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Dear Prudence | Advice on relationships, sex, work, family, and life

By Slate

Advice, commentary, and conversation from Daniel Mallory Ortberg, author of Slate's Dear Prudence column. Every week, Prudie and special guests answer questions about relationships, sex, work, family, and life.

  1. 1.
    Dear Prudence: The "Overloaded Friend" Edition01/15/2019
    41:33
  2. 2.
    Dear Prudence: The "Always An Excuse" Edition01/08/2019
    52:41
  3. 3.
    Dear Prudence: The "Up For Sitting Down" Edition01/01/2019
    1:07:40
  4. 4.
    Dear Prudence: The "It's Already Weird" Edition12/25/2018
    1:03:44
  5. 5.
    Dear Prudence: The "Aren't We Friends?" Edition12/18/2018
    54:19
  6. 6.
    Dear Prudence: The "Addiction Fatigue" Edition12/11/2018
    1:06:27
  7. 7.
    Dear Prudence: The "Always Testing Me" Edition12/04/2018
    1:00:20
  8. 8.
    Dear Prudence: The "Socializing While Sober" Edition11/27/2018
    59:42
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    Dear Prudence: The "Nixed Nuptials" Edition11/20/2018
    1:01:08
  2. 10.
    Dear Prudence: The "Animal Husband-ry" Edition11/13/2018
    50:57
  3. 11.
    Dear Prudence: The "Enough Is Enough" Edition11/06/2018
    56:18
  4. 12.
    Dear Prudence: The "Shy Spy" Edition10/30/2018
    42:11
  5. 13.
    Dear Prudence: The “Misguided Text” Edition 10/23/2018
    40:50
  6. 14.
    Dear Prudence: The “Fun, Flirty Friends” Edition 10/16/2018
    46:43
  7. 15.
    Dear Prudence: The “Brother Betrayal” Edition 10/09/2018
    52:46
  8. 16.
    Dear Prudence: The “Slightly Lesser Mess” Edition10/02/2018
    54:50
  9. 17.
    Dear Prudence: The "Obstinate Husbands" Edition09/25/2018
    55:58
  10. 18.
    Dear Prudence: The “Unnecessary Shame” Edition09/18/2018
    55:25
  11. 19.
    Dear Prudence: The "Sister Misery" Edition09/11/2018
    54:56
  12. 20.
    Dear Prudence: The "Done Raising Children" Edition09/04/2018
    43:49
  13. 21.
    Dear Prudence: The "Work Talk At Home" Edition08/28/2018
    50:59
  14. 22.
    Dear Prudence: The "Leftover Food" Edition08/21/2018
    44:23
  15. 23.
    Dear Prudence: The “Bare Minimum of Icy Neutrality” Edition08/14/2018
    53:50
  16. 24.
    Dear Prudence: The “Family Heirloom Accountant” Edition08/07/2018
    47:02
  17. 25.
    Dear Prudence: The "Stoner Shame” Edition07/31/2018
    48:03
  18. 26.
    Dear Prudence: The "Hots For My Cousin" Edition07/24/2018
    48:40
  19. 27.
    Dear Prudence: The "Weapons Grade Pettiness" Edition07/17/2018
    49:12
  20. 28.
    Dear Prudence: The “Invisible Girl” Edition07/10/2018
    46:15
  21. 29.
    Dear Prudence: The “Unexpected Inheritance” Edition07/03/2018
    46:38
  22. 30.
    Prudence Presents: Better Life Lab07/01/2018
    28:21
  23. 31.
    Dear Prudence: The “Is Cheating Ever Ok?” Edition06/26/2018
    1:00:46
  24. 32.
    Dear Prudence: The “Bullying Sister-in-Law” Edition06/19/2018
    54:33
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    Dear Prudence: The "Demeaning My Coworkers" Edition06/12/2018
    45:40
  26. 34.
    Dear Prudence: The “Crush On My Job Interviewer” Edition06/05/2018
    53:27
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    Dear Prudence: The “Do I Buy the Ticket?” Edition05/29/2018
    43:49
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    Dear Prudence: The “Poly Wedding Invite Etiquette” Edition 05/22/2018
    55:35
  29. 37.
    Dear Prudence: The “I Wanna Kidnap a Dog” Edition05/15/2018
    39:08
  30. 38.
    Dear Prudence: The “Women Are Too Distracting” Edition05/08/2018
    50:00
  31. 39.
    Dear Prudence: The “Inspector Javert of Office Meatballs” Edition05/01/2018
    51:07
  32. 40.
    Dear Prudence: The "Calculated Incursion On My Workplace" Edition04/24/2018
    57:46
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    Dear Prudence: The “Expensive Bulk Food-Grazer” Edition04/17/2018
    45:54
  34. 42.
