Real Talk With Nina

Nina

All the taboo stuff - Unfiltered, Imperfect, and Unashamed. Sex, relationships, mental health, and more! Humor, sarcasm, and never TMI. Real people and real conversations. Never a dull moment! Not for the closed-minded.

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Cam Fraser, Australia's leading men's sex coach, drops some gems in this episode! From his toxic "college locker room talk" days, to growing into the enlightened sexual man he is now, Cam vulnerably shares his journey. Although all genders can (and do) benefit from his work, men will undoubtedly feel seen and heard when Cam speaks about his experiences. Cam gives us a glimpse into what it's like to coach with him, and the process he takes men through when exploring anal play for the first time. We share laughs and candid breakthroughs about our personal views of masculinity, and how we continue to work on shaping them.  To find out more about Cam (or work with him), head to www.cam-fraser.com. You can also find Cam on instagram at @thecamfraser. To find out more about me, head to www.realtalkwithnina.com or find me on IG at @ninarealtalk --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Sep 21

1 hr 36 min

What happened when I decided it would be a good idea to ask one of the biggest ethical porn producers to come on my podcast? You'll find out in this episode! Jacky St. James is a writer, producer, and director of ethical porn; one of the big guns in the industry to say the least. She's the creative director at Bellesa (www.bellesa.co), and creates content for Sweet Sinner as well. I also tried to convince Jacky that my thick thighs, mom tummy, cellulite, and c-section scars, would be the next best thing to happen in the porn industry. A more authentic "MILF" genre, if you will.  In this episode, we talk about:  Common myths about porn What "ethical porn" is  How I used to watch porn vs. how I watch it now Popular porn trends What my favorite genre of porn is right now, and how I found it (you may be shocked) How Jacky got into the porn industry Stereotypes of female porn stars vs. male porn stars and more... You can find more about me at: www.realtalkwithnina.com or on IG at @ninarealtalk Find out more about Jacky St. James at www.jackystjames.com and see her work on www.bellesa.co --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Sep 7

1 hr 7 min

Karin Freeland is my guest on this one (of course), and we talk about our personal opinions on the importance of penis size (it may shock you). We also brave the storm and share some pretty awful anal sex debacles. I give practical advice on how to PROPERLY approach anal sex, and decrease the chances of embarrassing moments. Karin shares a story of being in the shower (alone) and somehow venturing into uncharted "territory" by accident. She barely makes it through the story, and we wheeze laugh as usual. Good luck with this one... Find me at www.realtalkwithnina.com or on Instagram @ninarealtalk Find karin at www.karinfreeland.com, on Instagram @karinfreeland, and check out her new memoir all about her VAGINA at www.theinsandoutsofmyvagina.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Aug 24

1 hr 5 min

After a podcast hiatus, I'm back! I had Karin on as my guest again, and we talked about a market survey she sent out to GenZ'ers so she could learn how to market her new book to them. Karin has to scrape her jaw off the floor when I explain what a "Hot Wife" is, and how it's not an uncommon fantasy amongst men. I also go on my soap box (again) about why women struggle to orgasm with men (my insight may shock you). Karin learned that a penis is essentially just a huge clit, and I share how I somehow turn every sexually-based conversation with men into me helping to heal their trauma wounds. If you enjoy randomness, sex talk, raw vocabulary, and orgasms...check this one out (and all of the other episodes).  Find me at www.realtalkwithnina.com or @ninarealtalk on IG Remember to visit www.bellesa.co and check out their adult toys! Use my code NINA15 for 15% off and free shipping! (The site is NSFW, so wait until you're home from work to check it out, ok?) Find karin at www.karinfreeland.com for Life Coaching or www.theinsandoutsofmyvagina.com for her upcoming book. On IG, her handle is @karinfreeland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Aug 10

1 hr 6 min

(CONTENT WARNING: Incest taboo porn is discussed.) This was a first! I collected anonymous fantasy submissions, and discussed them on the podcast! Some folks submitted fantasies that they simply wanted to share because they were HOT, and others wanted help with guilt or shame around their fantasies. This episode is bound to make some folks uncomfortable, so there's that... From getting off to the thought of your friends having sex, to female domination - this is not a boring episode to say the least! You can submit your fantasies anonymously (for future episodes) by clicking HERE! Check out https://linktr.ee/Ninarealtalk for all of my important links! Do you like adult pleasure products? Check out Bellesa (www.bellesa.co) and use code NINA15 for 15% off and free shipping on all products! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Jun 30

45 min 26 sec

"Nina, my partner doesn't have a sex drive." Ummmm...unless there are some clinical issues going on, yes they do. However, nobody taught us about the types of sex drives, and how to tap into them. Additionally, couples have such a hard time being 100% honest about what they need (I'm speaking louder to the women here...). How do you tell your partner about a taboo fantasy that you have? What does foreplay look like for you? What kind of build up do you require? How can we make these conversations fun, and not awkward? I go into all of it in this mini episode!  Check out all of my links in one place! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Jun 11

