Young Black Married Christian

LaShaude and Dorianna James

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Free Bonus Material Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/74279-how-to-improve-your-sex-life-with-3-easy-steps-eps-55You want:✔ to make more time for intimacy✔ increase the motivation for you and your spouse ✔send and receive CLEAR signals with your spouse But it feels like: -you're disconnected from your spouse-you can't seem to be in the mood at the same timeIn this episode, you'll quickly learn how to make room for play and foreplay.

Sep 9

13 min 39 sec

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Jul 27

2 min 5 sec

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Jul 25

16 min 57 sec

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Jul 22

10 min 10 sec

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Jun 16

26 min 8 sec

In this episode, you will learn how to …✅ Process the change you are experiencing✅Assess your past to recognize your present✅Understand your spouse’s response to change✅Grow closer to your spouse through conflict✅Create a plan of action you agree on together✅Anticipate a healthy future for a lasting legacy🚨The Forgiven Podcast🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/forgivenpodcast🎁SUBSCRIBE AND GET A FREE GIFT🎁Follow Our Guest Here: https://www.seanandlanette.com/🎁Follow Them & Then Claim Your Free Gift! 🎁🚨Inner Circle Bonuses🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/65249-episode-52-gifts-bonuses-and-live-meetup

Jun 7

24 min 13 sec

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May 28

9 min 27 sec

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May 14

17 min 1 sec

🚨The Forgiven Podcast🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/forgivenpodcast🎁SUBSCRIBE AND GET A FREE GIFT🎁🚨Bonus Teaching🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/62389-bonus-teaching-for-episode-50In this episode, you will learn …✅[01:20] How To Have Hard Conversations With Your Spouse✅ [02:45] Jesus used Teachings, Stories, and Questions✅ [04:45] Atomesphese, Story Question Method of Asking Perfect Questions ✅ [05:21] Don't Argue Via Text Messages✅ [07:55] Don't ask LOADED Questions✅ [09:20] Narrative Transportation AKA Storytelling✅ [12:53] Intimacy is INTO-ME-SEE✅ [18:15] Communication Tips From an FBI Negotiators Never Forget... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.

May 12

24 min 41 sec

🚨Get Our $127 Offer For Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyIn this episode, you will learn …✅[05:45] Ask For What You Want✅ [07:40] Your Marriage Should Be Bathed In Prayer✅ [09:00] Sitting With Your Father Is Never a Waste of Time.✅ [10:45] Trust What's Happening Under The Surface✅ [13:30] The Best Intimacy Advice We Have Is....✅ [15:45] Your spouse studies differently than you.✅ [18:37] Your Marriage Will Get EXPOSED✅ [19:10] Children Will Expose You✅ [20:50] Being sleepy is like being drunk?!? Don't fight drunk!?!✅ [24:20] Is Your Spouse A Stay At Home Parent? ✅ [30:20] Why Does Everything Cause An Argument✅ [34:25] How To Build Up Your Spouse With Love✅ [40:30] There Is Data For Your "Unique" DilemmaShownotes: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/courses/inner/671632-2021-premium-episodes/2260027-marriage-money-and-god-after-having-a-child-ad-free-eps-49-mp3Never Forget.... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.

Apr 22

43 min 19 sec

🚨Get Our $127 Offer For Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyIn this episode, you will learn …✅How to Increase Bible Reading With Your Spouse✅How To Triple The Amount Of Prayer Time With Your Family✅How To Encourage Your Family To Sing Out To GodNever Forget.... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.

Apr 5

33 min 56 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Content For This Episode Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/yourmarriagembaIn this episode, you will learn how to invest 15 minutes and get your family MBA on paper and on purpose? 💰How to make a family mission statement using just 3 short questions.How to make a functional budget using just 2 questions.How to make a family agenda using just 2 questions.Your marriage will immediately become more productive and better equipped to WIN.

Mar 28

31 min 45 sec

🚨Get Our $127 Offer For Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyIn this episode, you will learn …✅How to Apologize Faster✅When You Apologize You Need To Talk About How Your Actions Affected Your Spouse! How did it make them feel?✅The best apology is changed behavior.✅ In some cases, the apology needs to be as public as the offense.✅ How To Turn Thorns Into Roses!Never Forget.... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.