    Dear Prudence: The "Mommy Moocher" Edition04/10/2018
    46:35
  35. 43.
    Dear Prudence: The “Wizard Privilege” Edition04/03/2018
    42:31
  36. 44.
    Dear Prudence: The “Falling for My Co-Parent” Edition03/27/2018
    48:57
  37. 45.
    Dear Prudence: The "Spousal Acknowledgement" Edition03/20/2018
    40:46
  38. 46.
    Dear Prudence: The “Holidays of Their Own Design” Edition03/13/2018
    42:17
  39. 47.
    Dear Prudence: The "Early Summer Chicken" Edition03/06/2018
    47:14
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    Dear Prudence: The “Nosey Desk-Searching Boss” Edition02/27/2018
    46:34
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    Dear Prudence: The “Relentlessly Friendly Neighbor” Edition02/20/2018
    49:12
  42. 50.
    Dear Prudence: The “Not Your Mom” Edition02/13/2018
    49:08
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    Dear Prudence: The “Not Unconditional Love” Edition02/06/2018
    54:10
  44. 52.
    Dear Prudence: The Live “Cruise-ship Romance” Edition01/30/2018
    1:05:12
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    Dear Prudence: The “Tepidly Panromantic” Edition01/23/2018
    42:37
  46. 54.
    Dear Prudence: The “Ongoing Fling with a Famous Person” Edition01/16/2018
    54:54
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    Dear Prudence: The “Reverse Kids Get Off My Lawn” Edition01/09/2018
    44:21
  48. 56.
    Dear Prudence: The "Eternally Engaged" Edition01/02/2018
    43:35
  49. 57.
    Dear Prudence: The "Personal ATM" Edition12/26/2017
    45:48
  50. 58.
    Dear Prudence: The "Selfish Sister" Edition12/19/2017
    51:48
  51. 59.
    Dear Prudence: The "Schrödinger's Stolen Cat" Edition12/12/2017
    48:53
  52. 60.
    Dear Prudence: The “Dirty Secret” Edition12/05/2017
    44:40
  53. 61.
    Dear Prudence: The “Oh, Roger” Edition11/28/2017
    47:05
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    Dear Prudence: The “Master of Disaster” Edition11/21/2017
    38:41
  55. 63.
    Dear Prudence: The “Drama Tornado” Edition11/14/2017
    57:14
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    Dear Prudence: The “Wishin’ Boot” Edition11/07/2017
    48:31
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    Dear Prudence: The “Friend of the Devil” Edition10/31/2017
    35:28
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    Dear Prudence: The “Go Dutch” Edition10/24/2017
    41:53
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    Dear Prudence: The “Rich Girl” Edition10/17/2017
    50:43
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    Dear Prudence: The “On the Nose" Edition10/10/2017
    48:31
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    Dear Prudence: The “Good Grief" Edition10/03/2017
    49:32
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    Dear Prudence: The "Hot Mess" Edition09/26/2017
    51:47
  63. 71.
    Dear Prudence: The "Sunk Cost" Edition09/19/2017
    45:06
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    Dear Prudence: The "Rumpelstiltskin" Edition09/12/2017
    48:54
  65. 73.
    Dear Prudence: The "Checking In" Edition09/05/2017
    54:49
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    Dear Prudence: The "Pray on This" Edition08/29/2017
    51:44
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    Dear Prudence: The "Strangers on a Train" Edition08/22/2017
    51:35
  68. 76.
    Dear Prudence: The "Feelings Roulette" Edition08/15/2017
    44:44
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    Dear Prudence: The "Panoply of Deviance” Edition08/08/2017
    43:12
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    Dear Prudence: The "Mulligan" Edition08/01/2017
    43:59
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    Dear Prudence: The "Radical Unfriendliness" Edition07/25/2017
    51:26
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    Dear Prudence: The "Open it Up" Edition07/18/2017
    35:35
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    Dear Prudence: The "Bidet and Boujee" Edition07/11/2017
    42:43
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    Dear Prudence: The “Flowers in the Attic” Edition07/04/2017
    48:37
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    Dear Prudence: The “Capitalism is the Problem” Edition06/27/2017
    44:22
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    Dear Prudence: The “Dealbreaker” Edition06/20/2017
    47:55
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    Dear Prudence: The “Call 311” Edition06/13/2017
    41:26
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    Dear Prudence: The “Workplace Hazard” Edition06/06/2017
    51:13
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    Dear Prudence: The “Resignation” Edition05/30/2017
    53:58
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    Dear Prudence: The “Death of the Ego” Edition05/23/2017
    50:25
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    Dear Prudence: The “Cat-astrophe” Edition05/16/2017
    47:51
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    Dear Prudence: The “Gravity Is Mad at You” Edition05/09/2017
    43:41
  83. 91.
