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U Up?

By Betches Media

U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @uuppod on Instagram.

  1. 1.
    Is It Normal To Keep Track Of Every Date You’ve Been On?01/13/2021
    1:14:53
  2. 2.
    How To Spot An A*shole Who’s Pretending He’s a Nice Guy01/10/2021
    18:16
  3. 3.
    Is There Ever A Chance A Long Term Hook Up Can Turn Into A Relationship?01/06/2021
    1:06:24
  4. 4.
    Is It a Bad Sign if He’s Saying He Doesn’t Want to See Me Until the Pandemic is Over?01/03/2021
    16:56
  5. 5.
    How To Move On In The Midst Of A Pandemic12/30/2020
    1:18:08
  6. 6.
    How To Get A Guy Who Won't Date You To Stop Looking At Your Instagram Story12/27/2020
    20:05
  7. 7.
    How Do I Get Over An Ex Moving On Too Quickly? Ft. Bo Burnham12/23/2020
    1:37:23
  8. 8.
    Is It Possible To Turn An Out-Of-Town Fling Into Something Real?12/20/2020
    23:00
  1. 9.
    Here Are The Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Trying To Break Up With You12/16/2020
    1:09:09
  2. 10.
    Does A Random “How Are You?” Text Mean They’re Looking To Hookup?12/13/2020
    21:20
  3. 11.
    How Do I Relay That I Want An Expensive Engagement Ring Without Seeming Shallow?12/09/2020
    1:30:22
  4. 12.
    Why Would An Ex Swipe Right On My Dating Profile?12/06/2020
    23:36
  5. 13.
    Is It Okay To Judge Someone You're Dating By Their Friend Group?12/02/2020
    1:21:26
  6. 14.
    These Are The Signs You Shouldn’t Go On That First Date11/29/2020
    18:09
  7. 15.
    Do I Have a Right To Ask The Guy I'm Seeing Why He's Following Girls On Instagram?11/25/2020
    1:04:26
  8. 16.
    Is It Worse To Be A Cynical Dater Or A Naive Dater?11/22/2020
    22:20
  9. 17.
    How Soon Should You Expect To Get Daily Messages From A Person You Started Dating?11/18/2020
    1:19:11
  10. 18.
    Does It Count As Cheating If He's Getting Nudes From Someone He Never Met?11/15/2020
    28:55
  11. 19.
    Is It a Dealbreaker If Your Significant Other Won’t Get a Dog?11/11/2020
    1:13:42
  12. 20.
    Should I Keep Talking To Someone Who's In An Open Relationship?11/08/2020
    18:58
  13. 21.
    Where's the Line Between Being Shady and Wanting Privacy?11/04/2020
    1:23:16
  14. 22.
    Is It Ever Too Early To Tell a Guy You’re Really Into Him?11/01/2020
    25:42
  15. 23.
    Is It Time to Start Accepting That Closure Isn’t A Real Thing?10/28/2020
    1:25:23
  16. 24.
    Is It Possible To Wait Too Long To Have Sex With Someone?10/25/2020
    19:06
  17. 25.
    Can I Improve My Dating Life By Moving to a New City?10/21/2020
    1:24:55
  18. 26.
    Is It Worse To Do The Slow Fade Or Ghost Someone Completely?10/18/2020
    22:38
  19. 27.
    Should I Stop Seeing A Guy That Won’t Call Me His Girlfriend?10/14/2020
    1:19:47
  20. 28.
    How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Talk About His Erectile Dysfunction?10/11/2020
    32:47
  21. 29.
    Is It Fair To Judge My Partner For Not Being Ambitious Enough?10/07/2020
    1:05:32
  22. 30.
    What's the Best Way to Handle Rejection?10/04/2020
    23:42
  23. 31.
    Should We Stop Asking People What They’re “Looking For” On A Dating App?09/30/2020
    1:29:43
  24. 32.
    Should I Reach Back Out To Someone Who Ghosted Me?09/27/2020
    17:48
  25. 33.
