Black Millennial Marriage

Mikey and Randie Chapman

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman,

and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast.

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Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Today marks four months since Mikey and Randie lost their son, Noble, and in dedication they wanted to end the season properly.In this episode, Randie and Mikey detail why they're doing this episode, where they've been the past few months, and where they are now. There's also some exciting news for what's in store for BMM in 2022.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about an annoying habit. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA.This season was hard. Nothing went how they hoped and they miss their son terribly. Still, the Chapmans thank you for your support and kindness, and they thank you for tuning in.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Molly Bear: Molly Bear OrganizationRachel's Gift Box: Rachel's Gift BoxWordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Nov 25

45 min

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Randie’s water broke and she’s on bed rest.This new development is a pregnancy plot twist for sure and the Chapmans record in bed to tell you all about it. Together they detail the ER and hospital stay and the plan for the baby and pregnancy. Later, Mikey and Randie detail how they’re doing and what’s helping the Mrs. survive. They conclude the episode with some much needed PDA and even laugh a bit.As always, Randie and Mikey appreciate everyone for their love, encouragement, and support and they thank you for everything.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Randie’s Blog post: It Might Help me to Write.Video: Drew visits the HospitalBook: The Warded Man Coloring Book: Exhale, A Self-Care Coloring BookCashapp Randie and Mikey to donate to Hospital food fund: $RandieChap and $Gr8ness21Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jul 11

36 min 46 sec

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In this episode, the Chapmans wonder if they got married too young.Together Mikey and Randie reveal if they regret their decision and discuss how self-esteem affected their reasons to say, “I Do.”Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight blaming Mikey for failing to read the room. And his response may surprise you. In the end though, it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are inspired to have a good conversation with your person.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Episodes Mentioned:BMM 002: Almost Breaking Up & Non-NegotiablesBMM 130: No One is Coming to Save Us Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 23

36 min 48 sec

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThere comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them.Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast.In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they’ve been playing small, reveal why they’ve been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss how they intend to confront and stop the bullshit. From utilizing their resources, trusting their first thought, and asking for help, Randie and Mikey let listeners in on their process.In conversation with each other, they realize: nothing will move and change unless they do. Thus, the couple is ready to get out of their own way. Finally, Mikey brings a fight or flight and confesses he hasn’t been feeling the love lately, but in the end it’s all giggles when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are also inspired to take back your power.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Episodes Mentioned:BMM 061: Oh, You Watch Porn PornBMM 023: It’s a Hard Knock Life BMM Indie 122: I Quit  Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 3

1 hr 4 min

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie’s back with her first Indie of season 3, and it’s story time! The baby’s all good and all is well, but not without a few lessons. In this episode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details a failed test involving a prenatal appointment from hell. The Mrs. describes the lessons she has learned about her body, boundaries, and baby, and hopes you are inspired to advocate and listen to yourself as well. Later, Randie brings a book recommendation that she can’t stop talking about and really wants you to read.Lastly, she hopes you tune in and that you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMThe Shadowhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shadow_(psychology)Untamed, Glennon Doylehttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52129515-untamedContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 21

27 min 58 sec

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie is pregnant! And the Chapmans want to tell you all about the new baby.In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail why they decided to have another baby, discuss how they found out about the new addition, and reveal what happened when they told family and friends about the pregnancy. Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain why he has to hear something from 100 people before he believes her when she says something. But in the end, it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.There are tears, laughter, and that old thang y’all love about the duo in this episode, and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Buy Better Topics Gamehttps://neon.ly/BMMPodcast Coupon Code: BMM10 Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 3

56 min 22 sec

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the third episode of season 3, Mikey steps out with his first Indie. Mikey shares his inspiration and plan for taking his shit back in the form of a bucket list, gives a little history on the term, and sheds some light on an internal struggle that’s been plaguing him.Later, Mikey gives a shoutout to a person he respects and wraps his episode up with a positive thought he tells himself that he hopes others find value in.Randie and Mikey are thankful for your support, listens, and Youtube subscriptions and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Buy Better Topics Gamehttps://neon.ly/BMMPodcast Coupon Code: BMM10 Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Apr 25