Mar 24

18 min 54 sec

In this episode, you will learn …✅[04:00] Why Communication is not one-size-fits-all!✅[12:30] Expectations have to be expressed and managed! When life goes changes your circumstances you must reset expectations✅[21:30] How ALL conflict can be turned into a good exchange.✅[25:30] The 5 Rs to Repair a Conflict✅[31:15] How To Time Travel and Change Your Spouse Memories About Arguments.✅[33:30] How To Risk Rejection To Reconnect With My SpouseMeet Our Guests:https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans/https://theargumenthangover.com/🚨Get Our $127 Offer Free 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family

Mar 19

42 min 25 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/53132-our-new-baby-house-and-mba-eps-45-bonus-contentWant to learn how to have the perfect family budget? 💰In this episode, you will learn …(04:42) How To Analyze Your Family's Stewardship Of God's Resources🔬(15:48) How To Fight For Agreement Over Your Family Budget 🤝(27:03): Keep Trying Different Methods Until One Sticks 🎯

Feb 23

37 min 40 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/49787-marriage-based-on-progression-vs-perfection-eps-44-bonusIn this episode, we explore how quarantine has affected your marriage!In this episode, you will learn …1. This Pandemic is a magnifier 🔍 of where you're really at in your marriage and life. It exposed where we really were.2. Sin is a 🦠 virus and cancer and seed that grows if not taken care of. The silent treatment is like pouring gas on the fire or letting a weed grow in your garden.3. There's an opportunity in this solitude. You could cultivate an intimacy that will support you in 2021.

Jan 22

37 min 52 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/38741-don-t-should-all-over-your-spouse-episode-43-bonus-trainingIn this episode, you will learn …1. We must help our spouse move from Unbelief To Belief in every area of their life.2. Don't give your spouse so many compliments and criticism/corrections. They need to be reminded of the covenant relationship they have with God in Christ more than they need your words.3. Use the 4 G's to help them know their identity in Christ.God is great – so we don’t have to be in controlGod is glorious – so we don’t have to fear othersGod is good – so we don’t have to look elsewhereGod is gracious – so we don’t have to prove ourselves

Oct 2020

38 min 29 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Video For This Episode 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/38543-did-you-know-that-you-are-making-disciples-alreadyIn this episode, you will learn …1. Disciples Make Disciples (It's not our pastor's job... it's on us)2. It's NOT family or mission... It's Family On Mission3. Integration > Addition. We don't add disciple-making into our schedule we integrate it into our lives.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family

Oct 2020

36 min 56 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsWant to learn how to get on the same page as your spouse?In this episode, you'll learn ...1. Find Out What's Really Important To Your Family. Stop assuming you understand the priorities of your spouse.2. Write down what's important. Develop an ideal week on paper and on purpose.3. Give grace. The secret to an ideal week and a mission statement is giving yourself the grace to aim for it week after week. Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyGet your MBA (Mission, Budget, Agenda) at www.themarriagesecrets.com/mba

Jul 2020

40 min 58 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsIn this episode, you will learn …1. Jesus cares about Justice.2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows, and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.5. Engage In The Economy. Using your dollar to only support businesses that share your values.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

Jul 2020

31 min 26 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsIn this episode, you will learn …1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault. 2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

May 2020

35 min 24 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsWant to learn how to partner with your spouse? 💰In this episode, you will learn …3 Big Ideas:1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your RelationshipColossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another...Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

May 2020

34 min 34 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts3 Big Ideas:✅The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.✅We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.✅Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.Ephesians 4:32 And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/familyGet Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching

May 2020

25 min 27 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsExcuse the audio quality of this interview, but we HAD to share this interview with you. There are TOO many gems in here for us to keep hidden.There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWNJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