21 min 39 sec

Great questions came up in this mini episode! From how to navigate when your partner needs porn to ejaculate, to fantasizing about your friends, I answer some tough ones! I discuss options to make giving oral sex to a guy a bit easier on the "giver", how to address the sex talk with your kids, and what to do if you find your kids playing "doctor". So much packed into this one! Click here for all sorts of great stuff (including my Dirty Talk Guide!) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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May 18

34 min 55 sec

I had Karin Freeland on again to talk about our unique orgasm formulas, and why it can be hard to get off with a partner. We go into some vulnerable stuff in this one, because...wine. We touched on the difficulty of getting off from oral. I share parts of my own orgasm formula, and why my loud mind is a total clitblocker sometimes. I go on a mini soap box about the orgasm gap, and how comparing the penis to the vagina is a MAJOR problem. Check it out! You can find me at: www.realtalkwithnina.com Instagram Facebook You can find Karin Freeland at: www.karinfreeland.com Instagram Facebook --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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May 4

1 hr 11 min

This was a first! I thought I'd switch things up and have my husband on the podcast! We answer some submitted questions about dry spells, communication issues, flirting, and having friends of the opposite sex. We get a little personal about some of our own tough times, how we navigated them, and tough lessons learned along the way. If anything, I hope this episode helps to normalize the fact that all relationships go through tough times. We're only human, right? Find out more at www.realtalkwithnina.com Find me on Instagram @ninarealtalk --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Apr 20

58 min 2 sec

*CONTENT WARNING: Violence against women* This episode was raw.  Jonathan Beal was my guest - and for good reason. He talks about the painful process of realizing the role he has played in perpetuating the fear that women have of men. We discuss his public apology on Instagram to a former girlfriend, and how difficult that was on many levels. I open up for the first time, publicly, about some traumatic events in my past that I never deemed "bad enough" to talk about. From the f*cked up messages women receive at a young age about how to "stay safe from men", to the pressure to perform for men sexually - we uncover it all. This was NOT an easy episode to record, nor was it an easy episode to rewatch and edit. However, I believe 100% that it's a necessary conversation to have for all human beings.  Remember that fear, shame, and guilt can ONLY exist in the dark - so I'm just here to turn on the light. <3 Come find me at www.realtalkwithnina.com, and on social! www.instagram.com/ninarealtalk www.facebook.com/realtalknina You can find Jonathan Beal at www.jonathanbeal.com, www.misfitforlife.com, and on social! www.instagram.com/theembodiedman --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Apr 6

1 hr 9 min

As usual, shit gets weird on this one. From an honest conversation about how the pandemic has impacted our libido, to Karin and I drafting a comic series about our clits - this episode is classy as hell. Karin and I unknowingly purchased a similar vibrator that uses the "air pulse" technology. We both had experiences that made us question our clitoral fortitude, which is not something we take lightly. By the end of the episode, we're arguing about how high or low my clit's voice would be if she was a character in a comic strip. Honestly, you just have to listen to understand the ridiculousness of this whole episode.  My "Stuff" www.realtalkwithnina.com www.instagram.com/ninarealtalk www.facebook.com/realtalknina Want some adult toys? Visit my partner in pleasure, Bellesa, and use code NINA15 for 15% off and free shipping! (NSFW) Check out Karin Freeland! www.karinfreeland.com www.galtalk.co --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Mar 23

57 min 10 sec

Adam and Becky, a married couple, join me to discuss their open relationship. We talk about how it started, whose idea it was, and the types of conversations they recommend having. We cover jealousy, monogamy, compersion, and why they believe they have been successful in this process.    Follow me on social media!  FB:  www.facebook.com/realtalknina  IG:   www.instagram.com/ninarealtalk  Podcast: www.anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina  Website: www.realtalkwithnina.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Mar 9

1 hr 5 min

In this episode, I interview Crissi Dalfonzo. Crissi is a self-proclaimed "Professional Queer", and the Assistant Director of the LGBTQ+ Resource Center at Cornell University. Crissi has been polyamorous since college, and highlights how important consent and communication are. I learn new terms, like the "one penis policy", "bi plus", and "polycule", and we cover some of the common myths of polyamory.    Find me at: www.realtalkwithnina.com  IG: www.instagram.com/ninarealtalk FB: www.facebook.com/realtalknina  YouTube: www.youtube.com/realtalkwithnina --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Feb 23