28 min 45 sec

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the second episode of season 3, Mikey and Randie discuss putting Drew back in daycare. Together, the parents detail the pros and cons of having Drew home because of Covid-19, why they decided school was best for her, and how their baby girl’s return to daycare is helping them take their shit back.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about a compliment gone wrong. But, in the end it’s all love when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.Randie and Mikey are thankful for your support, listens, and Youtube subscriptions and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Buy Better Topics Gamehttps://neon.ly/BMMPodcast Coupon Code: BMM10 Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 16

51 min 25 sec

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are back for Season 3, and true to Chapman fashion and BMM tradition, they’re back with a game!Invented by UK couple, Robert and Diana Indries, Better Topics is a game created by couples for couples. You can enjoy this game whether you are married, engaged, dating, in a long-term relationship, or a new couple.Together, Randie and Mikey play the fun game asking each other questions like: When was a moment you were ashamed? When were you last turned off? What are you trying to teach our child this week? And what position would you like me in tonight?If you’ve been missing the deep conversation and belly aching laugh that the Chapmans are known to induce, then you’ll love this episode.Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about a CBD experience. But in the end it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA.The Chapmans are excited to be back, they thank you for your support, and as always they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Buy Better Topics Gamehttps://neon.ly/BMMPodcast Coupon Code: BMM10Better Topics IGhttps://www.instagram.com/bettertopics/ Giveaway RulesWin a deck of the Better Topics Game by following the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast on Instagram and Better Topics on Instagram. Tag a friend on BMM’s page, say that you heard the episode, and be entered in raffle to receive cards. Winners will be announced at the end of the week. Items Mentioned:  Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Apr 5

57 min 56 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsPHEW!! It’s been a wild, wonderous, and unexpected year. When the ball drops on New Year’s Day don’t forget to shout, “Jumanji!” but before that, listen to the Chapman’s last episode of 2020. For this season finale, Mikey and Randie share the episodes that grew them up and surprised them and later they play and read feedback from . . . you. But not so fast, before the episode ends, Randie and Mikey award Patreon superlatives like, “Most likely to own half of West Atlanta” and “Most likely to be the tallest in the room.” Then, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight that almost didn’t make the cut. But in the end it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA.Mikey and Randie thank you a 1,000 times for sticking with and believing in them this year and when it concerns this episode, they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Dec 2020

1 hr 3 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey is back with his final Indie for Season 2! In this episode Mikey discusses the unfair expectations he’s placed on himself in these difficult and stressful times. Mike shares his struggles and successes, details his goals for next year, and leaves the audience with a little something inspirational at the end.After this reflection session the too into superheroes half of BMM hopes this episode inspires listeners to take stock of what they have accomplished this year and take a serious look at their intentions for growth entering the new year.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMFollow us on Social MediaMikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Dec 2020

24 min 46 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans are back to close out season 2 and in this Indie episode, Randie drops a bomb. She quit her day job. In this solo reflection the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details the ins and outs of her transition and shares what she’s doing now. 2020 remains full of surprises, and this is certainly the case for the Mrs. Never did she ever think she’d pull a stunt like this. But this is why we never say never and remain open to anything.Randie hopes you tune in and that you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMRaising Rebelshttps://apple.co/37lAXAcThe Color Gradehttps://apple.co/3lwvbRjContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 2020

29 min 6 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans will be back Wednesday, December 2nd! But before then . . . election day is upon us, and that’s a big deal. However, Mikey and Randie are here if you want to take a load off–cause lord knows they need to. That’s why in this episode, the couple discuss the gains from 2020. They highlight Lovecraft Country, bonding with their family members, and a year–despite 2020’s best efforts–of heightened intimacy and sensuality.Normally, Randie and Mikey would save this kind of thing for the end of the year, but in 2020 anything goes. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight confronting Mikey about irritating Drew. But, as always it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.P.S. If you’re voting today and/or volunteering at the polls–be safe!Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Lovecraft Countryhttps://www.hbo.com/lovecraft-countryRich Dad Poor Dadhttps://amzn.to/35SW3FaPEThttps://amzn.to/3mIP8VSFlawedhttps://amzn.to/327EmRtEloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpowerhttps://amzn.to/385l7eTFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Nov 2020