    Can You Ask Someone To Delete Your Nudes After You Break Up?09/23/2020
    1:12:25
  26. 34.
    How Detailed Should A Breakup Text Be After Just A Few Dates?09/20/2020
    22:01
  27. 35.
    Can You Ever Assume You’re In A Relationship With Someone Without Having “The Talk”?09/16/2020
    1:09:52
  28. 36.
    How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Spend More Time With Me? Ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein (Jordana’s Sister)09/13/2020
    53:29
  29. 37.
    Why Does He Keep Texting Me If He Won’t Make A Date?09/09/2020
    1:03:09
  30. 38.
    How Do You Signal To A Guy That It’s Okay To Approach You In Public? Ft. Girls Gotta Eat09/06/2020
    49:23
  31. 39.
    Is It A Red Flag If Someone Expresses Strong Feelings Right Away?09/02/2020
    1:04:59
  32. 40.
    The One Where We Talk About Indian Matchmaking Ft. Aparna Shewakramani08/30/2020
    45:45
  33. 41.
    Should I Be Worried That My Boyfriend Won’t Talk About Marriage?08/26/2020
    1:12:56
  34. 42.
    Is It Normal To Obsess Over My Boyfriend’s Ex?08/23/2020
    21:51
  35. 43.
    How To Interpret An Ex's Viewing Of Your Instagram Stories08/19/2020
    1:31:26
  36. 44.
    Do You Deserve An Explanation If Someone Ends Things After the Third Date?08/16/2020
    31:06
  37. 45.
    Is It Possible To Go From Sexting To Dating?08/12/2020
    1:03:52
  38. 46.
    The One Where Jordana Got Engaged08/09/2020
    39:17
  39. 47.
    Why Do People Keep Cancelling On Me Before Dates?08/05/2020
    1:15:05
  40. 48.
    Is It Okay To Be Jealous Of My Boyfriend’s Hot Female Friend?07/29/2020
    1:22:59
  41. 49.
    How to Judge a Guy By His Birthday Text07/22/2020
    1:35:19
  42. 50.
    Why Are Some People Always In Relationships And Others Always Single?07/15/2020
    1:27:00
  43. 51.
    How Do I Get My Partner To Compliment Me More?07/08/2020
    1:22:10
  44. 52.
    Should I Respond To A Random Text From An Ex?07/01/2020
    1:24:53
  45. 53.
    How Do I Get My Partner To Improve Without Insulting Them?06/24/2020
    1:35:35
  46. 54.
    Why Was My Ex Able To Move On So Fast And I Can’t?06/17/2020
    1:31:45
  47. 55.
    Is It A Huge Mistake To Tell A Guy That You’re Open To Something Casual?06/10/2020
    1:44:29
  48. 56.
    Is It Okay To Ask Your Quarantine Fling Not To Hook Up With Others?06/03/2020
    1:35:45
  49. 57.
    Is This Relationship Real Or Just A Quarantine Distraction?05/27/2020
    1:30:22
  50. 58.
    Is It Okay To Like Photos Of Your Friend’s Ex?05/20/2020
    1:24:45
  51. 59.
    Should Couples Stop Moving In Together Before Getting Engaged?05/13/2020
    1:27:42
  52. 60.
    Who Gets To Decide Where You Quarantine As A Couple? Ft. Mark Manson05/06/2020
    1:29:48
  53. 61.
    How To Tell If You’re Bored In Your Relationship Or Just Bored Of Quarantine04/29/2020
    1:29:57
  54. 62.
    What Do You Do When You’re Fed Up With Quarantine Dating?04/22/2020
    1:32:58
  55. 63.
    This Is What It’s Like To Quarantine In A New Relationship Ft. Sam Morril & Taylor Tomlinson04/15/2020
    1:17:25
  56. 64.
    Are You Willing To Go On A FaceTime First Date? Ft. Nicole Byer04/08/2020
    1:19:37
  57. 65.
    How Do I Know If My Partner Is Ready To Move In With Me?04/01/2020
    1:09:58
  58. 66.
