Erotic Awakening Podcast

Dan & dawn

bdsm and non standard relationships power exchange and polyamory sacred sexuality and fetishes and well as simply fun kink

All Episodes

Today on Erotic Awakening, your hosts Dan and dawn share what they learned in sex ed as well as discuss things they didn’t learn and feel they should have. They are joined by Bex - presenter, sex educator and friend of the show - from Sex with Bex. Bex shares some valuable tools to help you create an enjoyable sex life and they share some of the questions they’ve been asked during their time in sex toy retail.

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Nov 28

39 min 58 sec

In today’s episode, we are joined by Myrina & Tristan from Accidental Swingers. The two are a happily married couple who have been together for 28 years; 25 of those were monogamously married. And they teach Dan & dawn how to be swingers!  Plus fetishes like high heals and things that should not be put in your butt!    Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe #swinging #swinglifestyle #accidentalswingers #polyamory #bdsm #fetish #kink #eroticawakening #eroticawakeningpodcast #podcast #relationshipadvice #dananddawn #powerexchange #domsub #rvlifesytle #rvliving #sexuality #bdsmcommunity

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Nov 18

43 min 23 sec

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Nov 12

27 min 16 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about what they, as over 50 years old people, bring to the table when it comes to bdsm and power exchange.  Plus they talk about red flags and green flags...or at least try to.  PLUS rules in polyamory. Always bad? Or is that a myth?  Become a Patron! Thanks to our new sponsor, TheCage.co! Get two weeks premium access; register your account and use the code Erotic21 "Your Kind Of Fun"  

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Nov 4

30 min 59 sec

Aftercare refers to a way of showing kindness and care for a person who has just come out of a situation. Though sometimes applied in sexual intimacy, as the time and attention given to partners after an intense BDSM or sexual experience, aftercare is one way of showing how someone is exceptional and of great value. Aftercare helps create a feeling of togetherness, security and safety. Join Dan & dawn as they discuss how to develop, embrace and maintain aftercare Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about; [00:37] Introduction to the show [01:58] What is aftercare? [04:14] Why aftercare is important [05:53] What you require for aftercare [07:38] People have differences in what they need for aftercare [11:23] What is an aftercare bag? [12:28] Polyamory aftercare [16:21] What Dawn prefers for an aftercare [18:06] Coming up soon! Notable quotes ● People don’t remember you by what occurred, but how you came out. ● Desire without action is a daydream. ● Everyone is unique in their way. Never compare yourself with others. Connect with us today! Website: https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/dananddawn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eroticawakening/ Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/eroticawakeningpodcast Email Dan and Dawn: dananddawn@eroticawakening.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpaKOp6XTQ5j3sNRP6q14sw  

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Oct 28

34 min 11 sec

You’ve taken the big step and became part of the polyamory, kink, alt, swinging, or power exchange community. Now, people are falling all over themselves to fulfil your desires and help you find your authentic self…right? Join Dan & dawn as they discuss how to develop and maintain appropriate confidence. Appropriate Confidence is the self assurance that isn’t hinged on one specific instance of success (or crushed because of one instance that things go bad). It is an internal knowing that you are in the right place, you are enough, you belong,  and that you won’t be swayed by others views of you…at least, not for long. 

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Oct 22

36 min 59 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about soft limits, hard limits, and how they change (and if they should).  Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Oct 14

33 min 6 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn are joined by the Spankos Podcast, bringing you not one show but two! We talk about...spanking!  Find the Spankos at https://www.spankopodcast.com/ Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Sep 30

1 hr 3 min

Dan and Dawn welcome Dara and Rara from the Pink Kink podcast to discuss the many peculiarities of the dom and sub roles, their experience with each and how easy it is for them to switch between them. Dara and Rara tell the tale of how they met over Harry Potter and tiaras, and discuss how male dominants don't have to prove themselves like female dominants do. Rara shares the story about how someone she was topping came to regret not taking her seriously as a dom and by the time the scene was over she gave him his very first impact bruises. He now takes female dominants a little more seriously now. Plus, Dan and Dawn talk about eating cheese from the milk of a… Chihuahua?   Visit the Pink Kink website: www.pinkkinkpodcast.com Pink Kink on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pinkkinkpodcast/ Pink Kink on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/6478325?sp=1 Pink Kink on Twitter: https://twitter.com/PinkKinkPodcast Pink Kink on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/913559862721202/about Rara’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theprincessrara/ Rara’s FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/3168132?sp=1 Rara’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/ThePrincessRara/status/1368608587048751106 Dara’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/electro_kahleesi/ Dara’s FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/5625812?sp=1

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Sep 23

31 min 24 sec

This week Kevin and Katie take over as hosts of the podcast as a reward for being the 100th Patron. They explain the dynamic of their relationship and reveal that they call it “Authority Transfer” and use the roles leader/follower rather than Master/slave and other similar terms. They go further on to highlight they diligently pursue and attend to health and wellness as part of their responsibility to each other as well as to maintain longevity to be together for longer. Plus we learn a little more about Kevin such as his preferences of getting blown in ladders and under the desk, and how sometimes that might lead to disastrous situations as well as that his laugh sounds just like Santa Clause when he is aroused. Listen to this episode where Dan and Dawn “Transfer Authority” over to Kevin and Katie.    