1 hr 3 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIcky, exhausted, confused, inferior, grateful, and inspired are just a few ways Mikey and Randie feel when they compete–knowingly and unknowingly.Together, the Chapmans detail what it’s like to be copied, unfollowed, and seen out here in these creative streets. Randie and Mikey also discuss what fuels their drive and keeps them focused on what matters most.Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight asking the Mrs. to do more with her glasses. But, it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Oct 2020

56 min 37 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are seeing things in a new light now that their baby girl is growing up and spending time away. After almost 2 years in a haze of parenting and personal neglect the couple are able to speak on their new found perspective. That’s why in this episode, the Chapmans bring back minis–episodes about their home, personal, and sexual healing. Like all parents they really needed a moment to vent with the hopes that it’ll help anyone still stuck in their fog.Many things are hard right now, so the Chapmans hope you chuckle with them and that you enjoy.Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMM BMM 036: Bat Cavehttps://bit.ly/3m46RqGSponsored:This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpGet 20% off of BetterHelp Therapyhttps://www.betterhelp.com/BMMFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Oct 2020

22 min 41 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this solo episode, Randie details how an essay by June Jordan paired with therapy has reminded her that she is alive. Stuck in survival mode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes that surviving ain’t always living and she’s had enough of playing dead and small. After all, life is for the living. Yes? Yes.Randie hopes you tune in and that you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBMM Indie 107: Black Ishttps://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-indie-107-black-isSome of Us Did Not Die, June Jordanhttps://amzn.to/2IGQbqIContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Oct 2020

24 min 18 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts“AHT AHT AHT” That’s what Randie says during this entire episode. Why? Because the Chapmans are discussing what it would be like to have another baby. In this episode the couple give their initial thoughts about having another child (way in the future) and detail what it was like having siblings. Then, Mikey and Randie share pros and cons to adding to their family. The Mr. has feelings he didn’t expect, while the Mrs. may be a little stressed. Later, during the fight or flight, Randie confronts Mikey about his 15-year regression, but it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.If you have multiple kids, only one, or none at all–the Chapmans would love to hear from you. Make it all make sense, y’all! And of course, they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Sponsored:This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpGet 20% off of BetterHelp Therapyhttps://www.betterhelp.com/BMMFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Oct 2020

1 hr 8 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this episode, Mikey and Randie reveal big mistakes they’ve made in their marriage and the lessons they learned from them. From lying about being in the mood for sex to overcompensating and neglecting love languages, the Chapmans share it all. The conversation is insightful and necessary, and they’re pretty sure you’re going to cry laughing–per usual. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions Randie’s ability to look for things, but in the end it’s all love and laughter when the couple show each other some PDA.Mikey and Randie hope this conversation brings you joy, makes you think, and love on yourself and/or your person. They lastly hope that you enjoy.Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Sponsored:This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpGet 20% off of BetterHelp Therapyhttps://www.betterhelp.com/BMMFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Oct 2020

1 hr 2 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with another solo Indie for Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his feelings about the impact and importance of black men and mentorship. Mike shares traits he admired and picked up from some great men, details his process and criteria for finding a mentor, and leaves the audience with a little something special at the end. After this insightful session the masculine half of BMM hopes this episode inspires listeners to seek out guidance, mentorship, or a relationship that aids in their growth. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Oct 2020

