy and How to Keep Yourself Clear12/26/2017
    35:37
  38. 46.
    121: Tackling the Fears of Loneliness and Abandonment12/19/2017
    25:25
  39. 47.
    120: Strengthen Your Connection: Undefended Love with Jett Psaris12/12/2017
    1:09:00
  40. 48.
    119: The Most Important Thing Is What You Bring12/06/2017
    25:38
  41. 49.
    118: Crafting an Uncommon Bond and Soulshaping - with Jeff Brown11/28/2017
    1:14:59
  42. 50.
    117: Why Projection Can Be Useful - Neil Sattin11/21/2017
    23:18
  43. 51.
    116: Sex, Love, and Dating: From Addiction to Health with Alex Katehakis11/14/2017
    53:40
  44. 52.
    115: The Courage to Not Be Perfect - with Neil Sattin11/06/2017
    33:50
  45. 53.
    114: How to Get the Most Out of Therapy - with Jeff Zeig10/31/2017
    1:04:25
  46. 54.
    113: How to Find Healing and Connection in a Dark Time - with Neil Sattin10/24/2017
    46:42
  47. 55.
    112: How and Why to Apologize Effectively with Harriet Lerner10/18/2017
    1:06:25
  48. 56.
    111: How to Ask for Support - with Neil Sattin10/10/2017
    32:10
  49. 57.
    110: Your Tantra Questions Answered - with Diana Richardson10/04/2017
    41:59
  50. 58.
    109: Is This Normal?09/26/2017
    15:55
  51. 59.
    108: Creating Positive Intensity in Your Connection with Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt09/19/2017
    57:18
  52. 60.
    107: A Little Honesty Goes a Long Way09/13/2017
    28:11
  53. 61.
    106: Stopping The Nice Guy Syndrome with Robert Glover09/06/2017
    1:11:40
  54. 62.
    105: One Small Thing That Can Change Everything08/29/2017
    25:59
  55. 63.
    104: How to Get What You Need - Nonviolent Communication with Max Rivers08/22/2017
    1:13:47
  56. 64.
    103: Are You Being Codependent or Considerate?08/15/2017
    23:54
  57. 65.
    102: How to Evolve Your Relationship with Jeffrey Zeig08/08/2017
    47:55
  58. 66.
    101: A User Manual for You08/02/2017
    8:57
  59. 67.
    100: Attraction - How to Sustain It and How to Revive It - with John Gottman and Sue Johnson07/22/2017
    1:21:17
  60. 68.
    99: The Secrets of Scheduling Sex Successfully07/17/2017
    38:48
  61. 69.
    98: How to Stop Being a Victim - Feeling Good Together with David Burns07/11/2017
    1:23:05
  62. 70.
    A Brief Interlude07/05/2017
    4:49
  63. 71.
    97: How to Enlist Your Friends to Support Your Relationship06/27/2017
    22:15
  64. 72.
    96: How to Transform the Hidden Beliefs that Hold You Back with Katherine Woodward Thomas06/20/2017
    1:02:25
  65. 73.
    95: Who is Holding You Back?06/13/2017
    18:46
  66. 74.
    94: Conscious Weddings and Commitment with Lila Sophia and David Tresemer06/06/2017
    1:10:43
  67. 75.
    93: How to Find the Gift in Any Moment05/31/2017
    18:53
  68. 76.
    92: Creating New Possibilities from the Inside Out - Winning from Within - Erica Ariel Fox05/23/2017
    1:10:17
  69. 77.
    91: The Power of Deep Relating05/16/2017
    26:59
  70. 78.
    90: Heal Your Relationship at the Deepest Level With Hedy Schleifer05/06/2017
    1:36:55
  71. 79.
    89: How to Have a Healthy Long Distance Relationship05/02/2017
    46:58
  72. 80.
    88: Helen Fisher - The Anatomy of Love: What Makes Love Last04/22/2017
    58:31
  73. 81.
    87: How to Know If Someone Is Right for You04/19/2017
    29:26
  74. 82.
    86: Beyond Mars and Venus - Reducing Stress and Improving Nutrition with John Gray04/09/2017
    1:21:00
  75. 83.
    85: How and Why to Take Space04/05/2017
    25:29
  76. 84.
    84: Deepening the Divine in Your Relationship - Andrew Harvey03/28/2017
    1:11:48
  77. 85.
    83: How to Be OK No Matter What03/22/2017
    25:21
  78. 86.
    82: How Safety Leads to Better Sex - Sue Johnson03/15/2017
    58:52
  79. 87.
    81: Are You Addicted to Distraction?03/08/2017
    17:38
  80. 88.