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Sep 17

34 min 1 sec

This week, we share about restraint without rope with Ayzad and we also talk about if it is ever ok to cheat on a spouse. 

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Sep 9

32 min 46 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Venus Cockoldress (@cuckoldressv) on cuckolding! Plus they do a live demo on heating gel! Become a Patron!

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Sep 3

31 min 2 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan talks to Jeff, CEO of a sexual wellness company, about sexual anxiety, and what to do about it. Plus what does dawn think about before having sex with someone for the first time? Does Dan think at all? PLUS chocolate goes all the right places and a GPS tracker for followers. And dogs.   Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Aug 26

41 min 39 sec

This week on a live recording of the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about mixing BDSM and Sex! Should you, could you, how and why?  Plus they talk about how to manage it when you want power exchange, but your partner doesn't.  PLUS books for the new Domme?    Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Aug 17

46 min 53 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about orgasm control! Both for tops and bottoms and just general people!  Plus they talk about what they miss about real time events...and if they are ready to go back.  PLUS someone makes Dan question if he still wants to eat burgers... Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Aug 10

35 min 24 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about the different labels we give ourselves in the kink and power exchange lifestyle.  Plus, show format changes, what we want to see at a spanking party, and power exchange commonalities. 0 Plus a missing arm is a bonus for dawn!  Become a Patron!

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Aug 5

28 min 48 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about Nipple Play! Plus, a tentacle cup and a tiny home update! And is Peachy awesome?  Become a Patron!  

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Jul 22

28 min 6 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk discuss a number of topics, like relaxing into submission, jealousy, triggering scenes, more fetishes, and lots more! As noted in the podcast, if you'd like to support Jerith and there family, here is the link - https://gofund.me/b6d0d930 Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Jul 6

38 min 41 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk how to do power exchange regardless of different circumstances, including in a tiny house on wheels!  Become a Patron!   Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Google Podcasts Listen on Stitcher Listen on Amazon Music RSS Feed

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Jun 24

34 min 45 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Madam Posh about the experience of being a person of color in the kink community, as well as and opportunities for the community.  Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify

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Jun 19

34 min 53 sec

This week it is a special edition of the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk live for an hour on polyamory tools!  Become a Patron!   Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Google Podcasts Listen on Stitcher Listen on Amazon Music RSS Feed

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Jun 9

58 min 2 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn share about a variety of topics such as... Is BDSM/Kink all about sex? What are some good tools for handling conflict in your power exchange? What chapter do you get the most comments about? What do you consider ‘active dominance’? Where do y’all see the future of kink and bdsm and leather going? Common missteps and also the ways the community lifts each other up. PLUS when ED drugs go bad!  Become a Patron! Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Google Podcasts Listen on Stitcher Listen on Amazon Music RSS Feed

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May 26

35 min 59 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about how talking naughty!  Plus scenes we haven't done yet but want to.  PLUS things we are scared of! Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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May 20

47 min 39 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk continue to wipe out some topics from the backlog list! Such as... advice for title contest how old is too old for poly? can you submit if you have PTSD? what is sub shaming? Am I being submissive enough?   Click here to become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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May 11

22 min 18 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk catch up on some listener questions!  Such as... Why is there such stigma around women who choose to move on the right side of the slash to be power houses? Someone wants us to talk more about non-sexual poly After care services for people on the left side of the slash stigma around being seen as submissive came up dipping toes back into the dating app world. How soon do you tell someone you are poly?  How to do you keep from inflicting heartache in poly?  How often does consent need to be renewed in your dynamic? Every task? Every punishment? Every scene? Every day? Week? Month? Once it was given it remains in tact? Adding a non-sexual house slave How to approach initial expectation setting/relationship bootstrapping to get “average poly date” to the level of authenticity necessary for these kinds of conversations. I’m curious about your approach to opening up to this level of radical candor. Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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May 4

40 min 47 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Toni Solenne about Women in Leather!   Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Apr 14

38 min 43 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn have a great conversation with Zach about Filter Off, a new video speed dating app! Could an EA Speed Dating event be coming?  PLUS they try out some male delay spray!  And they go off on all kinds of random trails! As usual!      sadistic! Plus they share some ideas of where you can find different events - it ain't just #fetlife! PLUS sex tips that are...kind of lame. Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Apr 6

30 min 46 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn have a great conversation Daddy Daun and slave girl J on having a power exchange dynamic without a punishment dynamic (and power exchange on the road!). Plus they talk about the difference between a BJ and a full on Face F*ck! Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe

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Mar 31

37 min 10 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn are live and talk about the spectrum of submission - is the goal of all followers to become Power Subs? Is it ok to be, well, meek and submissive?  Become a Patron!

