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We Met At Acme

By Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. On each episode of We Met At Acme, host Lindsey Metselaar touches on subjects that we don’t talk about, but all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.

  1. 1.
    Stop Dating The Bare Minimum Guy ft. Violet Benson10/25/2020
    51:00
  2. 2.
    Dating App Prompts, Anti-Ghost Texts, And What Matters When Sliding Into DMs ft. Hunter March10/18/2020
    59:41
  3. 3.
    Let’s Analyze Your COVID Date ft. Harry Hill10/11/2020
    53:33
  4. 4.
    Why Do You Send A Thank You Text After A Date? ft. Real Housewives of NY’s Elyse Slaine10/04/2020
    47:04
  5. 5.
    Is Watching Porn Ruining Our Sex Lives? ft. Frank Rich09/27/2020
    53:48
  6. 6.
    My Relationship Trauma, and How To Heal From Rejection and Cheating09/20/2020
    38:34
  7. 7.
    How Two 25-Year-Old Guys Think About Dating ft. David and Jake09/13/2020
    55:54
  8. 8.
    There Are Two Sides To Every Date ft. Vinay Chadha09/06/2020
    52:06
  1. 9.
    Why You’re Not Getting Asked On A Second Date ft. Damona Hoffman08/30/2020
    56:13
  2. 10.
    What Your Political Stance Says About You As A Partner ft. TJ Ducklo08/23/2020
    59:32
  3. 11.
    After Sex Behavior, How To Bring Up Getting Tested, And Sexual Symmetry ft. Dr. Stephen De Wit08/16/2020
    1:00:15
  4. 12.
    Knowing Your Marriage Is Over, The Break Up Diet, And Communicating With Your Exes ft. Julie Lauren08/09/2020
    49:21
  5. 13.
    How To Become Confident, Stay Cool In A Fight, And Be Nice To Yourself ft. Michell Clark08/02/2020
    49:41
  6. 14.
    Being A Work Wife, Not Wanting Kids, And How To Ask Your Partner For Help ft. Claire and Erica07/26/2020
    45:17
  7. 15.
    Dating Someone Twice Your Age, Co-Dependence In Quarantine, And Attracting The Right Partner ft. Arielle Lorre07/19/2020
    54:57
  8. 16.
    Owning Your Body, High-school Sweethearts, And Testing Your Relationship ft. Cameron Rogers07/12/2020
    47:04
  9. 17.
    How To Trick Men Into Thinking It’s Their Idea ft. Sarah Fraser And Andrea Lopez07/05/2020
    51:16
  10. 18.
    What A Matchmaker Looks For When Matching Two People ft. Emily Holmes of LastFirst06/28/2020
    1:05:35
  11. 19.
    The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets For Capturing the Heart Of Mr. Right ft. The Author herself06/21/2020
    50:04
  12. 20.
    What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie Robinson06/14/2020
    44:55
  13. 21.
    An Easy Way For Women To Orgasm And How Important Your Friend Group Is ft. Adam Lyons06/07/2020
    56:38
  14. 22.
    Why Couples Get Divorced And The Unsexy Conversations You Should Have To Avoid It ft. Laura Wasser05/31/2020
    45:35
  15. 23.
    Going Through A Break Up During Quarantine, Virtual Dating Tips, And How We Were As Teenagers ft. Kay Brown05/24/2020
    41:05
  16. 24.
    How To Get Them To Define Things, Dressing For Dates, And The Power Of Social Media ft. Danielle Bernstein05/17/2020
    38:58
  17. 25.
    There Is No Such Thing As Sexual Incompatibility ft. Ian Ferguson05/10/2020
    53:00
  18. 26.
    Ending Friendships, Starting New Relationships In Quarantine, and Vanderpump Rules Gossip ft. Kristen Doute05/03/2020
    46:46
  19. 27.
    Men Want Sex, Women Want Security ft. Rob Kowalski04/26/2020
    59:19
  20. 28.
    First Relationships, Sticking Around When A Guy Doesn't Define Things, And Why Living Together Is Hard ft. My Friend Leo Sloan04/19/2020
    39:44
  21. 29.
    Pursuing A Man Successfully, Abusive Relationship Patterns, And Fighting In Quarantine ft. Jeannie and Clem04/12/2020
    52:49
  22. 30.
    My Dating Rules, Tips For Quarantining With A Partner, And Meeting The Parents On Zoom04/05/2020
    37:12
  23. 31.