    80: Bring Your Shadow Into the Light - Keith Witt02/28/2017
    1:28:40
  81. 89.
    79: How To Speak Your Truth02/22/2017
    20:06
  82. 90.
    78: How to Have More Fun in Your Relationship with Cathy Salit02/14/2017
    57:18
  83. 91.
    77: 21 Days to Deeper Intimacy02/09/2017
    7:00
  84. 92.
    76: Healing from Infidelity with Michele Weiner Davis02/01/2017
    1:23:25
  85. 93.
    75: A Powerful Oxytocin Booster for Your Relationship01/26/2017
    12:32
  86. 94.
    74: John Gottman - How to Build Trust and Positive Energy in Your Relationship01/18/2017
    53:18
  87. 95.
    73: Neil Sattin - If It Were Easy You Would Already Be Doing It01/11/2017
    10:19
  88. 96.
    72: Love, Sex, and Awakening with Margot Anand01/04/2017
    1:04:28
  89. 97.
    71: Just One Thing12/29/2016
    7:58
  90. 98.
    70: How to Get Your Partner to Do What You Want12/21/2016
    13:53
  91. 99.
    69: How to Be Completely Alive in Your Relationship - Hedy Schleifer12/13/2016
    1:25:49
  92. 100.
    68: Are You Willing?12/07/2016
    15:54
  93. 101.
    67: How to Get Your Ex Back with Chris Seiter11/29/2016
    1:10:20
  94. 102.
    66: The Impact of Gratitude11/23/2016
    11:10
  95. 103.
    65: Divorce Busting and Strategies for Relationship Success with Michele Weiner Davis11/15/2016
    1:28:46
  96. 104.
    64: How to Amplify the Positive in Your Relationship11/09/2016
    13:43
  97. 105.
    63: Dan Wile - How Collaboration Creates Intimacy11/02/2016
    1:10:36
  98. 106.
    62: Neil Sattin: The Secrets of Relationship Repair10/27/2016
    34:39
  99. 107.
    61: Orgasmic Meditation with Aubrey Fuller10/19/2016
    1:09:29
  100. 108.
    60: Neil Sattin on Risk, Vulnerability, and Courage10/13/2016
    21:48
  101. 109.
    59: How to Make Difficult Conversations So Much Easier with Sheila Heen10/05/2016
    1:27:05
  102. 110.
    58: Self-Care: A Crucial Step with Neil Sattin09/29/2016
    23:01
  103. 111.
    57: Mastering Mindfulness in Your Relationship - with Dan Siegel09/21/2016
    56:39
  104. 112.
    56 - How to Create Amazing Days with Your Partner09/15/2016
    16:31
  105. 113.
    55: Defeating Emotional Blackmail and Manipulation with Susan Forward09/07/2016
    55:09
  106. 114.
    54: A Quick Practice to Change Everything About Your Relationship with Neil Sattin08/31/2016
    8:29
  107. 115.
    53: How to Embrace Your Fear of Intimacy with Ken Page08/19/2016
    41:01
  108. 116.
    52: Intimacy and Connection from the Inside Out with Toni Herbine-Blank08/16/2016
    1:11:32
  109. 117.
    51: Neil Sattin: How to Get Inspired in Your Relationship08/11/2016
    11:26
  110. 118.
    50: Wired for Dating and Love - Psychobiology with Stan Tatkin08/02/2016
    1:03:23
  111. 119.
    49: How to Figure Out What You Really Want with Neil Sattin07/27/2016
    19:20
  112. 120.
    48: Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs and Show Up Fully with Kyle Cease07/19/2016
    1:27:46
  113. 121.
    47: The Best Ways to Come Back into Balance When You're Triggered with Neil Sattin07/12/2016
    38:39
  114. 122.
    46: Finding Freedom in Commitment with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin07/05/2016
    57:52
  115. 123.
    45: Overcoming Jealousy and What About Polyamory with Janet W Hardy06/29/2016
    1:08:22
  116. 124.
    44: How to Know if It's Worth It with Neil Sattin06/22/2016
    42:46
  117. 125.
    43: Recovering from Infidelity: From Chaos to Connected with Terry Real06/15/2016
    40:24
  118. 126.
    42: How to Invite Intimacy through Deeper Presence with Guy Sengstock06/07/2016
    1:14:03
  119. 127.
    41: Unlock New Potential in Life and Love with Curiosity and Presence with Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin06/01/2016
    48:44
  120. 128.
    40: Transform Your Boundaries with Sarri Gilman05/23/2016
    1:15:55
  121. 129.
    39: Catching Up With Neil Sattin05/18/2016
    5:04
  122. 130.