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Mar 23

1 hr 1 min

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with the wonderful Kitty Chambliss about jealousy - and how to do something about it!  Plus advice for keeping the sexy at home (and quiet). PLUS Dan goes camping and doesn't get eaten by a bear! Leather Bear or otherwise!  Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe RSS Feed @ https://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/rss

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Mar 16

43 min 21 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about with Lee Anne from the Polyphilia blog  about how to host (and experiences at) sex parties! Fun conversation!  Plus a chose your own erotic adventure book! Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe RSS Feed @ https://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/rss

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Mar 9

44 min 5 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about with Dr. Bob and the Goddess Indigo about communication! We talk about how to talk, how to listen, there new book (In One Ear and Out the Other), and more!  Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe RSS Feed @ https://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/rss

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Mar 2

29 min 2 sec

This week on a live Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about the Dominant flex - or how to avoid being an ass.  Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe Apple      Google   Spotify RSS Feed @ https://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/rss

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Feb 23

42 min 33 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about what it is like to be a submissive or slave with 20 years (real) experience. Are things just easy now? Is it even interesting anymore?  Plus they talk with Robert Rubel and The Goddess Indigo on their new fantastic book Safe, Sexy & Consensual: Creating Magic in the Dungeon Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe Apple     Google      Spotify RSS Feed @ https://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/rss  

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Feb 16

49 min 54 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about how to get passed collar guilt.  Plus they have a great conversation with Devyn Stone on Pragmatically Kinking and the Thrive event!  PLUS why dawn is stalking the postman!  Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe RSS Feed @ https://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/rss

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Feb 9

28 min 24 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn explore if there is a difference between Edge Play and Hard Scenes.  Plus they talk with @JaneEBoon about her new book, Edge Play!  PLUS Dan rebuilds the website...for no clear reason... Become a Patron! Listen, download, subscribe Apple      Google     Spotify

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Feb 2

39 min 43 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Stella Harris about threesomes!  Plus they blow up on YouTube PLUS Dan isn't much for flogging?  Become a Patron!    

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Jan 26

36 min 10 sec

This‌ ‌week‌ ‌on‌ ‌ the‌ ‌Erotic‌ ‌Awakening‌ ‌Podcast‌ ‌Dan‌ ‌and‌ ‌dawn‌ ‌are live as they talk ‌about‌ ‌heavy scenes! 

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Jan 20

40 min 29 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Nookie about pegging! Plus the list of events are just too long! PLUS sex tips that are...kind of lame. Become a Patron!    

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Jan 13

44 min 9 sec

This week, Dan and dawn are live and talking about...well, a lot of everything! 

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Dec 2020

51 min 9 sec

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Dec 2020

19 min 33 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Manny and Wyo from Kink Buffet on negotiations for all kinds of relationships.  Plus kinky xmas gift ideas! PLUS zapping intimate jewelry Become a Patron! Don't miss an episode! Click below to Listen Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Dec 2020

38 min 2 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with TopToes and Ennie on Foot Fetishes! Plus casual Saturday and failing to take it easy.  Become a Patron! Don't miss an episode! Click below to Listen Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Nov 2020

39 min 34 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about dawn's project Eros Gathering and the need for appropriate sacred sexuality.  Plus hard core quarantine time and more kink starter cards.  PLUS this episode was live - you can watch it on our YouTube channel!  Support the Podcast! Become a Patron! Don't miss an episode! Click below to Listen Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Nov 2020

36 min 17 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with The Balloon guy on Balloon Fetishes!  Plus being like a mentor and ranking very well in Myanmar Don't miss an episode! Click below to Listen Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Nov 2020

26 min 11 sec

Not long ago we announced the Columbus Space was closing down...tune in for this special announcement about the future of the Columbus Space! 

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Nov 2020

13 min 17 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with HiThereCatSuit from the What Women* (and other wonderful humans) Want podcast about the right way and the wrong way to approach people when meeting them. From not sending Dick pics to those "hey" messages, we discover what it is that women have to deal with all the time. Plus a broken sex toy and BDSM jokes.    Don't miss an episode! Click below to Listen Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Nov 2020

38 min 34 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about what they look for in a sexual partner! Plus they do the show live!   Don't miss an episode! Click below to Listen Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Oct 2020

23 min 51 sec

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about moving your fantasy of being a sub or a dom to real life!  Watch featured episodes on YouTube! Support for other podcast apps!

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Oct 2020

27 min 14 sec