26 min 51 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Are you finding it hard to be creative or productive with all that’s been happening this year? Well, Mikey and Randie have and they aren’t too proud to share. In this open and honest episode, the couple detail the pros and cons of being a creator during a pandemic and revolution. For Randie, it’s mentally and emotionally draining in more ways than one and for Mikey, his extroverted side is taking a major hit. Later, for the Mrs.’s fight or flight, Mikey surprises Randie with a heartfelt response she may not have been ready for. Of course, in the end, it’s always love when they show each other some PDA. The Chapmans hope this conversation encourages you to be kinder to yourself in these unprecedented times and know that you are not alone if you are struggling creatively. And as always they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM BMM 073: Relationship Horror Stories Pt. 2 https://bit.ly/2HxaUN5 BMM 096: Marriage Counseling https://bit.ly/3cFsNoq Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

57 min 26 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts This episode is dedicated to Randie’s late grandmother Pat (1949-2012) Dear God, thank you. But also, how much longer? And by the way, please come get your people. These are just a few thoughts that Randie and her guest, Brandi Miller have. In this indie episode, the shorter half of the podcast interviews the host of “Reclaiming My Theology,” a podcast about taking our theology back from systems and ideas that oppress. Together, the two detail what shaped their idea of God. Next, they discuss Christianity and it’s relationship to white supremacy. Finally, they discuss how to love justice, but also how to practice compassion with a refusal to dehumanize. Randie hopes anyone of any faith can take something from this conversation, especially in these trying times. And, as always she hopes you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Brandi Miller https://www.instagram.com/brandinico/ Reclaiming My Theology Podcast https://apple.co/2Fyp13F Reclaiming My Theology Instagram https://www.instagram.com/reclaimingmytheology/ The Shack https://amzn.to/30aTtIS Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

43 min 40 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Did Last week’s positivity throw you off? Well, get ready because Mikey and Randie are trying something new again. In this gratitude filled episode, the couple detail lessons they learned from people they always forget to thank. For Randie, it’s her dad and extended family members and for Mikey, it’s his mom. In this never-before-had conversation, Randie dives into her epiphany about gray areas, while Mikey bigs up his mother and recognizes how his father has contributed to who he is. Later, for the Mr.’s fight or flight, Mikey questions Randie about asking questions she already knows the answers to. However, in the end, it’s always love when they show each other some PDA. The Chapmans hope this conversation encourages you to show gratitude for the lessons that have served you well. And as always they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

1 hr 11 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Last week was intense, right? That’s why Mikey and Randie are lightening it up a bit with some major PDA. In this episode the couple detail what they like about the other and end up surprising one another. From Randie’s rant about Mikey’s butt to Mikey’s love about her bravery, the Chapmans invite you in to listen to a heartwarming and feel good conversation. Later, for her fight or flight, the Mrs. questions Mikey about always using her things. But, in the end, it’s always love when they show each other some PDA. The Chapmans hope this conversation encourages you to dote on your person and yourself. And as always, they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

41 min 15 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back to check in, and on this Indie episode the shorter half of the podcast talks starting therapy again. Later, she tells a funny (maybe) church story and reveals two podcasts she’s loving right now. Randie hopes you enjoy this short and sweet Indie. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Reclaiming My Theology https://apple.co/2Fyp13F A Little Juju Podcast https://apple.co/33jCXqx Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower https://amzn.to/35IiJKb Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

21 min 21 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Have you been having simple conversations with your partner? Where neither one of you are assuming the worst or avoiding conflict? Mikey and Randie haven’t. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss ways they are shrinking themselves and the potential harm they have caused in their relationship. Randie shares her definition of shrinking herself, Mikey expresses similar feelings, and the couple share a transformative moment when they reveal the ways and reasons they shrink who they are. Things get eye-opening, apologetic, and true to Chapman fashion the couple derail the convo and Drew makes a cameo. The result? An hour of your favorite couple shooting the shit. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that he uses to try to leverage sexual favors from the Mrs. But, in the end it’s always love when they show each other some PDA and share a special shout out from a listener to their loved one abroad. This conversation changed Mikey and Randie and maybe it will change you too. Tune in and find out. They hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

1 hr 18 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with another solo Indie for Season 2! This time Mikey discusses health, wellness, and the impact he felt from the death of Chadwick Boseman. Mike shares his train of thought, details his plan of action for avoiding all things cancerous, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. After this venting session the hairy half of BMM hopes this episode inspires listeners to be more intentional about what they allow to affect them and take a serious look at their health while giving more insight into who he is as an individual. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