May 2020

48 min 5 sec

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May 2020

32 min 46 sec

In this episode, you will learn …✅ We need obedience-driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.✅ We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss. ✅ We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act. 🚨Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode 🚨www.marriage.podia.com/hearandobey[02:00] Phenomenal Family Shoutouts[03:45] How to know the difference between curriculum-driven discipleship versus obedience-driven discipleship.[05:45] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me?[06:15] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me in scripture?[07:15] God speaking can feel like a speed bump. (see Jonah 1:4)[08:35] God speaking can feel like a brick wall. (Acts 16:6)[09:45] God speaking can feel like a window.[10:15] God speaking can feel like a mirror. (Luke 15:17-20)[10:45] How do I REFLECT and DISCUSS what God it saying to me?[13:45] How do I PLAN what I'm going to do about it?[17:45] We need ACCOUNTABILITY.[21:00] We must ACT. Matthew 7:24-29[22:30] RecapJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/familyOne-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching

Apr 2020

26 min 7 sec

🚨Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode 🚨www.marriage.podia.com/realestate 4 Big Ideas:✅ Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved. ✅ You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund, etc.✅ On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough equity built in to profit from selling it. ✅ If you’re the "friend with a good job”. Buy a house and have your friends pay you rent.[01:00] Introduction of Chris Winstead www.AllCitySA.com[01:30] Chris calls you the Phenom-ily! *sorry -LJ*[02:00] What is the simplified process of buying a house? Is it complicated?[03:15] How much money do you need in your bank account in order to buy a house?[04:30] Why go to FB and IG first?[05:00] What is equity and why should you understand it?[06:30] Your money is better spent growing in your home than growing in your bank account.[07:00] Renting vs Buying a Home[08:30] Securing the Bag means keeping the bag by not paying rent forever. Pay yourself by purchasing a home.[09:00] Check out the home you’re going to buy at different times of the day[10:00] Why have your landlord raise your rent when you can have a fixed mortgage?[12:00] How long do I have to stay in a house if I buy it? What’s the process of selling?[17:00] What are some successful ways to profit from real estate? What if I’m not married?[19:00] Recap[21:00] Lighting Round QuestionsJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

Mar 2020

26 min 21 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts✅ This episode is all about increasing the passion, intimacy, and commitment in your marriage. You don't want to miss the laughs and lessons shared in this shareworthy episode. Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

Feb 2020

39 min 47 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts[03:30] #1 You don't know how to limit frustrations in your marriage.[08:30] #2 You don't have a shared family budget for your time or your money.[12:00] #3 You don't have a core mission or vision for your family.[16:00] Revised James Family Mission Statement[18:00] #4 You don't have agreed-upon rules for when you fight.[22:00] #5 You believe that once you get married you'll live "happily ever after".[23:30] #6 You believe that your marriage will solve personal problems that only God can fix.[26:30] #7 You stonewall when arguing. [30:00] #8 You criticize or attack your spouse's character instead of the behavior their doing.Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

Jan 2020

35 min 19 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsIn this episode, you will learn …✅ Pleasure without boundaries quickly turns dark. This episode will teach you why and how to set healthy boundaries with people outside your marriage.✅Don't fulfill legitimate needs in illegitimate ways.✅Any friendships without boundaries quickly turns dark.✅Don't put yourself in tough situations to have to make tough decisions.✅Sometimes the best way to say no is to not give yourself the opportunity to say yes.✅Don't use the "brother/ sister in Christ" vocabulary to allow you to put yourself in intimate situations. Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family

Jan 2020

28 min 1 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts1. Because of the gospel, Christians have become new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17). 2. Because of the gospel, we are forgiven (Ephesians 1:7). 3. Because of the gospel, we can forgive, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32). 4. Because of the gospel, we are accepted by God.5. Because of the gospel, sin's ruling power over us is broken (Romans 6:6, 14). 6. Because of the gospel, we have access to God through Christ (Hebrews 4:14-16). 7. Because of the gospel, we have hope (Romans 5:1-4). 8. Because of the gospel, Christ dwells in us by his Holy Spirit (Galatians 3:13-14). 9. Because of the gospel, we have the power to fight and overcome remaining sin.********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

Dec 2019

37 min 52 sec

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Dec 2019

32 min 53 sec

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Nov 2019

48 min 48 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsJoin the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family✅ Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅ Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅ Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Oct 2019