    How To Admit That Your Toxic Hookup Is Never Going To Change03/25/2020
    1:27:54
  59. 67.
    Love In The Time Of Corona03/18/2020
    1:21:38
  60. 68.
    How Many Times Should I Let Him Reschedule?03/11/2020
    1:03:00
  61. 69.
    U Update: He Wouldn't Call Me His Girlfriend03/06/2020
    24:37
  62. 70.
    The One Where We Talk About Love is Blind03/04/2020
    1:28:33
  63. 71.
    How Do I Turn My Work Hookup Into A Real Relationship?02/26/2020
    1:06:00
  64. 72.
    Am I Allowed To Be Upset With My Partner About What They Did Before We Were Exclusive?02/19/2020
    1:21:38
  65. 73.
    Should You Expect A Valentine’s Day Date After A Month Of Dating?02/12/2020
    1:13:28
  66. 74.
    When Is It Time To Admit Your Long Distance Relationship Isn’t Working?02/05/2020
    1:11:15
  67. 75.
    Should I Come Clean About My Past On A First Date? Ft. Jordana’s Sister01/29/2020
    1:36:11
  68. 76.
    Is It A Bad Sign If My Partner Still Talks About Their Ex? Ft. Luann de Lesseps01/22/2020
    1:19:30
  69. 77.
    Why Do So Many Daters End Things At The Three Month Mark?01/15/2020
    1:07:21
  70. 78.
    What Should You Do If You Find Out Your Partner Cheated On Their Ex?01/08/2020
    1:10:12
  71. 79.
    How Do I Break The Cycle of Hooking Up With a Guy Who Won’t Date Me?01/01/2020
    1:18:50
  72. 80.
    How Do I Handle A Guy Who Tries to Make It Too Sexual Too Fast?12/25/2019
    1:09:44
  73. 81.
    Is It Important To Show Off The Person You’re Dating On Social Media?12/18/2019
    1:12:26
  74. 82.
    When Is The Right Time To Unfollow An Old Hookup?12/14/2019
    1:23:09
  75. 83.
    What Do I Do When My Partner Sucks At Buying Gifts?12/11/2019
    1:17:49
  76. 84.
    How Soon Can You Start Dating After A Breakup?12/04/2019
    1:14:12
  77. 85.
    Can You Ever Really Be Friends With An Ex?11/30/2019
    1:39:15
  78. 86.
    How Do I Avoid Being The Drunkest Person In The Room?11/27/2019
    1:23:43
  79. 87.
    How Do I Find Closure After An Unexpected Breakup?11/20/2019
    1:16:07
  80. 88.
    If A Guy Likes My Instagram, Does That Mean He Likes Me?11/16/2019
    1:25:47
  81. 89.
    Is It A Mistake To Follow Someone To Another City Just For Love?11/13/2019
    1:10:24
  82. 90.
    How Often Do I Need To Text My Significant Other While I’m Away?11/06/2019
    1:04:33
  83. 91.
    Would You Swipe Right On Someone From NSYNC? Ft. Joey Fatone11/02/2019
    1:26:43
  84. 92.
    What’s the Best Way To Decline a Request For Nudes?11/01/2019
    1:19:25
  85. 93.
    The Easiest Way To Get From A Dating App Convo To a First Date10/23/2019
    1:09:40
  86. 94.
    Do I Get To Care About Who My Partner Used To Sleep With?10/16/2019
    1:18:06
  87. 95.
    Is It Shallow To Only Want To Date Rich People?10/09/2019
    1:08:50
  88. 96.
    How Do I Confront My Partner About Their Terrible Texting? Ft. Jonathan Van Ness10/02/2019
    1:20:08
  89. 97.
    What’s the Best Way To Be Broken Up With?09/27/2019
    1:22:31
  90. 98.
    Why Are Guys So Afraid Of Commitment?09/25/2019
    1:19:31
  91. 99.
    What Counts As An Appropriate First Date Location?09/18/2019
    1:21:09
  92. 100.