    Getting Sober, Dating Sober, And A Successful Set Up ft. Sarah Levy03/29/2020
    37:45
  24. 32.
    Why You Should Date A Sign You Aren’t Compatible With ft. Colin Bedell03/22/2020
    58:24
  25. 33.
    They’re Not Your Ex If They Haven’t Met Your Family, Dating Two People At Once, And Sharing Traumas ft. Dan Perlman03/15/2020
    51:31
  26. 34.
    A Live Psychic Reading, Bisexual Experiences, and Standards vs. Expectations ft. Mickey Grossman 03/08/2020
    45:23
  27. 35.
    Why Guys Always Come Back, How To Lower Your Expectations, And After Date Follow Up ft. Chanel Omari03/01/2020
    1:04:53
  28. 36.
    Why Breaks Are A Red Flag, What Rebounding Entails, And Comparing New People To Exes ft. Elizabeth Endres02/23/2020
    50:13
  29. 37.
    Dating Without Dating Apps, Closure Conversations, And Why Exclusivity Is Bullshit02/16/2020
    31:11
  30. 38.
    But Like Maybe Don’t… Do Any Of These Things ft. Arianna Margulis02/09/2020
    47:50
  31. 39.
    How Much Men Care About Looks, Putting Yourself Out There, And The Difference Between A First And Second Date ft. Harrison And Brandon from The UpDating Show02/02/2020
    52:02
  32. 40.
    My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon Aslay01/26/2020
    51:37
  33. 41.
    Getting Financially Naked: When You Should Ask A Partner What They Make And Why Prenups Are Crucial ft. Shannon McLay01/19/2020
    42:54
  34. 42.
    What Isn’t Attractive To Guys, Wishing Your Ex A HBD, and Dating Someone With Addiction01/12/2020
    32:29
  35. 43.
    Live Podcast at Bowery Ballroom (ft. Nick Viall, Tori Piskin, Alyssa Coscarelli, and Justin McLeod)01/05/2020
    1:39:21
  36. 44.
    Why Men Sleep With You On The First Date Because They’re Insecure, Being A Player In The Age Of Feminism, And Getting Divorced By Age 26.12/29/2019
    40:23
  37. 45.
    Breaking Off Engagements, Body Image, And Not Bringing Out The Best In Each Other ft. Anne Mahlum12/22/2019
    41:01
  38. 46.
    Living With A Partner For The First Time, Stigmas About Working For Your Parents, And Not Getting Married Until You’re Financially Set ft. The Zabar Twins12/15/2019
    43:29
  39. 47.
    Settling vs. Compromising, Emotionally Abusive Relationships, And My Parents Love Story12/08/2019
    31:30
  40. 48.
    WTF Is Mercury In Retrograde, Biological Clocks, And Can You Get Out Of The Friendzone? ft. That’s So Retrograde12/01/2019
    54:07
  41. 49.
    What A 26 Year Old Guy Is Looking For, PTSD From Exes, And When You’re Into Someone But The Timing Is Off ft. Kia11/24/2019
    48:22
  42. 50.
    Marriage Timelines and Ultimatums, Eating Issues, Demanding Friendships, and Tips To Move On.11/17/2019
    32:30
  43. 51.
    On/Off Relationships, Bullying, Nosejobs, And How Much To Share On Social Media with Michaela Podolsky11/10/2019
    50:51
  44. 52.
    Mental Health, The Correct Way To Slide Into Someone’s DMs, And Why You Should Wait To Have Sex with Atlanta De Cadenet Taylor11/03/2019
    58:11
  45. 53.
    Adam4Adam, Taking On Someone Else’s Debt, And If Opposites Actually Attract with Marko10/27/2019
    46:19
  46. 54.
    Serial Monogamy, Superstitions In Dating, And Pre-Sex Sleepovers With Lucas O’Neil10/20/2019
    55:06
  47. 55.
    Finding Love Again And Staying Healthy On Dates with Tanya Zuckerbrot10/13/2019
    55:02
  48. 56.
    Wedding, Venmo, and Dating Etiquette with Myka10/06/2019
    51:44
  49. 57.
    NYC Date Nite + My Theory About Guys09/29/2019
    52:19
  50. 58.
    Farmer Nick + the Dos and Don't of dating app profiles09/22/2019
    59:42
  51. 59.
    Julie Lauren from Hashtag No Filter09/15/2019
    50:31
  52. 60.
    Our 100th Episode! Featuring a solo podcast + Katie and Brian!08/31/2019
    58:48
  53. 61.