    Dear Prudence: The “United Front” Edition05/02/2017
    43:05
  84. 92.
    Dear Prudence: The "Hardly Working" Edition04/25/2017
    58:48
  85. 93.
    Dear Prudence: The “Dickensian” Edition04/18/2017
    48:16
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    Dear Prudence: The “Anti-Pronoun” Edition04/11/2017
    48:47
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    Dear Prudence: The “Raise the Bar” Edition Part 204/04/2017
    33:22
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    Dear Prudence: The “Raise the Bar” Edition Part 103/28/2017
    39:21
  89. 97.
    Dear Prudence: The “Voyagers” Edition03/21/2017
    42:04
  90. 98.
    Dear Prudence: The “P.S.A.” Edition03/14/2017
    44:58
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    Dear Prudence: The “Dolly Dearest” Edition03/08/2017
    38:28
  92. 100.
    Dear Prudence: The “Workplace Politics” Edition02/28/2017
    32:22
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    Dear Prudence: The “Cats Can Be Gay” Edition02/21/2017
    41:57
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    Dear Prudence: The “Oppression Olympics” Edition02/14/2017
    56:48
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    Dear Prudence: The “Line in the Sand” Edition02/08/2017
    49:03
  96. 104.
    Dear Prudence: The “Chasing Amy” Edition01/31/2017
    43:39
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    Dear Prudence: The “Young Guns” Edition01/24/2017
    42:21
  98. 106.
    Dear Prudence: The “Giving Tree” Edition01/17/2017
    43:44
  99. 107.
    Dear Prudence: The “Family Matters” Edition01/10/2017
    36:34
  100. 108.
    Dear Prudence: The “Insomnia” Edition01/03/2017
    39:22
  101. 109.
    Dear Prudence: The "Rocky II" Edition12/27/2016
    46:16
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    Dear Prudence: The "Timing Is Everything" Edition12/20/2016
    42:50
  103. 111.
    Dear Prudence: The “Death, Sex & Money” Edition12/13/2016
    36:16
  104. 112.
    Dear Prudence: Live!12/06/2016
    1:06:01
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    Dear Prudence: The "Anger Management" Edition11/29/2016
    47:27
  106. 114.
    Dear Prudence: The “Missing the Point” Edition11/22/2016
    38:24
  107. 115.
    Dear Prudence: The "Either/Or" Edition11/15/2016
    42:37
  108. 116.
    Dear Prudence: The "How Long?" Edition11/08/2016
    44:03
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    Dear Prudence: The “Whaaaattt?!?” Edition11/01/2016
    42:30
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    Dear Prudence: The "Good Intentions" Edition10/25/2016
    32:24
  111. 119.
    Dear Prudence: The "Devil's Advocate" Edition, Part 210/18/2016
    35:28
  112. 120.
    Dear Prudence: The "Devil's Advocate" Edition, Part 110/11/2016
    38:18
  113. 121.
    Dear Prudence: The "Boundaries" Edition10/04/2016
    41:44
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    Dear Prudence: The "Creative Solutions" Edition09/27/2016
    36:29
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    Dear Prudence: The "Talk About It Now" Edition09/20/2016
    43:59
  116. 124.
    Dear Prudence: The "Petty Revenge" Edition09/13/2016
    35:05
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    Dear Prudence: The "Do it In Song" Edition09/06/2016
    34:34
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    Dear Prudence: The "Time is Not an Apology" Edition08/30/2016
    35:16
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    Dear Prudence: The "Little Red Hen" Edition08/23/2016
    33:28
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    Dear Prudence: The "Read the Room" Edition08/16/2016
    28:35
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    Dear Prudence: The “Self Indulgence vs. Self-Care” Edition08/09/2016
    33:14
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    Dear Prudence: The "You Can’t Treat People That Way" Edition08/02/2016
    30:29
  123. 131.
    Dear Prudence: The Unconditional Love Edition 07/26/2016
    38:54
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    Dear Prudence: The "Butt Out" Edition07/19/2016
    24:47
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    Dear Prudence: The "Regret Baby" Edition07/12/2016
    32:14
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    The "Transactional Relationships" Edition07/05/2016
    21:30
  127. 135.
    The "Sisters!" Edition06/28/2016
    21:35
  128. 136.
    The "Is This a Real Question?" Edition06/21/2016
    28:57
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    Coming Soon: Dear Prudence06/13/2016
    1:55

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