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New York Magazine's Sex Lives

By New York Magazine / Panoply

A weekly podcast about sex, lust, dating, technology, coupling, porn, fetish and freakiness. But mostly sex. With New York Magazine’s sex columnist Maureen O’Connor.

  1. 1.
    It's Not You. It's Us.06/16/2017
    36:27
  2. 2.
    Sex in the Summer of '6506/09/2017
    30:39
  3. 3.
    The Day Her Baby Called Her Boyfriend 'Dad'06/02/2017
    29:56
  4. 4.
    Diary of a Sex Coach05/26/2017
    34:12
  5. 5.
    Accio Jizzrag! All About Harry Potter Erotica05/19/2017
    25:50
  6. 6.
    Dan Savage's Sex Life05/12/2017
    51:45
  7. 7.
    All the Feels About Gay Weddings05/05/2017
    28:34
  8. 8.
    Why Dating Is So Damn Awkward04/28/2017
    33:23
  1. 9.
    How to Be Married04/21/2017
    27:01
  2. 10.
    The Dangers of a Too-Clean Dick04/14/2017
    24:38
  3. 11.
    Botox for Buttholes04/07/2017
    28:37
  4. 12.
    Is it OK to Take an Uber While Giving Birth?03/31/2017
    28:23
  5. 13.
    The Dating Tour of America03/24/2017
    42:52
  6. 14.
    HERPES!!!03/17/2017
    31:24
  7. 15.
    She Quit Law School to Write Erotica03/10/2017
    23:09
  8. 16.
    Virtual Reality Porn Is Killing Boners03/03/2017
    26:31
  9. 17.
    The Facebook of Sex02/24/2017
    30:27
  10. 18.
    The Invention of Safe Sex02/17/2017
    36:18
  11. 19.
    How to Flirt on Snapchat (and Every Other App)02/10/2017
    23:01
  12. 20.
    What It's Like to Be 'a Little Bit Pregnant'02/03/2017
    16:33
  13. 21.
    Whither the Lesbian?01/27/2017
    42:13
  14. 22.
    A Sloppy Night with Mike Pence01/20/2017
    19:58
  15. 23.
    Cannibals and Quicksand01/13/2017
    22:37
  16. 24.
    Red State, Blue State, Gay Twins01/06/2017
    21:26
  17. 25.
    Father, Son, and a Holy Reckoning12/30/2016
    42:34
  18. 26.
    The Most Wonderful Episode of the Year12/23/2016
    34:45
  19. 27.
    Sex and the Single 42-Year-Old Woman12/16/2016
    35:34
  20. 28.
    Hardcore Porn and the Pregnant Woman12/09/2016
    24:36
  21. 29.
    How Do You Know It's Real?12/02/2016
    22:57
  22. 30.
    Gay Son of a Preacher Man, and His Gender-Bending Family11/24/2016
    32:12
  23. 31.
    Take a Look at My Vag11/18/2016
    53:36
  24. 32.
    Testing a Male Sex Doll11/11/2016
    30:34
  25. 33.
    You Don't Know Dick11/04/2016
    34:02
  26. 34.
    The Cold, Denying Bitch's Guide to Texting10/28/2016
    33:21
  27. 35.
    The Grossest Things We Ate For Love10/21/2016
    30:03
  28. 36.
    Eddie Huang's Sex Life10/14/2016
    53:02
  29. 37.
    Nobody Needs a Magnum Condom10/07/2016
    27:43
  30. 38.
    Can Masturbation Be a Radical Act?09/29/2016
    28:58
  31. 39.
    Is Sex Better When You Own a House?09/22/2016
    30:54
  32. 40.
    Are the French Better at Sex?09/15/2016
    39:15
  33. 41.
    Can I Sleep with My BFF's Ex?09/08/2016
    40:46
  34. 42.
    How Celebrities Fake Love09/01/2016
    42:53
  35. 43.
    Dating Sucked. Then She Tried Women.08/25/2016
    32:04
  36. 44.
    The Couple That Shares a Toothbrush08/18/2016
    36:50
  37. 45.
    Who's Afraid of Sex Toys?08/11/2016
    27:43
  38. 46.
    Are You a Grower or Show-er in Love?08/04/2016
    32:16
  39. 47.
    Is Billary the Greatest Romance of Our Times?07/28/2016
    35:03
  40. 48.
    Can You Ask Your Gynecologist on a Date?07/21/2016
    44:14
  41. 49.
    Is Dating in New York Actually That Bad?07/14/2016
    36:01
  42. 50.
    The Hamptons Had an Orgy07/07/2016
    33:51
  43. 51.
    A Quick Programming Note!07/07/2016
    0:29
  44. 52.
    The Sexual Self-Inventory06/30/2016
    38:51
  45. 53.
    Porn for the Blind06/23/2016
    40:34
  46. 54.
    The Woman Who Invented Dating06/16/2016
    28:27
  47. 55.
    The Case for Arranged Marriage06/09/2016
    40:57
  48. 56.
    The Best Lay in New York Lives in the Trump Tower06/02/2016
    38:38
  49. 57.
    Dating While Semi-Famous And/Or Black05/26/2016
    32:08
  50. 58.
    Falling in Love With Your Anonymous Sperm Donor05/19/2016
    36:19
  51. 59.
