Subtext

By Sarah Ellis & Michelle McSweeney

Online dating advice for the modern age. Navigating relationships in a digital world can be confusing and stressful, which is why we're here to help you (and share a few stories of our own). Brought to you by a language expert and a curious millennial, Subtext gets real about the anxieties of dating on Tinder, over text, and even on Instagram.

  1. 1.
    How To Spot A Red Flag
    22:05
  2. 2.
    Timing Is Everything
    15:56
  3. 3.
    Setting The Tone
    13:34
  4. 4.
    That Dreaded First Message
    17:52
  5. 5.
    Capturing An Online Identity
    17:47
  6. 6.
    Hannah Orenstein, Author & Dating Editor at Elite Daily
    40:19
  7. 7.
    Recognizing Racism
    8:34
  8. 8.
    Currently Seeking... A Perfect Partner?
    12:42
  1. 9.
    Get To The Details
    12:55
  2. 10.
    Should My Dating Profile Be A Highlight Reel?
    18:16
  3. 11.
    Corey Rae, Transgender Activist, Model & Producer
    1:03:55
  4. 12.
    A FaceTime First Date
    19:37
  5. 13.
    Am I Too Friendly?
    18:05
  6. 14.
    Jeffrey Masters, Host of LGBTQ&A Podcast
    36:25
  7. 15.
    #DateMe Review & GIVEAWAY Announcement
    2:37
  8. 16.
    Is It Ever Okay To Ghost Someone?
    15:22
  9. 17.
    Your Data On Dating Apps
    15:14
  10. 18.
    Pride Throwback Episode: Yes, I'm Sure I'm Gay
    20:45
  11. 19.
    Pride Throwback Episode: Hack Your Tinder Algorithm
    20:23
  12. 20.
    Pride Throwback Episode: Heart Emojis on a First Date
    16:07
  13. 21.
    Mayor Pete Buttigieg Is So Freaking Millennial
    18:56
  14. 22.
    So What Are You Looking For, Anyway?
    23:11
  15. 23.
    Are We Textpatible?
    20:01
  16. 24.
    Yes, I'm Sure I'm Gay
    20:45
  17. 25.
    Waiting For That Perfect Text Back
    19:41
  18. 26.
    Staging An Instagram Thirst Test
    22:33
  19. 27.
    My IRL Date With My Instagram Crush
    18:37
  20. 28.
    How TF Is 'GIFs' Pronounced, Anyway?
    14:22
  21. 29.
    Ghosted Out Of Nowhere? Spot The Signs
    17:28
  22. 30.
    Why We Over-Curate Our Profiles
    16:42
  23. 31.
    Are Shorter Text Messages More Casual?
    14:12
  24. 32.
    Holiday Special: How To Navigate Cuffing Season
    5:30
  25. 33.
    Exclamation Points: A Feminist Manifesto
    14:18
  26. 34.
    Rate My Date App—Our Thoughts On Crushh
    11:16
  27. 35.
    The Dreaded 'O.K.' Text—It's Not Okay
    19:58
  28. 36.
    Halloween Special: Sarah Gets Ghosted
    3:36
  29. 37.
    Your Texting Punctuation Playbook
    20:32
  30. 38.
    How Many Messages Should I Send Before Making A Date?
    18:48
  31. 39.
    Here's Why It's Smart To Be Quirky On Tinder
    14:36
  32. 40.
    That NYC Mass Tinder Date—How Did She Do It?
    16:14
  33. 41.
    He Says 'Haha' In Every Text & I'm Not Laughing
    19:52
  34. 42.
    The Real Reason Behind OKCupid's New Campaign
    14:23
  35. 43.
    Hack Your Tinder Algorithm
    20:23
  36. 44.
    My Ex Reached Out Via Email—What?
    13:23
  37. 45.
    Facebook Gets Into Dating
    16:45
  38. 46.
    Why Is Everyone Shortening Words These Days?
    13:02
  39. 47.
    The Real Meaning Of The Red Heart Emoji
    16:07
  40. 48.
    Hyphens Over Text—The Great Debate
    16:28

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