28 min 14 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts NOTHING is the same, well not really, and that includes Mikey and Randie. That’s why in this episode the couple ask each other rapid fire questions paired with three questions each to reintroduce themselves to the other. Randie wonders why it’s important for Mikey to grow his hair back and if he still has a fear of abandonment, while Mikey wonders what’s Randie’s favorite part of her body and if there’s anything she’s keeping from him. Things get deep, funny, and true to Chapman fashion the couple derail the convo a bit to wonder–what perks would Mikey give in bed for a $15 an hour rate? There’s more, always. Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight that maybe actually turns into a real argument. But, in the end it’s always love when they show each other some PDA. Did you miss your people? They missed you. Mikey and Randie are thankful for the positive feedback from all their recent interviews, and at the same time, they’ve been excited to get back to you as the couple they are, and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sep 2020

1 hr 20 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Black is Glory, Forever, Friendship, King, and a Conversation. And Randie can’t wait for you to hear. In this Indie episode, she chats it up with two of her closest girlfriends from college about Beyoncé’s visual album and re-imagination of the Lion King. To start, the trio reveal a time in their childhoods when they were proud of themselves, and then discuss how the Black is King visual album is helping them make it through these trying times. Later, Carmen, Chantel, and Randie discuss some people’s criticism of the album, and share the lessons they learned from it. Beyoncé is a girl’s girl, and so it only made sense to Randie to chat with some of the women in her life that grew her up and taught her all about sisterhood, and she hopes you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Black Is King https://bit.ly/3b4MVj9 Bursting at the Seams https://amzn.to/3lruPwo Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Aug 2020

1 hr 1 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts **Republished** Mikey and Randie may not have many married mentors, but they certainly have some of the best peer ones. That’s why in this episode the couple chat with their favorite married friends–Jeff and Logan about being brave and what that looks like while in a relationship. To start, the friends discuss a time they were afraid in their childhood. Then, Logan and Jeff tell their love story (spoiler: it’s hilarious). Later, the couples discuss race and power dynamics in their relationships, reveal what they have had to sacrifice to be together, and detail how sexual liberation and self care practices with themselves show up in their marriages. Jeff and Logan bring the kind of depth, humor, and love to this conversation that Mikey and Randie have relied on for years and in their darkest times, and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Aug 2020

1 hr 12 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his first Indie Interview of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses music, family, and fatherhood with his big brother Prince. The two share their thoughts on their upbringing, discuss the struggles and pitfalls associated with being the children of Paul Nurse, Mikey shares thoughts on his favorite southern musician, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. After this therapeutic conversation with his brother the handsome half of BMM shares an interview he’s really proud of, Mikey hopes this episode inspires more dialogue between brothers and gives more insight into who he is as an individual. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Aug 2020

46 min 47 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are losing their F’n minds. Why? Because everybody’s outside while they’re inside watching “Word Party,” it’s bananas and they need to take a load off. That’s why in this episode, the couple bring back minis–episodes about their time as a mom and dad–-and detail what they’re finding difficult and loving about parenting in a pandemic. They laugh more than they expect in this episode, but on a serious note, their hearts are going out to all parents especially those who have to make difficult choices and have children with disabilities. Many things are hard right now, so the Chapmans hope you chuckle with them and that you enjoy. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Aug 2020

25 min 27 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie never thought they’d start a business with the podcast, and yet here they are! It’s a plot twist, alright, and this got them thinking about other couples who are doing big things on the business front as well. Other couples like, Kenya and Alex–co-founders of the queer, black woman-owned Domino Sound network. Along with their team, the duo are making it work and staying together. How Sway? The Chapmans interview them and find out how they met and started the business. Later, they discuss what’s challenging and easy about working together, and you won’t want to miss it. Finally, Randie and Mikey show each other some PDA and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Dominosound.co https://www.dominosound.co/about-us Domino Sound on IG https://www.instagram.com/dominosoundco/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Aug 2020