1 hr

Jonathan Beal is a Coach and Mentor to "lost souls" looking to find congruence and alignment in their life. Jonathan and I dive into the misogynistic messages that most of us have, and how they show up in relationships. I share some mega humbling stuff in an effort to show what challenging my beliefs looks like. We talk about the importance of vulnerable sexual conversations within relationships, and how they have the potential to be transformative. Jonathan shares his own story of coming out as bisexual, and what that "looks like" when it comes to how he shows up in relationships. Amazing shit goes down in this episode!    Follow me at:  www.realtalkwithnina.com IG: www.instagram.com/ninarealtalk  FB: www.facebook.com/realtalknina  You can find Jonathan at:  www.jonathanbeal.com  https://www.patreon.com/jonathanbeal https://discord.gg/Y3ybeZ3eur --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Feb 9

1 hr 17 min

From getting turned on by watching guys play video games, to distinguishing between a fart and a queef - we leave zero stones unturned. This episode is NOT for the faint of heart (actually, nothing about me is...). Karin tries to be sexy while she's pregnant, and her husband shuts the light off. I try to be sexy, and my tampon string ruins it. And so much more... Enjoy!   Follow me:  IG @ninarealtalk  www.realtalkwithnina.com  FB: Real Talk With Nina   Follow Karin Freeland:  IG @Karinfreeland  www.karinfreeland.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Jan 26

51 min 19 sec

I bring Karin Freeland back on the show to talk about our experiences and feelings towards sex clubs, strip clubs, and the infamous "body count" conversation. No, not murder...sexual partners. From Karin wearing pasties and a thong at Webster Hall in the city, to me having to take off my underwear after a sweaty male stripper decided to give me a lap dance. It's not what you think... Follow me at:  Website: www.realtalkwithnina.com  IG: www.instagram.com/ninarealtalk  FB: www.facebook.com/realtalknina   Follow Karin Freeland at:  Website: www.karinfreeland.com  IG: www.instagram.com/karinfreeland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Jan 12

55 min 47 sec

In this episode, Karin and I talk about our unique experiences through pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum. We open up about our bizarre thoughts during postpartum depression, how my OCD impacted every step of my journey to motherhood, Karin's jealousy towards a cartoon character, my fear of my baby's head falling off, and our hemorrhoids. Yup - it was TedTalk worthy. You're welcome.    Come find me at:   Website: www.realtalkwithnina.com  IG: @ninarealtalk  FB: www.facebook.com/realtalknina   You can find Karin at:  Website: www.karinfreeland.com  IG: @karinfreeland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Dec 2020

1 hr 8 min

With guest, Karin Freeland, we dive into our less than stellar public sex moments, how our kids have totally ruined sexy time, and we coin new terms for our body types.    Follow me at:  IG - @ninarealtalk  Web - www.realtalkwithnina.com FB - Real Talk With Nina   Follow Karin at:  IG - @karinfreeland  Web - www.karinfreeland.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Dec 2020

1 hr 5 min

I invite Karin Freeland back on the RTWN podcast to talk about "hoe phases" and pubic hair. I share my shitshow of an attempt to enjoy my momentary singlehood in college, and I live vicariously through Karin's Australian party stories. We both share our encounters with an uncircumcised penis, and how messed up societal messages impacted the priority I placed on my own pleasure.   Follow me @ninarealtalk on IG and www.realtalkwithnina.com Follow Karin @karinfreeland on IG and www.karinfreeland.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Dec 2020

52 min 32 sec

This episode is all about epic love language fails in relationships. We talk about sexting gone wrong, words of affirmation that don't happen, and different argument and apology styles.    Follow me (Nina): IG @ninarealtalk, www.realtalkwithnina.com, and on Facebook at Real Talk With Nina You can find Karin at www.karinfreeland.com and @karinfreeland on IG --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Nov 2020

42 min 59 sec

Nina interviews best-selling author, Suzy Spencer, about her true crime novels and her controversial book titled, "Secret Sex Lives". Suzy explains some of her interactions with some dangerous inmates, as well as some kinky swingers! Enjoy! Follow me (Nina) at @ninarealtalk on IG, at www.realtalkwithnina.com, on FB at www.facebook.com/realtalknina Follow Suzy Spencer at www.suzyspencer.com and on Twitter: @SpencerWriter --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Oct 2020

52 min 9 sec

This interview is like eavesdropping on girlfriends at a high school reunion. From porn, masturbation, and first orgasms, we dive into it all.  Karin Freeland, Author, Motivational Speaker, and Life Coach, talks about her upcoming memoir that follows the adventures of her...VAGINA (yes, you read that correctly.) Non-stop humor, and insanely awkward moments. Judgey people need not watch.      Follow me (Nina!) at www.realtalkwithnina.com and on IG @ninarealtalk Follow Karin at www.karinfreeland.com and www.instagram.com/karinfreeland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realtalkwithnina/support

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Oct 2020

46 min 37 sec