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The Art of Charm

By AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak

The Art of Charm Podcast is where self-motivated guys and gals, just like you, come to learn from a diverse mix of experienced mentors, including the world's best dating coaches, relationship experts, entrepreneurs, bestselling authors and other professional badasses. This is not about how to get the best out of others, it's about YOU.We're AJ & Jordan Harbinger. In our early 20s, we decided it was time to take our lives to the next level, especially in the realm of professional networking, dating and relationships. We learned from the best performance coaches, entrepreneurs, hustlers, life-hackers, fashion and image consultants from around the world and created a program unlike anything available anywhere. We talk in-depth about the stuff you're hungry to explore but only really dig up after a few drinks.We created The Art of Charm Podcast to help you take control of your destiny and get practical guidance from a wide range of experts. We do this by interviewing the best in the business and making their knowledge available to you right here, for free. Guests range from Motivational Speakers to Entrepreneurs to Tim Ferris to Dog the Bounty Hunter. Topics include networking, business, dating, relationships, sex, career advice, fitness & nutrition, life-hacking and lifestyle design.Think self-help is for losers? Youre in the right place.The Art of Charm is the place where ordinary people become extraordinary. Find more at: http://www.theartofcharmpodcast.com/

  1. 1.
    734: 3 Phases of Habit Building You Need to Know12/10/2018
    57:56
  2. 2.
    733: Toolbox: How to Build Habits that Stick12/03/2018
    1:19:41
  3. 3.
    732: Goals: how to pick ‘em & achieve 'em | Chris Tye-Walker11/26/2018
    1:13:49
  4. 4.
    731: BONUS with Phillip Stutts11/22/2018
    1:00:56
  5. 5.
    730: Master Your Mindset with David Goggins11/19/2018
    1:24:54
  6. 6.
    729: Self-esteem is Bullshit11/12/2018
    1:19:56
  7. 7.
    728: How to Bounce Back From Challenging Times11/05/2018
    1:30:19
  8. 8.
    727: Sugar Ray Leonard10/29/2018
    1:01:31
  1. 9.
    726: 5 Hacks to Improve Your Listening | Q&A w/ Oscar Trimboli10/22/2018
    1:06:59
  2. 10.
    725: Boost Your Emotional Intelligence w/ Michael Ventura10/15/2018
    1:27:12
  3. 11.
    724: How to Deepen Your Connection With Others | Article10/08/2018
    1:16:28
  4. 12.
    723: Why Vulnerability Leads to Connection | Toolbox10/01/2018
    1:09:49
  5. 13.
    722: What Matters Most in a Difficult Conversation | Q&A w/ Andrea J. Lee09/24/2018
    1:40:58
  6. 14.
    721: How to Improve Your Workplace Communication | Michael Sorensen09/17/2018
    1:01:47
  7. 15.
    720: Turning Toward Emotion | Article09/10/2018
    1:00:15
  8. 16.
    719: Why Emotional Connection Makes or Breaks a Relationship | ToolBox09/04/2018
    1:13:29
  9. 17.
    718: Overcoming Social Anxiety in your Career | Q&A w/ Chris “Drama” Pfaff08/27/2018
    1:16:44
  10. 18.
    717: Beat Approach Anxiety | Alex Banayan08/20/2018
    1:21:33
  11. 19.
    716: 8 Tips to Keep the Conversation Going08/13/2018
    1:00:25
  12. 20.
    715: The Art of Compelling Conversations08/07/2018
    1:09:10
  13. 21.
    714: The Art of the Pitch With Oren Klaff07/30/2018
    1:53:15
  14. 22.
    713: The Art of Gaining Interest with Chris Williams07/23/2018
    1:12:17
  15. 23.
    712: The Like Switch: Dr. Jack Schafer07/16/2018
    1:12:07
  16. 24.
    711: The Art of Talking to Strangers07/11/2018
    1:08:00
  17. 25.
    710: The Art of Breaking the Ice07/02/2018
    1:07:37
  18. 26.
    709: Q&A: The Art of Style06/25/2018
    1:54:17
  19. 27.
    708: The Art of Living - With Jesse Itzler06/18/2018
    1:11:35
  20. 28.
    707: The Art of Body Language06/11/2018
    1:06:03
  21. 29.
    706: The Art of the First Impression06/04/2018
    1:27:44
  22. 30.
    705: AoC Podcast | Don’t Try To Be Funny: The Art of Improv05/29/2018
    1:01:26
  23. 31.