59 min 3 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie planned to do a relationship check-in with herself, but decided instead to talk about Oluwatoyin Salau (2000-2020). Oluwatoyin, a Nigerian-American activist was killed in June 2020 by a Black man. She died over a month ago, and right before the Chapmans took their break, and yet Randie has been unable to stop thinking about her. So, instead of carrying on as usual, Randie thought it best to finally share her thoughts about the affect Oluwatoyin’s death had on her. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Homoeroticism in the Biblical World: A Historical Perspective https://amzn.to/2Pbp2MQ Sexuality and the Black Church: A Womanist Perspective https://amzn.to/3jW1cTj Related Readings Randie read over break WE ALL FAILED OLUWATOYIN SALAU. ALL OF US. https://wearyourvoicemag.com/we-all-failed-oluwatoyin-salau/ Becoming an Ally and Practicing Allyship https://bit.ly/3jGZpkJ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jul 2020

29 min 14 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts When you really think about it, you’re rich. At least, that’s what Mikey and Randie discovered while on their mid-season pod break. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss six things about their relationship that makes them feel rich and makes them want to show gratitude. From Randie holding herself accountable, to Mikey proving that he’s willing and ready to act in allyship, the couple welcome you to participate in their sap fest. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions how vocal Randie has gotten in the bedroom. It’s always love though, when in the end they show each other some well-deserved PDA. True to Chapman fashion, this episode is equal parts loving and hilarious and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ What is an Ally? https://www.nasco.coop/files/ally_packet.pdf There’s More to Allyship Than Pride and Rainbows https://bit.ly/3jGZpkJ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jul 2020

45 min 56 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his latest Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses a topic dear to him, the protection of black women. He shares his history with guns, discusses why he feels it’s important for black women to be armed and educated about firearms, interviews a special guest, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. After a much needed break the handsome half of BMM shares something he’s really passionate about, Mikey hopes his ramblings in this episode actually get you interested in learning about guns and hitting a range. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM My Sister’s Keeper https://mysisterskeeperdefense.com/ National Black Self Defense Directory https://bit.ly/2WOT9NZ State Gun Permit Fees https://bit.ly/2BvCtUw NAAGA – National African American Gun Association https://naaga.co/ Gun Violence Stats https://bit.ly/2EjGa0J Big Stick Ideology https://bit.ly/2OTv4kQ Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jul 2020

51 min 19 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts If you’ve never listened to an episode or are trying to catch up. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this one! How come? It’s the Black Millennial Marriage podcast’s 100TH EPISODE!! Mikey and Randie did it! They reached a monumental number in their show, and they want to share all the feels with you. That’s why in this episode, the couple play listener voicemails, read listener emails, and play snippets from their personal favorite episodes. Later, they discuss what the podcast has taught them, and then Randie brings a fight or flight–but plot twist! The Chapmans switch places and act like the other as they duel it out. Still, as usual, it’s all love when they show each other some special PDA. Randie and Mikey will be back on July 22nd, but that’s not sad news! While they’re on break, they hope you take some time to catch up and re-listen to your favorite episodes. And if you’re interested in an additional show to check out, NATAL is the one they recommend. This podcast docuseries discusses having a baby while Black and highlights the birthworkers, researchers, policymakers, and activists. It’s a perfect show for the age we’re all in as we reconcile what it is like living while Black in the United States. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ NATAL Podcast Docuseries on IG www.instagram.com/natalstories Listen to NATAL www.natalstories.com/listen Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 2020

1 hr 13 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Racist white people want Black people to go back to Africa, and Black people want to go back to Africa, and Randie weighs in with her thoughts. In this episode she details things that were challenging and great about living in Cape Coast Ghana, when she studied abroad. Later, she shares tips of what to do if you travel to an African country, and finally Randie shares two book recommendations. One book by Janet Mock, in honor of Pride month and the other, if you’re into fairy tales and need to get away from the craziness of the world. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Redefining Realness, Janet Mock https://amzn.to/37n5pta The Fairy Godmother, Mercedes Lackey https://amzn.to/30zAxUX Never Before Podcast, with Janet Mock https://apple.co/30F7MpZ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 2020