    Does She Have to Orgasm Every Time?05/12/2016
    32:32
  52. 60.
    Is My Love Life Ruining My Social Life?05/05/2016
    37:05
  53. 61.
    How You Choreograph an Awkward Circle Jerk04/29/2016
    44:49
  54. 62.
    That Time I Dreamt I Blew My Dad04/23/2016
    35:40
  55. 63.
    Consider the Handjob04/13/2016
    29:23
  56. 64.
    What's the Shittiest Part About Breaking Up?04/06/2016
    29:30
  57. 65.
    Using Tinder in the Third Trimester03/30/2016
    24:33
  58. 66.
    Goodbye, Allison; Hello, Dick Picks!03/23/2016
    29:45
  59. 67.
    How Loud Is Unusually Loud?03/16/2016
    34:49
  60. 68.
    What Can't Period Sex Tell You About Someone's Sex Life?03/09/2016
    25:26
  61. 69.
    Is Clean Sex Possible (or Desirable)?03/02/2016
    36:14
  62. 70.
    How a Break-Up Can Ruin You02/24/2016
    25:31
  63. 71.
    Our Sex Robot Future (And How One Man Used It To F*** Himself)02/19/2016
    43:53
  64. 72.
    Can Balls Be Beautiful?02/10/2016
    27:46
  65. 73.
    A New Emoji for Butt Play02/03/2016
    29:05
  66. 74.
    Where (and When) Is It OK to Jerk Off In Public?01/27/2016
    32:37
  67. 75.
    THE INCREDIBLE RISE OF INCEST PORN01/20/2016
    25:33
  68. 76.
    A Sex Ed Curriculum Built Out of Porn01/13/2016
    31:55
  69. 77.
    Your Penis is Disgusting01/06/2016
    27:52
  70. 78.
    Finally Paying Attention to Vagina Size12/30/2015
    33:43
  71. 79.
    Everything You Ever Wanted to Ask An Online Dating Ghostwriter12/23/2015
    33:27
  72. 80.
    Guys We F*****d12/16/2015
    29:33
  73. 81.
    What Drives Someone to Castration?12/09/2015
    30:36
  74. 82.
    Orgasmic Childbirth Is A Thing12/02/2015
    25:53
  75. 83.
    Whatever Happened to the 69?11/25/2015
    27:26
  76. 84.
    How to Make Me Come Again11/18/2015
    26:33
  77. 85.
    How to Be Popular at an Orgy11/11/2015
    24:30
  78. 86.
    All Pickup Artists Are Now Male Feminists11/04/2015
    30:27
  79. 87.
    HOT DOG VS. EGGPLANT VS. WHALE-BONE DILDO10/28/2015
    27:27
  80. 88.
    Why Rihanna Gets Depressed After Sex10/21/2015
    24:27
  81. 89.
    Why Do I Still Fantasize About My First Boyfriend?10/14/2015
    22:20
  82. 90.
    Peak Sexual Satisfaction10/07/2015
    29:35
  83. 91.
    Is Absolutely Everyone Sexually Frustrated?09/30/2015
    26:07
  84. 92.
    What Can’t the Pullout Method Do?09/23/2015
    24:02
  85. 93.
    The Cultural History of the Bionic Dong09/16/2015
    25:49
  86. 94.
    How to Make Me Come09/09/2015
    26:33
  87. 95.
    ALL RELATIONSHIPS LEAD TO ANAL09/02/2015
    22:30
  88. 96.
    The World’s Most Beautiful Vagina08/19/2015
    28:16
  89. 97.
    Why, When, and How Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other08/12/2015
    27:43
  90. 98.
    The Secret History of the Glory Hole08/05/2015
    28:02
  91. 99.
    What Makes a Penis Beautiful?07/29/2015
    28:36
  92. 100.
    Could You Date in the Nude?07/22/2015
    31:10
  93. 101.
    FMK: Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell, Philip Roth07/15/2015
    30:15
  94. 102.
    Test-Driving the Vibrator of the Future07/08/2015
    27:12
  95. 103.
    The Politics of Where You Come07/01/2015
    20:09
  96. 104.
    New York Magazine’s Sex Lives: All Hail Female Viagra06/24/2015
    23:33
  97. 105.
    Is Tinder Giving You Herpes?06/17/2015
    21:01
  98. 106.
    We Put Dr. Ruth on the Couch06/10/2015
    19:19
  99. 107.
    Introducing the Threesome Matchmaker06/03/2015
    20:55
  100. 108.
    Best Picture Edition05/27/2015
    22:46
  101. 109.
    Ep. 07: Does Guernica Turn You On?05/20/2015
    33:37
  102. 110.
    Ep. 06: Hitting the Dick Gym05/13/2015
    26:05
  103. 111.
    Ep. 05: Eggplant Emoji Edition05/06/2015
    31:39
  104. 112.
    Ep. 04: How Loud Is Too Loud?04/29/2015
    30:54
  105. 113.
    Ep. 03: Dick2Bomb Edition04/22/2015
    18:14
  106. 114.
    Ep. 02: The Art of the Thirst Trap04/15/2015
    21:40
  107. 115.
    Ep. 01: Into the Sex Box04/15/2015
    16:19
  108. 116.
    Coming soon...Sex Lives04/14/2015
    0:46

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