    704: AoC Podcast | The Bad House Guest: Cognitive Distortions05/22/2018
    1:34:29
  24. 32.
    703: AoC Podcast | The Power of Accountability05/16/2018
    1:20:10
  25. 33.
    702: AoC Podcast | Brutal Truths Part 205/09/2018
    55:21
  26. 34.
    701: AoC Podcast | Brutal Truths Part 105/01/2018
    51:15
  27. 35.
    700: AoC Podcast | The Myth of Perfectionism04/18/2018
    54:18
  28. 36.
    699: AoC Podcast | Johnny Interviews AJ04/13/2018
    1:28:34
  29. 37.
    698: AoC Podcast | AJ Interviews Johnny04/03/2018
    1:12:52
  30. 38.
    697: AoC Toolbox | High Value Conflict Resolution03/26/2018
    56:56
  31. 39.
    696: AoC Toolbox | Mental Models and Frameworks03/17/2018
    1:01:57
  32. 40.
    695: AoC Value Toolbox | Leading with Value03/07/2018
    1:04:11
  33. 41.
    694: AoC Value Toolbox | Becoming High Value02/28/2018
    1:04:48
  34. 42.
    693: AoC Value Toolbox | Identifying Low Value Behaviors02/20/2018
    58:19
  35. 43.
    692: John Heffron | The Laughs You Deserve02/01/2018
    57:45
  36. 44.
    691: Eric Thomas | The Hip Hop Preacher01/30/2018
    1:06:35
  37. 45.
    690: Allan Pease | Definitive Body Language01/25/2018
    1:03:34
  38. 46.
    689: Leo Babauta | Zen Habits01/23/2018
    1:20:48
  39. 47.
    Fan Mail Friday #150 | Chuck Norris vs. Podcast01/19/2018
    57:34
  40. 48.
    688: Lewis Howes | The Mask of Masculinity01/18/2018
    54:23
  41. 49.
    687: Paul Gilmartin | A Principled Life01/16/2018
    58:18
  42. 50.
    Fan Mail Friday #149 | Meta Electroshock Sex01/12/2018
    42:28
  43. 51.
    686: Akshay Nanavati | Fearvana01/11/2018
    1:07:36
  44. 52.
    685: David DeSteno | Emotional Success01/09/2018
    56:34
  45. 53.
    Fan Mail Friday #148 | Long Distance Feng Shui01/05/2018
    46:15
  46. 54.
    684: Celeste Headlee | We Need to Talk01/04/2018
    1:12:45
  47. 55.
    683: AoC Toolbox | If Quality Is What You Want, Focus on Quantity01/02/2018
    25:52
  48. 56.
    Fan Mail Friday #147 | Pumpkin Pie for Breakfast12/29/2017
    1:02:27
  49. 57.
    682: Steve Sims | Making Things Happen12/28/2017
    59:53
  50. 58.
    681: Christopher Lochhead | Category Design12/26/2017
    53:50
  51. 59.
    Fan Mail Friday #146 | Don't Dip the Pen in Company Ink12/22/2017
    50:21
  52. 60.
    680: Ulrich Boser | Learn Better12/21/2017
    54:47
  53. 61.
    679: Michele Rigby Assad | My Secret Life in the CIA12/19/2017
    1:15:43
  54. 62.
    Fan Mail Friday #145 | Less Brutal12/15/2017
    42:37
  55. 63.
    678: Meg Jay | Supernormal Resilience12/14/2017
    50:59
  56. 64.
    677: Kevin Harrington | As Seen on TV12/12/2017
    1:02:23
  57. 65.
    Fan Mail Friday #144 | Cracking Knuckles with Brutal Linda12/08/2017
    56:05
  58. 66.
    676: Susan David | Emotional Agility12/07/2017
    1:02:54
  59. 67.
    675: Justin Ramsdell | Rotten Psychology12/05/2017
    59:20
  60. 68.
    Fan Mail Friday #143 | Sidekicks and Socialites12/01/2017
    48:32
  61. 69.
    674: AoC Toolbox | What to Do If You're Stuck11/30/2017
    32:11
  62. 70.
    673: A.J. Jacobs | It's All Relative11/28/2017
    56:12
  63. 71.
    Fan Mail Friday #142 | Bits of Cod11/24/2017
    34:23
  64. 72.
    672: Kevin Rose | From Rose to Oak11/23/2017
    1:04:03
  65. 73.
    671: Corbin Payne | How to Interact with the Police11/21/2017
    1:03:56
  66. 74.
    Minisode Monday #80 | How to Ask Questions That Uncover Motivation11/20/2017
    3:48
  67. 75.