28 min 44 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Writer and activist Audre Lorde said it best, caring for oneself is a form of political warfare. That’s why, in this episode Mikey and Randie are taking a break from the heartache and instead reflecting on the joys of Blackness. Why? Because while the revolution is in progress and the pandemic is still real, they needed a reminder that Black people do more than die. Black people are masters of joy and happiness. They are compassionate, strong, and magical, so together the Chapmans reveal their favorite thing about being black and detail their favorite memories as children and adults. From college week in elementary school to attending a Bayard Rustin breakfast, the couple take a trip down memory lane for some much needed smiles. Later, Randie and Mikey discuss a time they had to choose joy and peace over fear of being harmed while Black, and then they talk about what they hope to teach Drew. Before the episode ends, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions his wife’s eye-health, but in the end it’s all love when the Chapmans show each other some PDA. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 2020

55 min 54 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts PWHEW. Talk about a time for tough and revolutionary conversations! They are happening everywhere, including on BMM’s podcast. To begin, in this episode, Randie and Mikey sit down with Andrea and Jason–the couple that brought everyone the Cheat Code podcast and the story of an affair between one woman and one man. Together they all discuss the Chapman’s criticism of their show and reveal their first encounters with infidelity. Later, the four hosts engage in a question and answer segment with each other and the results are as moving as they are hilarious. What started off as fuckery may just end up as reconciliation, and that’s the point right? Finally, Randie and Mikey show each other some PDA and as always, they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Listen to “The Cheat Code” https://bit.ly/THECHEATCODE Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 2020

1 hr 8 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are in therapy . . . together! And in this episode, they discuss their experience with counseling and their latest homework assignment. Randie must consider what a fearless life looks like and show proof that Mikey supports her, and Mikey must reflect on their relationship history and reveal what he finds most valuable. The results are interesting and transformative, and they can’t wait for you to hear all about it. Never did they expect to engage in virtual therapy but it’s working and they want to spread the good word about their experience. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that confronts Mikey about making unnecessary jokes. But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. Now, more than ever, access to quality mental health services is important. That’s why the Chapmans offer you 20% off of your membership with BetterHelp therapy in hopes that you take a chance on individual or couple’s counseling. Mikey and Randie hope you can utilize the resource and that you enjoy this episode. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Sponsored: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Jun 2020

1 hr 8 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Oh the irony! This episode was supposed to be the first one of season 2, but Mikey and Randie changed their plans. Now, the couple share this episode because of another plot twist and a surprise that’s not quite ready yet–but it’s all good. Recorded back in February, when they were on break, Randie and Mikey talk about some of the things they have to radically accept. From the come up not being as linear as they hoped, to understanding that they have to live with their choices and more, the Chapmans get deep, vulnerable, and silly per usual. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that ends up making him look cray cray, but it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA. While this episode is an oldie for them, they hope you find some gems and that you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ What it Really Means to Practice Radical Acceptance https://bit.ly/3d5VFWr Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 2020

49 min 43 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his fourth Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses Fathers Day. He shares gift ideas for any kind of father out there, shouts out a basketball player you might have heard of, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. You may have fallen short with your Fathers Day gifts in the past, but Mikey hopes his ramblings in this episode actually help you to put a smile on someone’s face. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 2020

30 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts After listening to the “Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk for anyone who has ever loved,” TED Talk, Mikey and Randie decide it may be time to start a second marriage. So, in this episode, the couple discuss what a second marriage means to them and why they think they should start anew. Next, they share pros, cons, and fears about starting this new venture, and lastly they share how they plan to manifest a second marriage. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight and confronts Mikey about a promise he broke. But, in the end it’s all love–as always–when they show each other some PDA. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk for anyone who has ever loved https://bit.ly/367tYtG Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 2020