    Jule the Bee plus a preview of our live show in LA08/26/2019
    1:06:26
  54. 62.
    36 Questions That Lead To Love + Yummertime! 08/18/2019
    49:33
  55. 63.
    The Ladies from Uncensored Thoughts08/11/2019
    53:22
  56. 64.
    Lindsey's 2nd Solo Podcast and A Clip From Our Bowery Ballroom Show08/04/2019
    40:17
  57. 65.
    Kimmy and Liza from 51 First Dates07/28/2019
    51:15
  58. 66.
    Lindsey's Solo Episode!07/21/2019
    39:34
  59. 67.
    Writer Josh Roberts (he's got a British accent!)07/14/2019
    37:30
  60. 68.
    Human Design Guide Erin Claire Jones07/07/2019
    34:16
  61. 69.
    Pride Weekend! featuring Carly and Shelby06/30/2019
    43:35
  62. 70.
    Live Panel in Chicago06/23/2019
    56:27
  63. 71.
    Rori Sasson, author of The Art Of The Date and founder of Platinum Poire06/16/2019
    41:29
  64. 72.
    Missy Modell, host of The Nest and founder of YES MAM06/09/2019
    50:09
  65. 73.
    Lindsey's Friend Jonah Feingold06/02/2019
    42:12
  66. 74.
    Paige DeSorbo from Summer House05/26/2019
    39:46
  67. 75.
    Producer, Comedian, Director, and Aquarius Mike Kelton05/19/2019
    42:52
  68. 76.
    SURPRISE PROPOSAL: WOMAN THAT MET HER BOYFRIEND AT ACME PROPOSES05/12/2019
    45:31
  69. 77.
    Mark Manson, author of "F*** Yes Or No"05/05/2019
    40:37
  70. 78.
    The Couple That Keeps A Sex Journal04/28/2019
    37:59
  71. 79.
    Steve Kane, author of "F*** it. Get a Divorce"04/14/2019
    44:19
  72. 80.
    Comedian Ali Kolbert04/07/2019
    39:01
  73. 81.
    Singer/Songwriter Jake Miller03/31/2019
    45:39
  74. 82.
    Scheana from Vanderpump Rules03/24/2019
    43:46
  75. 83.
    Dating and Attraction Coach Connell Barrett 03/17/2019
    39:27
  76. 84.
    Actress Carly Chaikin from Mr. Robot03/10/2019
    43:39
  77. 85.
    Marc Weinstein: our favorite character in the Fyre Festival documentary03/03/2019
    46:02
  78. 86.
    Our Demons, Talking Shit, Objectifying Men, and Why You Shouldn't Take Advice From Your Single Friends ft. Hannah Berner02/24/2019
    37:42
  79. 87.
    What Prison Is Like, Persian Weddings, and Growing Up In A Bubble ft. Jonathan Shokrian of MeUndies 02/17/2019
    40:54
  80. 88.
    Reaction Management, CBT/DBT Therapy, Core Mindfulness, and Tolerating Pain ft. My Therapist Cecilia02/10/2019
    45:59
  81. 89.
    Adderall Addiction, Sexual Confidence, and Scams ft. Caroline Calloway02/03/2019
    1:22:48
  82. 90.
    Guys Who Finish Quickly, Long Distance Relationships, Scheduling Sex, and Defining Relationships Before Sex ft. Thomas and Tucker01/27/2019
    40:29
  83. 91.
    Saturn Return, Past Lives, Meeting People You Aren't Meant To Meet, and Self Awareness ft. Aliza Kelly01/20/2019
    45:26
  84. 92.
    Female Entrepreneurship, Supporting Your Partner, Showing Up For People, and New York vs. LA ft. Sally Kim of Crushed Tonic01/13/2019
    45:05
  85. 93.
    Dealbreakers, Dating With A Positive Attitude, Love Languages, and Moving In Together ft. Oliver Kremer of Dos Toros01/06/2019
    54:34
  86. 94.
    Britni Interviews Me On Why I Created The Podcast And We Discuss What Qualities To Look For In A Partner and Why You Shouldn't Have Sex On A First Date12/30/2018
    50:57
  87. 95.
    Bridesmaids For Hire, Worst Wedding Experiences, Opening Up To Strangers, and Being Helpful In A Wedding Party ft. Jen Glantz12/23/2018
    43:18
  88. 96.