    Fan Mail Friday #141 | Dichromats, Trichromats, and Doormats11/17/2017
    39:32
  68. 76.
    670: AoC Toolbox | How to Stop Feeling Like An Imposter11/16/2017
    37:59
  69. 77.
    669: Scott Adams | Win Bigly11/14/2017
    1:09:19
  70. 78.
    Minisode Monday #79 | Why We're More Productive on Airplanes (and How to Be When We're Not)11/13/2017
    8:21
  71. 79.
    Fan Mail Friday #140 | I Don't Love Being Lamp11/10/2017
    40:42
  72. 80.
    668: Jon Acuff | The Gift of Done11/09/2017
    1:06:10
  73. 81.
    667: Tom Bilyeu | Impact Theory11/07/2017
    58:31
  74. 82.
    Minisode Monday #78 | Harnessing Emotions for Powerful Storytelling11/06/2017
    12:59
  75. 83.
    Fan Mail Friday #139 | Weed on the Tweed11/03/2017
    41:34
  76. 84.
    666: Bob Sutton | The Asshole Survival Guide11/02/2017
    55:20
  77. 85.
    665: Aubrey Marcus | An Optimized Life10/31/2017
    1:02:47
  78. 86.
    Minisode Monday #77 | How to Curate the Influence of People Around Us10/30/2017
    6:07
  79. 87.
    Fan Mail Friday #138 | Don't Hug Me, Bro10/27/2017
    1:03:38
  80. 88.
    664: AoC Toolbox | Five Fundamentals of a Solid Approach10/26/2017
    47:09
  81. 89.
    663: Chris Guillebeau | Side Hustle10/24/2017
    1:05:58
  82. 90.
    Minisode Monday #76 | The Three Rings of Perception10/23/2017
    11:25
  83. 91.
    Fan Mail Friday #137 | Toxic Insecurity10/20/2017
    1:07:12
  84. 92.
    662: Jeff Goins | Real Artists Don't Starve10/19/2017
    1:05:00
  85. 93.
    661: Winifred Reilly | It Takes One to Tango10/17/2017
    58:04
  86. 94.
    Minisode Monday #75 | The Small Talk Tennis Ball Drill10/16/2017
    5:35
  87. 95.
    Fan Mail Friday #136 | Hamster Wheel of Hate10/13/2017
    43:01
  88. 96.
    660: Too $hort | The Pimp Tape10/12/2017
    53:46
  89. 97.
    659: Russell Brand | Freedom from Our Addictions10/10/2017
    1:02:06
  90. 98.
    Minisode Monday #74 | Psychological Halloweenism10/09/2017
    8:54
  91. 99.
    Fan Mail Friday #135 | Forwarding the Family Name10/06/2017
    46:20
  92. 100.
    658: Noah Kagan | Limitations and Innovations10/05/2017
    1:03:03
  93. 101.
    657: Dorie Clark | Entrepreneurial You10/03/2017
    59:21
  94. 102.
    Minisode Monday #73 | The Positive Intent of Emotion10/02/2017
    5:00
  95. 103.
    Fan Mail Friday #134 | Less Ego, More Amigo09/29/2017
    1:08:13
  96. 104.
    656: AoC Toolbox | Four Components of a First Impression09/28/2017
    39:00
  97. 105.
    655: Roger Stone | Everyone Hates Roger Stone09/26/2017
    59:39
  98. 106.
    Minisode Monday #72 | First Meetings for Spies, Anti-Spies, and Ordinary People09/25/2017
    10:19
  99. 107.
    Fan Mail Friday #133 | Romance and Finance09/22/2017
    32:56
  100. 108.
    654: Admiral William H. McRaven | That's So McRaven09/21/2017
    58:29
  101. 109.
    653: Robin Dreeke | The Code of Trust09/19/2017
    49:29
  102. 110.
    Minisode Monday #71 | How Does Your Pet See the World?09/18/2017
    3:48
  103. 111.
    Fan Mail Friday #132 | Lonely Lattes and Total Teetotalers09/15/2017
    1:01:37
  104. 112.
    652: Daniel McGinn | The Science of Mental Preparation09/14/2017
    51:16
  105. 113.
    651: Frank Sesno | The Power of Questions09/12/2017
    1:02:13
  106. 114.
    Minisode Monday #70 | How to Control Emotional Feedback with CIRCA09/11/2017
    7:39
  107. 115.
    Fan Mail Friday #131 | Complicated vs. Complex09/08/2017
    48:06
  108. 116.
