Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts — PBSE

By Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman

Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class mental health professionals who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction—we get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'l help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addict—we KNOW what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage. We'll help you understand the world of your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. We've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together! This is the PBSE podcast.

  1. 1.
    Is it "OK" to "Offend" Your Partner?
    31:07
  2. 2.
    Great! He’s in Recovery . . . but What is He Thinking?
    32:30
  3. 3.
    Why Would the Man Who Loves Me, "Gaslight" Me?!
    32:21
  4. 4.
    What Does it Take to Get "SERIOUS" about Real Change?
    31:07
  5. 5.
    The Addict's Journey from Escape & Avoidance to Authenticity & Transparency
    31:28
  6. 6.
    How to Navigate Mental Illness AND Addiction/Betrayal Trauma
    32:32
  7. 7.
    Should We Hide Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma From Our Kids?
    36:34
  8. 8.
    How to be Emotionally Healthy as an Individual and Couple in 2021
    37:37
  1. 9.
    Ditch the “New Year’s Resolution" BS—it doesn’t work!
    38:32
  2. 10.
    Learning from Mark & Steve's "Recovery Ghosts of Christmas Past"
    37:18
  3. 11.
    Recovery, Healing & the Holidays—Part Three: Finding Serenity in the Midst of Family "Stuff"
    34:52
  4. 12.
    Recovery, Healing & the Holidays—Par Two: "Self Care? Forget that! It's the Holidays, Bro!"
    28:38
  5. 13.
    Recovery, Healing & the Holidays—Part One: Preparing for and Managing Triggers
    29:37
  6. 14.
    Where Relationship Expectations Collide with Individual Boundaries
    30:17
  7. 15.
    The "Unholy Triad" that can Decimate Your Marriage!
    24:17
  8. 16.
    What Does it Really Mean to "Man-Up"?
    27:50
  9. 17.
    How We Get Stuck in our Pain . . . and How to Heal and Move Forward
    35:14
  10. 18.
    Is there a Place for "Sexual Entitlement" in a Healthy Marriage Relationship?
    30:59
  11. 19.
    If You Don't Have Honesty—You Don't Have Much
    34:55
  12. 20.
    Are YOU Choosing Your Life . . . OR . . . is "IT" Choosing You?
    35:54
  13. 21.
    In Recovery & Healing—Is God Your Problem or Your Solution?
    35:51
  14. 22.
    Hey, we're doing well, so we can let up on our Boundaries—Right?
    31:55
  15. 23.
    I'm Not Sexually Attracted to My Partner—Are We Done?
    43:20
  16. 24.
    How to Have DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS that bring TRUE CONNECTION!
    35:20
  17. 25.
    How Do We Become Trapped in a "Marriage Crisis" and Can We Ever Come Back Together?
    37:38
  18. 26.
    How "Pain Avoidance" feeds Addiction & Betrayal Trauma!
    34:49
  19. 27.
    Separating "Attraction" from the "Addiction"—Where are the Boundaries?
    39:23
  20. 28.
    Porn Addiction Relapse—the Fallout and Breaking the Addiction Cycle
    41:29
  21. 29.
    Refuse to Be a "Victim"—"Let Go" and Allow Her to Heal from Betrayal Trauma!
    31:30
  22. 30.
    Breaking Free from the "Victim Trap" of His Porn Addiction
    25:59
  23. 31.
    How Do I Regain Her Trust and How Do I Trust Her?
    39:59
  24. 32.
    How Do I Ever TRUST my Porn/Sex Addicted Spouse Again?
    44:26
  25. 33.
    "Boundaried" Relationships Last—Even in the Midst of Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma!
    45:19
  26. 34.
    Todd Tells His Sex Addiction Recovery Story—Part Two
    31:31
  27. 35.
    Let Go of the "Sexual Beast' and Embrace REAL Intimacy in your Marriage!
    49:36
  28. 36.
    Todd Tells His Sex Addiction Recovery Story—Part One
    40:37
  29. 37.
    Healthy Sex vs. Toxic Sex in Marriage
    43:09
  30. 38.
    How do you keep going in Recovery and Healing when you're Burned Out and just plain "Done"!
    47:12
  31. 39.
    Is it OK to Occasionally "Lie" if its in the Best Interest of Your Recovery or Healing?
    40:06
  32. 40.
    Those Darn Thinking Errors!—"Emotional Reasoning" and the "Unreal Ideal"
    36:21
  33. 41.
    Pulling Out a Chair for God at Your Marriage Table
    41:14
  34. 42.
    For the Spouse of an Addict—How to "Let Go and Let God."
    46:37
  35. 43.
    The "Addict" vs. "God"
    33:35
  36. 44.
    We Made All the Marriage Mistakes so YOU Don't Have To!—Part TWO
    42:05
  37. 45.
    We Made All the Marriage Mistakes so YOU Don't Have To!—Part One
    35:56
  38. 46.
    Two Former Porn Addicts—"If I Could Go Back in Time, WHAT Would I DO different?"
    42:03
  39. 47.
    Here's EXACTLY HOW to Use the "Surrender Tool" as an Addict, Spouse and Citizen
    32:06
  40. 48.
    How to Practice the Essential "Art of Surrender" in a Scary World!
    45:56
  41. 49.
    How to Get Out of Your "Coronavirus Brain" and TAKE CHARGE!
    47:22
  42. 50.
    Managing Your Emotions & Triggers in These Trying Times!
    45:55

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