    Long-term Relationships, Jealousy, What Sex-Ed Didn't Teach Us, Boarding School, Energy, and STDs ft. James Kavanagh12/16/2018
    35:11
  89. 97.
    Relationship Expectations, Dating Anxiety, Healing, and Intuitive Dating ft. Nikki Novo12/09/2018
    56:03
  90. 98.
    ASMR, Religious Cults, Being Very Single, Two Week Relationships, and Bad Dating App Experiences ft. Musician Kyan Palmer12/02/2018
    1:01:46
  91. 99.
    Gender Reassignment Surgery, and Cyber Bullying ft. Trans Activist and Model Corey Rae11/25/2018
    48:01
  92. 100.
    Kissing And Telling, Connecting vs. Just Being Attracted, and Nick's Favorite Bachelor Date ft. Nick Viall11/18/2018
    1:00:40
  93. 101.
    Making The First Move, Different Types Of Orgasms, The Gooch, and Proper Anal ft. Sexologist Shan Boodram11/11/2018
    53:57
  94. 102.
    Exes Coming Out, Paying On Dates, Therapy, Dating A Comedian, and Stalking Exes ft. Sam Morril11/04/2018
    51:55
  95. 103.
    Zodiac Sign Compatibility, Birth Charts, Nature Vs. Nurture, and The Importance Of The Moon ft. Nadine Jane10/28/2018
    1:04:20
  96. 104.
    Dating When You're A Celeb, The #metoo Movement, And Trust In A Relationship ft. Jerry Ferrara from Entourage 10/21/2018
    58:41
  97. 105.
    Fuckboy vs. Nonfuckboy Behavior, Body Hair, Bi-Coastal Relationships, and Healthy Sex Lives ft. Josh Kaplan10/07/2018
    59:03
  98. 106.
    Growing Up In NYC vs. Moving Here, Keeping Nudes, And What To Say On A Dating App ft. Serena Kerrigan09/30/2018
    50:53
  99. 107.
    Meet Cutes, Converting For A Partner, and Dating Preferences ft. Jonah, Jared, Jake, and Meredith09/23/2018
    1:40:29
  100. 108.
    Midwives, IUD's, Pregnancy, and Eating Your Placenta ft. Jori09/16/2018
    48:41
  101. 109.
    Breaking Your Penis, Instagram Models, Tabouli-gate, Sex Dreams, and Dating App Profiles ft. Ross Asdourian09/09/2018
    53:27
  102. 110.
    Turn-Ons, Lube, Enneagrams, And Attachment Styles ft. Chrissy Ford of Harper's Bazaar09/02/2018
    42:01
  103. 111.
    Meeting IRL vs. Apps, Men Who Are Too Into Social Media, and Kelly Ripa ft. Emma from Comments By Celebs08/26/2018
    55:24
  104. 112.
    Lesbian Dating, The Sexuality Spectrum, and Who Pays On A First Date For Two Women ft. Devyn Sloane08/19/2018
    48:41
  105. 113.
    Ghosting, Healing From Break Ups, and Attachment Styles (The Book "Attached") ft. Amy Chan08/05/2018
    48:30
  106. 114.
    Being A Bachelor at 51, Why It's Not Ok To Use Your Phone On Dates, and Shrooms ft. Joe from Nadkins07/29/2018
    58:28
  107. 115.
    Ariana Grande's Engagement, Texting With More Than One Person, and Cheer-sing On Dates ft. Jordana Kier and Vera Papisova07/23/2018
    59:01
  108. 116.
    Needing Validation, Personality > Looks, and Why Casual Sex Is Sad ft. David Shabtai07/15/2018
    54:52
  109. 117.
    Bringing Politics Into Your Relationship, Reaching Out First On A Dating App, and Dating Cheaters ft. Julia Young07/08/2018
    50:00
  110. 118.
    Fake Spiritual People, Kanye West, and Keeping The Mystery Alive ft. Andre J07/01/2018
    56:26
  111. 119.
    My Sister’s Rules vs. Mine06/24/2018
    53:07
  112. 120.
    Why You Shouldn't Marry For Love ft. Rabbi Manis Friedman06/17/2018
    42:30
  113. 121.
    Bachelor Drama, How To Participate When A Guy Is On Top, and Boring People ft. Corinne Olympios06/10/2018
    45:42
  114. 122.
    Guys Who Are Flashy, Talking To Friends About Your Sex Life, Toxic Relationships, and Counting Calories ft. Elizabeth and Dale from Sweats And The City06/03/2018
    1:00:05
  115. 123.