    38: Successful Stepcoupling for Blended Families with Susan Wisdom05/10/2016
    55:42
  123. 131.
    37: Oxytocin: the Molecule of Love with Sue Carter05/03/2016
    1:00:00
  124. 132.
    36: Relationship Repair after an Affair: Infidelity with Janis Abrahms Spring04/26/2016
    50:27
  125. 133.
    35: Happy Kids, Better Relationship: Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn04/19/2016
    32:43
  126. 134.
    34: The Science of Safety with Stephen Porges04/11/2016
    1:09:18
  127. 135.
    33: How and Why to Forgive with Fred Luskin04/05/2016
    45:48
  128. 136.
    32: Mastering Communication in Three Dimensions with Marty Babits03/28/2016
    1:08:11
  129. 137.
    31: Strategic Wisdom to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level with Shannon Waller03/21/2016
    1:06:22
  130. 138.
    30: Sparking Attraction Through Inspiration Not Deprivation - Deeper Dating with Ken Page03/16/2016
    55:20
  131. 139.
    29: How to Heal Your Triggers and Trauma with Peter Levine03/08/2016
    44:49
  132. 140.
    28: Healthy Polarity, Energetic Connection, and the Work of David Deida with Michaela Boehm03/01/2016
    52:47
  133. 141.
    27: Breaking Free from Your Patterns of Conflict with Sue Johnson02/23/2016
    58:23
  134. 142.
    26: How to Get All the Parts within You to Work Together (and with Your Partner) with Dick Schwartz02/16/2016
    1:09:42
  135. 143.
    25: Get Your Ego Out of the Way - How to Be an Adult in Love with Dave Richo02/09/2016
    1:10:08
  136. 144.
    24: Why We Lie and How to Get Back to the Truth with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson02/03/2016
    47:00
  137. 145.
    23: Useful Things You Never Knew about Feminine Sexuality with Sheri Winston01/27/2016
    1:05:24
  138. 146.
    22: Essential Skills for Conscious Relationship with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt01/19/2016
    56:06
  139. 147.
    21: Healing Pain from Past or Present Breakups through Conscious Uncoupling with Katherine Woodward Thomas01/12/2016
    45:07
  140. 148.
    20: Sparking Passion through Generosity and Being Authentically Yourself with Shana James01/05/2016
    55:58
  141. 149.
    19: Recipe for a Secure, Healthy Relationship with Stan Tatkin12/29/2015
    1:26:58
  142. 150.
    18: Integration Time with Neil Sattin12/21/2015
    5:06
  143. 151.
    17: Stop Worrying, Start Playing - The Art of Improvisation with Patti Stiles12/15/2015
    1:13:24
  144. 152.
    16: Expanding Your View of What's Possible in Relationship with Gabrielli LaChiara12/08/2015
    1:05:33
  145. 153.
    15: How to Thrive in Long Term Relationships with Gay Hendricks12/01/2015
    47:42
  146. 154.
    14: Heal the Split between Head and Heart: Inner Bonding with Margaret Paul11/24/2015
    1:01:52
  147. 155.
    13: Resolve Conflict and Create Intimacy through Attunement with Keith Witt11/17/2015
    1:22:30
  148. 156.
    12: How to Turn Your Anger into a Force for Good with Harriet Lerner11/10/2015
    54:03
  149. 157.
    11: Take Back Your Power from Porn with Gary Wilson11/03/2015
    50:06
  150. 158.
    10: How to Get Off the Rollercoaster and Get Back to Love with Diana Richardson10/27/2015
    58:26
  151. 159.
    09: Deeper Intimacy Through Sexual Healing with Wendy Maltz10/20/2015
    1:03:14
  152. 160.
    08: How To Tackle The Hard Questions with Susan Piver10/13/2015
    38:48
  153. 161.
    07: From Problems to Passion with Katie Hendricks10/06/2015
    42:27
  154. 162.
    06: How to Deepen Intimacy Through Shared Consciousness with Patricia Albere09/29/2015
    1:00:39
  155. 163.
    05: How Orgasms Are Hurting Your Relationship (and how to fix it) - Marnia Robinson09/22/2015
    1:01:27
  156. 164.
    04: Advanced Relationship Jiu Jitsu with Terry Real09/15/2015
    1:02:09
  157. 165.
    03: Katherine Woodward Thomas - Overcoming Your Barriers to Love and Connection09/06/2015
    50:23
  158. 166.
    02: Diana Richardson - Discover the Power of Slow Sex09/06/2015
    57:04
  159. 167.
    01: John Gottman - How to Be a Master of Relationship09/06/2015
    1:00:20

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