    How Do I Bring Up Weird Instagram Activity Without Sounding Crazy?09/13/2019
    1:35:23
  93. 101.
    Should I Delete My Instagram Photos With My Ex? Ft. Rachel Lindsay & Travis Mills09/11/2019
    1:29:42
  94. 102.
    How Many Dates Should It Take To Decide if You Have Sexual Chemistry With Someone?09/04/2019
    1:29:50
  95. 103.
    Is It Hot Or Offensive To Leave Right After A Hookup? Ft. Tyler Cameron08/28/2019
    1:09:24
  96. 104.
    How Do I Slide Into A Guy’s DMs Without Seeming Desperate?08/21/2019
    1:10:45
  97. 105.
    How Do I Handle The Guy Who Wants To Take Things Slow?08/16/2019
    1:30:41
  98. 106.
    Does It Count As Cheating If Your Partner Pays Strangers For Nudes?08/14/2019
    1:23:43
  99. 107.
    Is It Better To Be The Dumper Or The Dumpee?08/07/2019
    1:15:16
  100. 108.
    Who Should Pay For The Couples Vacation? Ft. Maddie Poppe07/31/2019
    1:34:08
  101. 109.
    Is It A Deal Breaker If Someone Late Cancels A Date?07/24/2019
    1:10:18
  102. 110.
    How to Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Everyone Else's07/17/2019
    1:09:32
  103. 111.
    Is It Ever Okay To Question The Sexuality of the Person You're Dating?07/10/2019
    1:11:26
  104. 112.
    What’s Worse, Looking Jealous or Crazy?07/03/2019
    1:15:26
  105. 113.
    What Percent Of The Time Should You Expect To Be Happy In A Relationship?06/26/2019
    1:12:20
  106. 114.
    Should I Put My Instagram Handle In My Dating App Profile?06/19/2019
    1:22:25
  107. 115.
    Am I Being Ghosted Or Did The Conversation Just End?06/12/2019
    1:20:54
  108. 116.
    When Is The Right Time To Ask If Someone Is Looking For A Relationship?06/05/2019
    1:10:25
  109. 117.
    Are You Obligated To Reveal Your Phone Passcode In A Relationship? Ft. Dr. Helen Fisher05/29/2019
    1:40:16
  110. 118.
    What’s The Difference Between Sexual Preference And Sexual Racism? Ft. Ronny Chieng05/22/2019
    1:34:44
  111. 119.
    Can A Relationship Survive A Huge Body Transformation?05/15/2019
    1:26:34
  112. 120.
    When Is The Right Time To Ask Someone To Move In Together?05/08/2019
    1:14:51
  113. 121.
    How Do I Show Guys On Dating Apps That I'm Not Only Interested In Hooking Up?05/01/2019
    1:11:54
  114. 122.
    Is Jealousy In A Relationship Flattering Or Annoying? Ft. Vinny Guadagnino04/24/2019
    1:31:39
  115. 123.
    How Do We Ask Our Partners For More Sex?04/17/2019
    1:10:28
  116. 124.
    Is It Tacky To Talk About Money With The Person You’re Dating?04/10/2019
    1:24:44
  117. 125.
    How To Stop Sleeping With Someone Who Doesn't Want To Date You04/03/2019
    1:02:47
  118. 126.
    Is Refusing to Define The Relationship A Dealbreaker? Ft Nev Schulman & Laura Perlongo03/27/2019
    1:33:24
  119. 127.
    What To Do When He Can't Get It Up03/20/2019
    1:22:04
  120. 128.
    How Do I Say "I Love You" First?03/13/2019
    1:23:42
  121. 129.
    How Do I Hit On A Guy At The Gym?03/06/2019
    1:22:51
  122. 130.
    How Many Dates Should You Wait Before Sleeping With Someone?02/27/2019
    1:17:22
  123. 131.
    What Do We Owe An Ex After a Breakup?02/20/2019
    1:20:25
  124. 132.