24 min 14 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts[05:00] Some questions about Anthony's Unique Story/ Past Debt Free Degree Specific Questions-Tell me about your new book, Debt-Free Degree.[14:00] You say that you can go to school debt-free. How can you do it?[18:30] It’s never too early to plan. What should parents do each year to start planning for life after high school?[22:00] So you have a junior or senior in high school and no money saved for college. What do you say to that parent? [24:30] What’s some advice parents can give to their kids so that they can be successful once they’re in college.[28:30] Lighting Round Questions Anthony ONeal- https://www.anthonyoneal.com/resources/********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family✅ Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅ Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅ Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Sep 2019

35 min 1 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsDo you want to learn 7 Tips To Deal With In-Laws?[1:30] - Shoutout to MotivatedByBridget, QueensANCSPECIAL SHOUTOUT To Our First Founding Student Abigail S.[04:15] Work With Your Spouse[05:45] Set Boundaries and Limits. This is where you can use your family's core values.[11:00] Enforce the Boundaries and Limits[16:15] Important ACTION STEP[18:00] Communicate Directly[23:00] Know Yourself and Be Yourself[24:20] Honor the Relationship between your spouse and your in-laws[25:50] Don't Fumble the Inheritance[29:15] Quick Recap and Action Steps.********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family✅Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅ Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Sep 2019

35 min 30 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsThis episode is all about improving your communication around budgeting! Enjoy! Want to learn how to have the perfect family budget? 💰 Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family✅Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Aug 2019

28 min 52 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts6 Things That Submission is Not[04:15] Submission doesn't mean always agreeing with your husband[06:45] Don't pay the submit date on your wife![7:10] Submission does not mean leaving your brain at the altar.Exodus 4:25 Proverbs 31:16[11:15] Submission does not mean you do not try to influence your husband.[15:15] Submission is not putting the will of the husband before the will of Christ.[18:00] John Crist - Check Your Heart ft. DJ Mykael V, nobigdyl. & 1K Phewhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKfOtip07B4[18:45] Submission does not mean getting all of her spiritual strength through her husband.[20:40] Submission does not mean living or acting in fear.https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/six-things-submission-is-notTake At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family✅ Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.✅ Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.✅ Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Aug 2019

27 min 37 sec

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/postsWant to learn 39 Ways To Use The 5 Love Languages To Tell Your Spouse "I Love You!"?✅ [01:20] 8 Tips For Words of Affirmation ✅ [11:50] A Special Game We Play✅ [13:00] 7 Tips For Quality Time✅ [18:50] 9 Receiving GiftsTake At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family

Jun 2019

51 min 24 sec

This is a valuable conversation about our personal experience with pornography and how God has delivered us from its grasp. This episode is for anyone overcoming this habit or someone who is striving with people overcoming this habit. This is our most powerful and transparent episode to date.[02:00] What was the allure?[05:00] What was the effect of watching Darkflix?[09:45] When did you make that decision to stop?[12:00] How did God save us from Darkflix?[21:00] What if my spouse watches Darkflix?[23:00] How to deal with the shame?[28:00] What would you say to someone trying to be free?Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Jun 2019

38 min 48 sec

We describe 3 core values that saved our marriage from a HEATED argument. You'll want to hear them all and how we applied them! [01:30] Want your question answered? Leave a VM Here: ‪(361) 857-7302‬[02:00] What qualities should I look for in a spouse? From Proverbs 31-Does this person follow through on his word?-Does this person make you stronger?-Is this person hard-working?-Is this person generous and hospitable?-Is this person wise?-Does this person trust Jesus[05:00] What happened?!?![07:30] Core Value: Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.[08:00] Core Value: Truth has a time and a vehicle.[10:00] Core Value: We operate on God’s Time and God’s Dime.[12:30] Mission Statement: Reflect God Reflect Greatness[15:15] Bonus: Blame and Shame in Marriage[17:15] Recap & 3 HW AssignmentsUse this information to start a productive conversation.Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Jun 2019