    650: General Ann Dunwoody | A Higher Standard09/07/2017
    46:27
  109. 117.
    649: Rob Reid | After On09/05/2017
    1:21:28
  110. 118.
    Minisode Monday #69 | Why You Should Record Your Conversations with Strangers09/04/2017
    5:30
  111. 119.
    Fan Mail Friday #130 | The Other Guy in the Glass09/01/2017
    25:33
  112. 120.
    648: AoC Toolbox | Truth: A Better Way to Talk About Ourselves08/31/2017
    31:46
  113. 121.
    647: Charlamagne Tha God | Black Privilege08/29/2017
    58:17
  114. 122.
    Minisode Monday #68 | An Everyday Way to Renew Contact with Old Acquaintances08/28/2017
    5:50
  115. 123.
    Fan Mail Friday #129 | Listening Instead of Thinking Ahead08/25/2017
    32:22
  116. 124.
    646: Mark Divine | Unbeatable Mind08/24/2017
    56:11
  117. 125.
    645: Richard Clarke | Warnings, Cassandras, and Catastrophes08/22/2017
    1:07:17
  118. 126.
    Minisode Monday #67 | Dabbling: Not Just for Dilettantes08/21/2017
    9:23
  119. 127.
    Fan Mail Friday #128 | Beware of Insecure Security08/18/2017
    29:22
  120. 128.
    644: Garry Kasparov | Deep Thinking08/17/2017
    1:04:22
  121. 129.
    643: Srini Pillay | The Power of the Unfocused Mind08/15/2017
    51:26
  122. 130.
    Minisode Monday #66 | Doing the Hard Thing Is Easy08/14/2017
    8:39
  123. 131.
    Fan Mail Friday #127 | This Misophonia Goes to 1108/11/2017
    31:38
  124. 132.
    642: Lynn Lyons | Playing with Anxiety08/10/2017
    57:29
  125. 133.
    641: Daniel Levitin | Weaponized Lies08/08/2017
    51:29
  126. 134.
    Minisode Monday #65 | The Advantages of Being an Amateur08/07/2017
    9:04
  127. 135.
    Fan Mail Friday #126 | The Ugly Truth About Excusamine08/04/2017
    38:34
  128. 136.
    640: Linda Carroll | First Love Fantasies and the Myth of Closure08/03/2017
    41:40
  129. 137.
    639: Jay Mohr | Mohr Stories08/01/2017
    1:11:05
  130. 138.
    Minisode Monday #64 | How to Make Decisions with Absolute Truths07/31/2017
    11:56
  131. 139.
    Fan Mail Friday #125 | Is Formulating a Response a Mistake?07/28/2017
    44:42
  132. 140.
    638: AoC Toolbox | Understanding What People Really Want07/27/2017
    32:53
  133. 141.
    637: Bill Nye | Radical Curiosity Saves the World07/25/2017
    48:17
  134. 142.
    Minisode Monday #63 | Are You Setting the Bar Too High?07/24/2017
    4:59
  135. 143.
    Fan Mail Friday #124 | Would You Like Vocal Fry with your Uptalk?07/21/2017
    27:27
  136. 144.
    636: Tim Grover | Relentless at Best07/20/2017
    1:04:44
  137. 145.
    635: Jack Barsky | Deep Undercover Pt. 207/18/2017
    53:33
  138. 146.
    Minisode Monday #62 | It's All Fake News If We Pick and Choose07/17/2017
    3:58
  139. 147.
    Fan Mail Friday #123 | I Hate My Boss07/14/2017
    48:48
  140. 148.
    634: Christian Picciolini | Life After Hate07/13/2017
    56:24
  141. 149.
    633: Jack Barsky | Deep Undercover Pt. 107/11/2017
    50:17
  142. 150.
    Minisode Monday #61 | Acknowledging vs. Suppressing Emotions07/10/2017
    4:30
  143. 151.
    Fan Mail Friday #122 | Well Played, Sugar Nuts07/07/2017
    37:00
  144. 152.
    632: Chase Hughes | The Behavioral Table of the Elements07/06/2017
    1:09:17
  145. 153.
    631: Aaron Walker | View from the Top07/04/2017
    54:21
  146. 154.
    Minisode Monday #60 | Hacking Motivation with Value Languages07/03/2017
    8:21
  147. 155.
    Fan Mail Friday #121 | 21st Century Millennial Loneliness06/30/2017
    37:55
  148. 156.
    630: AoC Toolbox | Becoming Friendly with Uncertainty06/29/2017
    32:11
  149. 157.