    Bonus UUP?: Live At Murmrr Theatre02/15/2019
    1:32:09
  125. 133.
    How Do I Wear Lingerie Without Looking Stupid?02/13/2019
    1:13:58
  126. 134.
    Bonus U UP?: Live At Underground Arts02/08/2019
    1:39:56
  127. 135.
    How Long Into Dating Someone Should You Expect To Have Valentine's Day Plans?02/06/2019
    1:24:07
  128. 136.
    Bonus U Up?: Live At Sixth & I02/01/2019
    1:42:27
  129. 137.
    Were Jim and Pam Assholes or the Best Couple Ever?01/30/2019
    1:17:31
  130. 138.
    What To Do When You're Blindsided By A Breakup01/23/2019
    1:12:28
  131. 139.
    How to Date as A Single Parent Ft. Chris Distefano01/16/2019
    1:30:53
  132. 140.
    How to Get A Guy To Go Down On You Ft. Violet Benson of Daddy Issues01/09/2019
    1:12:13
  133. 141.
    Does The Person I’m Dating Care About My Instagram Brand?01/02/2019
    1:10:52
  134. 142.
    Should You Be Mad If Someone You're Seeing Is Still Updating Their Dating App Bio?12/26/2018
    1:17:56
  135. 143.
    Did Carrie And Big Have An Abusive Relationship?12/19/2018
    1:11:10
  136. 144.
    Why are Millennials Having Less Sex than Our Parents' Generation? Ft. Kate Julian12/12/2018
    1:21:20
  137. 145.
    What's The Best Way to Tell My Significant Other That They’re Getting Fat?12/05/2018
    1:19:05
  138. 146.
    Were Ross and Rachel On A Break?11/28/2018
    1:21:24
  139. 147.
    Is It Too Soon To Take A Trip With My BF?11/21/2018
    1:06:16
  140. 148.
    Why Aren’t Stable Relationships Sexy?11/14/2018
    1:16:32
  141. 149.
    Are Dating Apps Bad For Society? Featuring Nancy Jo Sales11/07/2018
    1:17:08
  142. 150.
    Is Halloween the Best or Worst Hook-Up Night?10/31/2018
    1:12:13
  143. 151.
    What Do I Do If My Significant Other Is Texting Their Ex? Ft. Johnny Bananas10/24/2018
    1:28:03
  144. 152.
    How Do I Make the First Move Without Coming Off Desperate?10/17/2018
    1:15:37
  145. 153.
    Bonus U Up?: Live At Canton Hall Ft. Raven Gates10/12/2018
    1:48:32
  146. 154.
    What’s The Difference Between Loving Someone and Being “In Love?”10/10/2018
    1:11:43
  147. 155.
    How Do I Stop My Boyfriend From Acting Like a Drunk Asshole? Ft. Girls Gotta Eat10/03/2018
    1:21:50
  148. 156.
    What’s The Best Way to Get Someone to Stop Texting You?09/26/2018
    1:07:56
  149. 157.
    Did Instagram Ruin My Relationship? Ft. Corinne Fisher09/19/2018
    1:23:00
  150. 158.
    Bonus: U Up? Live At The Comedy Cellar (10 PM Show) Ft. Michelle Wolf09/14/2018
    1:53:53
  151. 159.
    When Do You Introduce Your S/O To Your Friends?09/12/2018
    1:15:41
  152. 160.
    Bonus: U Up? Live At The Comedy Cellar (8 PM Show) Ft. Matteo Lane09/07/2018
    1:38:25
  153. 161.
    Is It Crazy to Call Someone Out After Stalking Their Instagram Story?09/05/2018
    1:07:32
  154. 162.
    How to Know You're Chasing The Wrong People08/29/2018
    1:16:13
  155. 163.
    Is a Cheap Guy a Dealbreaker?08/22/2018
    1:20:31
  156. 164.
    To Text or Not To Double Text08/15/2018
    1:02:01
  157. 165.
    Should I Swipe Right on Someone I Know IRL?08/08/2018
    1:11:54
  158. 166.