47 min 31 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this rare episode, Randie interviews her mom–Nottra H. (on VIDEO, available on Patreon) and asks her questions she’s always wanted the answers to. Randie digs deep and asks questions like: “Why did you get married,” “Why did you get divorced?” “What was your first connection to God,” and “Would you rather date a Trump supporter or another Sagittarius?” And of course, there’s more. Later, Randie’s mom brings a fight or flight from a time Randie was in college, but in the end, they grace each other with PDA. It’s the pod’s FIRST interview, and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

May 2020

1 hr 17 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his third Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals for taking better care of his health. He shares his challenges, solutions, and plans, shouts out a boxer and rapper you might know, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. It took a little liquid courage for him to share details of his body-image issues, but Mikey hopes you can take a load off and enjoy his ramblings this episode. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 2020

28 min 46 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey and Randie review the first five episodes of, “The Cheat Code,” a podcast about an affair told over ten episodes. Together, the Chapmans detail their initial reactions that ranged from–“Wtf?” to “Huh?”. Next, the couple discuss what had them in their feelings. Randie reveals the show triggered the kid in her and that she was surprised to hear cheaters cry about getting cheated on. Mikey, on the other hand was most surprised by how nonchalant and narcissistic the duo was during the time frame of the affair. There’s more. Lots more. Later, the Chapmans share lessons the show has taught them so far and detail who they think should listen. Spoiler alert– it’s everyone. Absolutely everyone should listen to “The Cheat Code”. Finally, to end the episode Mikey brings a fight or flight that questions Randie’s marital support. But, in the end the PDA saves the day. The Chapmans were instructed to give their realest reactions, and they did–making this their most opinionated episode to date. But as Beyonce says, “God is God, and I am Not.” In all, it’s truly WILD out here. Tune in and then go listen to, “The Cheat Code”. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Listen to “The Cheat Code” https://bit.ly/THECHEATCODE Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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May 2020

1 hr 10 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Come! Take a load off with Randie. In this Indie episode, featuring just herself, the more hydrated half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes she does not have the mental and emotional bandwidth to go as deep as she usually does. Quarantine be like that sometimes! Instead, Randie reflects on the little graces she’s discovered, utilized, and turned to as a source of comfort in these trying times. From binging her favorite horror podcast–Scream Queen–, to yoga, yogi tea, a podcast about murder, and the blessings that are chill Youtubers, Randie shares info that she hopes you find valuable. Later, she reads a poem she wrote years ago that feels especially relevant and necessary now. And as always, she hopes you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Library Thing https://bit.ly/2Snb7oQ Evelyn from the Internets https://bit.ly/35ia2E0 Scream Queen Podcast https://apple.co/3bTuZHS My Favorite Murder https://apple.co/3d1X7bL SarahBethYoga https://bit.ly/2VT2vILL Words with Randie: Yoga, Body, and Other Musings https://bit.ly/2KPveba Follow us on Social Media Randie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/randiiiieee/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 2020

29 min 29 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two fights. The first is about Randie’s “man-hating bag,” and the other about Mikey’s inability to realize who he has married. But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. It hasn’t been the average four years, so tune in and hear all about it. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Do you want them to continue to stay together forever ever? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Apr 2020

1 hr 9 min

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his second Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals and plans for after this quarantine ends. He shares his plans as a husband, as a father, and an individual, shouts out his all-time favorite basketball player, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. Recorded in the late weeks of when the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks, Mikey hopes you can take a load off and enjoy his ramblings this episode. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Apr 2020

24 min 17 sec

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts **RE-UPLOADED** In this episode the Chapmans share how the season 2 launch of the podcast triggered bigger concerns. Together Mikey and Randie discuss how not seeing one another on the social media feed gave truth to a bigger problem. That problem? They have not prioritized, invested time, or attempted to memorialize their relationship, on or offline, in a while. In the past year, they only wanted to survive, and the two discuss how that mentality impacted the small things that have snowballed into big things. Now, they seek to adjust, recover, and repair. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that questions how Randie parents, but in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. P.S. Is that a jingle you hear? Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress: Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Apr 2020

56 min 10 sec