    629: Timothy Snyder | Twentieth Century Lessons on Tyranny06/27/2017
    58:58
  150. 158.
    Minisode Monday #59 | How to Overcome Default Friendships06/26/2017
    7:41
  151. 159.
    Fan Mail Friday #120 | Is the Juice Worth the Squeeze?06/23/2017
    25:57
  152. 160.
    628: Brian Brushwood | Scam School & The Modern Rogue06/22/2017
    1:04:16
  153. 161.
    627: David Buss | The Evolution of Desire06/20/2017
    1:08:21
  154. 162.
    Minisode Monday #58 | Chris Hadfield: Boss In Space06/19/2017
    7:20
  155. 163.
    Norm Pattiz | PodcastOne (Bonus)06/18/2017
    55:31
  156. 164.
    Fan Mail Friday #119 | Anger and Dopamine06/16/2017
    33:29
  157. 165.
    626: Adam Braun | MissionU06/15/2017
    53:39
  158. 166.
    625: Chris Hadfield | Rare Earthling06/13/2017
    1:11:22
  159. 167.
    Minisode Monday #57 | The Way We Treat the Ones We Meet06/12/2017
    6:12
  160. 168.
    Fan Mail Friday #118 | What Dat Mean?06/09/2017
    30:09
  161. 169.
    624: Nick Bilton | American Kingpin06/08/2017
    48:26
  162. 170.
    623: Dean Karnazes | The Road to Sparta06/06/2017
    1:03:50
  163. 171.
    Minisode Monday #56 | Success Momentum06/05/2017
    8:22
  164. 172.
    Fan Mail Friday #117 | Shelf Help Isn't Always Helpful06/02/2017
    28:49
  165. 173.
    622: David Eagleman | Making Sense of The Brain06/01/2017
    55:55
  166. 174.
    621: Bryan Callen | Mixed Mental Arts05/30/2017
    1:04:10
  167. 175.
    Minisode Monday #55 | Communication Between the Lines05/29/2017
    4:13
  168. 176.
    Fan Mail Friday #116 | There's Always a Bill05/26/2017
    38:14
  169. 177.
    620: AoC Toolbox | The Art of Grit05/25/2017
    25:13
  170. 178.
    619: Gabrielle Reece | Less Than Perfect05/23/2017
    50:32
  171. 179.
    Minisode Monday #54 | Treat Your Haters Like Toddlers05/22/2017
    4:32
  172. 180.
    Fan Mail Friday #115 | Don't Fake It 'Til You Break It05/19/2017
    1:00:57
  173. 181.
    618: Peter McGraw | The Humor Code05/18/2017
    59:04
  174. 182.
    617: Neil deGrasse Tyson | Astrophysics for People in a Hurry05/16/2017
    1:18:07
  175. 183.
    Minisode Monday #53 | Creative Avoidance05/15/2017
    11:43
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    Fan Mail Friday #114 | If They Can't Pay, Walk Away05/12/2017
    36:16
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    616: Lisa Feldman Barrett | How Emotions Are Made05/11/2017
    53:34
  178. 186.
    615: Isaac Lidsky | Eyes Wide Open05/09/2017
    55:11
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    Minisode Monday #52 | Five Tips for Remembering Names and Faces with CHARM05/08/2017
    12:49
  180. 188.
    Fan Mail Friday #113 | Hating Your Job Is Not a Business Plan05/05/2017
    26:46
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    614: Alex Kouts | The 7 Deadly Sins of Reading the News05/04/2017
    1:02:58
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    613: Graeme Wood | Understanding ISIS05/02/2017
    1:03:32
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    Minisode Monday #51 | The Great Waves of Influence05/01/2017
    3:38
  184. 192.
    BONUS: Daniel DiPiazza | Rich20Something04/30/2017
    52:06
  185. 193.
    Fan Mail Friday #112 | Highway to the Friend Zone04/28/2017
    30:09
  186. 194.
    612: Andy Molinsky | A Reach from Comfort04/27/2017
    49:54
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    611: Jim Kwik | Kwik Brain04/25/2017
    1:12:02
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    Minisode Monday #50 | Skill Stacking for Top Performance04/24/2017
    8:43
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    Fan Mail Friday #111 | It's All Kiribati to Me04/21/2017
    30:59
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    610: Vanessa Van Edwards | Captivate04/20/2017
    1:10:17
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    609: Sarah Robb O'Hagan | Extreme You04/18/2017
    49:42
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    Minisode Monday #49 | Stop Spreading Anxiety04/17/2017
    4:09

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