    Can I Go Through My S/O's Texts?08/01/2018
    1:00:48
  159. 167.
    Why Do Guys Stop Putting Effort Into Long Term Relationships? Ft. Hinge Founder Justin McLeod07/25/2018
    1:07:04
  160. 168.
    Why Do Guys Really Send Dick Pics?07/18/2018
    1:20:46
  161. 169.
    Bonus: U Up? Live at the Comedy Cellar (10PM Show) Ft. Liza Treyger07/13/2018
    1:28:44
  162. 170.
    What's The Ideal Day of the Week for a First Date?07/11/2018
    1:06:44
  163. 171.
    Do You Have To Break Up If They're Not The One?07/04/2018
    1:07:20
  164. 172.
    Bonus: U Up? Live at the Comedy Cellar Ft. Andi Dorfman06/29/2018
    1:07:30
  165. 173.
    Should You Tell Your Partner About A Time You “Almost” Cheated?06/27/2018
    1:11:04
  166. 174.
    How Important Is It That Your Significant Other Likes Your Family?06/20/2018
    1:04:36
  167. 175.
    Can You Start a Real Relationship From an Instagram Thirst Trap?06/13/2018
    1:01:01
  168. 176.
    When's The Right Time To Talk About Your Sexual History? Feat. Taylor Strecker06/06/2018
    1:04:29
  169. 177.
    Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?05/30/2018
    1:01:18
  170. 178.
    Is It OK to Ask How Many People They’ve Slept With? Feat. Andy Cohen05/23/2018
    1:19:28
  171. 179.
    How Do You Handle The First Fart In a Relationship? (Ft. Jax Taylor)05/16/2018
    1:22:47
  172. 180.
    How Long Should I Put Up With a Guy Texting Me Without Asking Me Out?05/09/2018
    1:01:16
  173. 181.
    How Do You Extend a Vacation Hook-Up?05/02/2018
    1:08:12
  174. 182.
    What Do I Get a Guy For His Birthday If We've Only Been Dating a Month?04/25/2018
    1:02:14
  175. 183.
    The Reason Guys Don’t Make Plans in Advance04/18/2018
    1:10:57
  176. 184.
    What's The Proper Post Breakup Protocol?04/11/2018
    54:55
  177. 185.
    How Do I Tell Someone I'm Seeing That I'm a Virgin04/04/2018
    55:29
  178. 186.
    How Soon Should I Get Back on Dating Apps After a Breakup? Ft. Hannah Bronfman03/28/2018
    1:11:51
  179. 187.
    Should I Hide the Fact That I Smoke Weed on a Dating App?03/21/2018
    1:02:39
  180. 188.
    Is It Messed Up That My Boyfriend Goes to Strip Clubs?03/14/2018
    1:06:09
  181. 189.
    What Do Guys Really Think of Fake Boobs?03/07/2018
    57:00
  182. 190.
    How Many Dates Should You Wait Before Adding Someone On Instagram?02/28/2018
    1:06:34
  183. 191.
    How to Plan a Date Without Looking Desperate02/21/2018
    53:50
  184. 192.
    Stop Instagram Stalking Your Exes with Whitney Cummings02/14/2018
    1:23:35
  185. 193.
    Do Women Have More to Gain From Marriage Than Men?02/07/2018
    1:01:32
  186. 194.
    Is It OK to Talk About Your Ex?02/01/2018
    1:02:32
  187. 195.
    How Much Porn is Too Much Porn?01/25/2018
    1:10:08
  188. 196.
    If You’re Not On His Instagram It’s Not Official01/18/2018
    1:11:20
  189. 197.
    How Many Drinks Should I Have On A Date?01/11/2018
    1:07:17
  190. 198.
    What’s The Best Way To Dump Someone?01/04/2018
    1:00:28
  191. 199.
    Should You Have ‘The Talk’? The Great Debate12/28/2017
    1:05:22
  192. 200.
    Blowjobs Are a Selfless Act12/21/2017
    1:00:31

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