24 min 58 sec

In this episode, we explore the 5 love languages.[01:30] How to keep your God as your source instead of your spouse?[09:30] Why should we study the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman?There are other booksThe 5 love languages for kids, teenagers, singles & military edition.https://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/[11:15] What are the 5 emotional Love Languages? l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would like. For example, cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention. Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and listening.5. Physical touch-holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.[13:30] Why are they called different “Languages”? If you have to communicate with another person and you don’t speak their language it’s just pointing grunting and broken communication. No matter how hard you try to communicate love in your primary language IF you don’t speak your spouse's language it will not translate into them feeling loved. [14:30] Marriage Confession = We did not speak each other’s language.[20:20] Who cares... Love is love, right? No. Being sincere is not enough. We must be willing to learn our spouse's primary love languages and choose to love them in their language for a long period of time (without conditions). Learn your language to effectively share with your spouse what you want.[21:30]Where can they find the test? Take the Love Languages Quiz. Find out yours and your spouses. Link in description. https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Jun 2019

31 min 23 sec

[02:00] Voicemails from Yall! Want to leave us a voicemail? (361) 857-7302 We may feature you on our next episode![04:00] New Content. What is the honeymoon phase? [08:30] What are 5 tips to survive the Honeymoon Phase? How should we go through the honeymoon phase?1. Be aware of your mental state.2. Surround yourself with Christian fellowship that can hold you accountable.3. Base your boundaries and commitments on God's word. 4. Redefine love to mean sacrifice.5. Constant isn’t common. See constant consistency as concrete and steadfastness. It’s sexy!Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.If you like our podcast you'll love our other exclusive content! To say thank you for supporting the show we want to give you: -Our undying gratitude!-A hug when we meet in person.-Access to our Patron-only forums and community that dives deeper into each episode along with monthly updates, etc! PLUS: -A verbal shoutout in our next episode!-Access to all archived content (Yes, you're binge listening in incomplete without these archived episodes.)-Access to unreleased episodes (Here lies unfinished content that will never be published on our podcast.... Don't worry there are still gems inside.)-Early access to new episodes. Because who likes to wait?PLUS:-A personal phone call from the James Family! -You get to help us pick future topics for the show.-Priority access to secure your questions priority on Q&A's. -Early access to every book, audiobook, training course produced in 2019 and 2020Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

May 2019

31 min 17 sec

This episode is all about securing the bag.A budget doesn't limit your freedom. A budget gives you freedom. It's permission to spend. It allows you to give generously, spend wisely and save for the future I enjoy being on the same page as Lashaude. Being able to agree on goals with him and as a team see our goal accomplished. "Baby Step 1" and the others were fun for me to accomplish. It made me feel like we were a couple moving forward and getting stuff done.-It'll take about 3 months to get the budget consistent. - We were made to be a river, not a reservoir. Blessings were meant to flow through you not just to you. They are from God through you to others.Hurt people hurt people. Blessed people bless people-Stewardship means "We own nothing.“"Every faculty you have, your power of thinking or of moving your limbs from moment to moment, is given you by God. If you devoted every moment of your whole life exclusively to His service, you could not give Him anything that was not in a sense His own already."– C. S. Lewis, Mere ChristianityA budget puts your money on a mission. You can have more fun with a plan than you can without one. If you fail to plan then you plan to fail.Saving $1000 is not for if something happens but WHEN something happens. These are wise healthy habits that inheriting wealth can’t teach you.Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Apr 2019

29 min 4 sec

Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Ask Us Your Marriage Question: https://dominionmathnasium.typeform.com/to/JDvm0GSupport The Podcast That Supports Your Marriage: https://marriage.podia.com/family?coupon=QUESTIONAccess Premium Episodes: https://marriage.podia.com/family/buy******************************

Apr 2019

1 min 53 sec

This episode is all about communication.Follow Felice's Ministry Here: https://thoughtsquestioned.com/Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Mar 2019

47 min 35 sec

This 20-minute podcast episode lays out the James Family mission and vision statements that will empower you to form mission and vision statements for your family! This episode will equip you with the words and verbs needed to structure your family's core values.Download an unreleased episode here: https://marriage.podia.com/visionTake At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Mar 2019

2 min 32 sec

Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Feb 2019

27 min 8 sec

Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.

Jan 2019

2 min 20 sec

Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25) Help us by leaving a review on Itunes ********************************Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.******************************

Jan 2019

2 min 10 sec