    Orbiting, Talking To Exes, Being Almost 30, and Being Able To Pay For Your Own Wedding ft. Kelly Keegs05/28/2018
    54:25
  116. 124.
    Being Engaged, If You Are Too Picky, Taking Criticism, and Unrealistic Expectations ft. Joshua Stern05/20/2018
    57:05
  117. 125.
    Jewish Mothers, Progressive Engagements, and Going Down On People ft. Alex Fine of Dame Products05/13/2018
    56:42
  118. 126.
    Being Emotional and Still Masculine and Dating In Your 30s vs 20s ft. Dan Doty of Evryman05/06/2018
    1:00:06
  119. 127.
    Rules For Friendships With The Opposite Sex and Wanting Exes To Want Us ft. Arianna of But Like Maybe04/29/2018
    48:34
  120. 128.
    Different Types Of Listening, Is Flirting Cheating?, and Posting A Partner On Social Media ft. Jack Mulqueen04/22/2018
    1:08:12
  121. 129.
    Living With A Man, Our Periods, and Experimental Relationships with Lauren Bille04/15/2018
    42:05
  122. 130.
    Orgasmic Meditation, Who You Pay For The Uber After Sex, and Gaining Weight In Relationships ft. Jesse Israel04/08/2018
    1:04:26
  123. 131.
    Consent Forms, Male Emotions, and Loving Your Parents ft. Remy Kassimir04/01/2018
    42:26
  124. 132.
    How To Know When Someone Is Into You and Moving On ft. DJ Madison LST03/25/2018
    58:53
  125. 133.
    Butterdicks, Age Differences, and Sisters ft. Sophie and Charlotte03/18/2018
    1:04:40
  126. 134.
    Safe Sex, HPV, Freezing Your Eggs, and IVF ft. Sex Therapist Carli Blau03/11/2018
    1:11:55
  127. 135.
    Partners Who Bring Out The Worst In Us and How To Define A Relationship Without Asking "What Are We" ft. Jared Matthew Weiss03/04/2018
    1:09:30
  128. 136.
    Dating As A Pornstar, Anal, and Gangbangs ft. Asa Akira02/25/2018
    57:08
  129. 137.
    Getting Hit On In The Club and Sending Nudes ft. Emma and Andrea02/22/2018
    52:19
  130. 138.
    Fighting with Jared Fried over dating morals02/18/2018
    1:04:47
  131. 139.
    BDSM, Sugar Daddies, and Abusive Relationships ft. Julia Fox02/11/2018
    53:37
  132. 140.
    Virginity Pacts, Stingy People, and HQ Trivia ft. Ava and Genevieve02/04/2018
    1:00:45
  133. 141.
    Getting Dumped, Sex Parties, and Prostitutes ft. Mike and Brad from Too Old To Date01/28/2018
    55:30
  134. 142.
    How Brooke DeVard Used "The Rules" To Land A Hubby01/21/2018
    51:40
  135. 143.
    How Religion Affects Dating, Burning Man, and Keeping Kosher ft. David Yarus01/14/2018
    49:14
  136. 144.
    Sexual Harassment, Experimenting in College, and Fetishes ft. Rayna Greenberg01/07/2018
    51:24
  137. 145.
    Dating Sober, Holding Grudges, and What Girls Ask ft. Isaac Hindin-Miller12/31/2017
    52:50
  138. 146.
    Playing Games, Turbulent Times, and Questionable Work Situations ft. Olivia Perez12/24/2017
    56:32
  139. 147.
    Uber Pools, Mental Health, and Should Guys Wear Engagement Rings? ft. Heavvy12/17/2017
    52:15
  140. 148.
    Hitting On Girls IRL, Eating Ass, and Joining The Mile High Club ft. Alik Alfus12/10/2017
    43:09
  141. 149.
    Taking Sides With A Couple Breaks Up ft. Patric, OG Acme door guy11/28/2017
    40:06
  142. 150.
    Dating Younger, Threesomes and Squirting ft. Julia Moshy11/19/2017
    56:32
  143. 151.
    Masculine vs Feminine Energy ft. My College Roommate Hannah11/08/2017
    29:15
  144. 152.
    Texting Etiquette and When To Have Sex ft. Britni11/02/2017
    49:11
  145. 153.
    Open Relationships And Dick Videos ft. Mike and Joe10/31/2017
    37:35
  146. 154.
    Our first episode! With Jake Smith aka Big Wet10/25/2017
    51:52

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