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Love and Abuse

By Paul Colaianni

Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation and other forms of bad behavior in all of your relationships. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life and marriage. Empower yourself by learning to pinpoint the specific behaviors of toxic people before you become victim to their game and come out a shell of your former self.

  1. 1.
    If you've tried everything to stop the hurtful behavior, what's next?11/21/2020
    51:11
  2. 2.
    Sometimes things need to be perfectly lined up to make the big decisions about the relationship11/04/2020
    51:37
  3. 3.
    Understanding the addict in the manipulative relationship10/19/2020
    34:31
  4. 4.
    Should you try harder to please the emotionally abusive person?09/30/2020
    26:00
  5. 5.
    How the emotional abuser takes your empowerment tools away from you09/10/2020
    16:25
  6. 6.
    Glossing over the first detail in an argument will make it fall apart fast09/04/2020
    47:40
  7. 7.
    You deserve to be treated with nothing less than respect and kindness08/28/2020
    24:55
  8. 8.
    Should you share content that talks about emotional abuse with emotionally abusive people?08/16/2020
    28:52
  1. 9.
    What do you do when they're gaslighting you?08/06/2020
    1:07:49
  2. 10.
    How incompatibility can lead to hurtful and emotionally abusive behavior07/18/2020
    30:32
  3. 11.
    Breaking the patterns of bad behavior that diminish your worth and well-being07/01/2020
    28:42
  4. 12.
    Not everyone is going to agree with the decisions you make for yourself06/25/2020
    42:35
  5. 13.
    Toxic relationships can disintegrate your strength and confidence, but you can get it back06/16/2020
    24:31
  6. 14.
    I want you to change: The toxic elements of the difficult relationship06/04/2020
    39:17
  7. 15.
    Emotional abuse drains you and makes you believe terrible things about yourself05/22/2020
    31:17
  8. 16.
    You don't have to forgive the person that hurt you05/07/2020
    22:09
  9. 17.
    Both sides of emotional abuse: The offensive abuser and the defensive abuser04/15/2020
    44:28
  10. 18.
    When boundaries don't work and how to pick the right therapist04/03/2020
    54:48
  11. 19.
    Connecting all the dots of emotionally abusive and manipulative behavior03/24/2020
    53:43
  12. 20.
    The Turn-Around game: How emotionally abusive people keep you busy explaining and defending yourself02/29/2020
    42:30
  13. 21.
    When the emotional abuse stops, can the relationship continue?02/12/2020
    34:55
  14. 22.
    When you are triggered by your Facebook friends: Staying out of abusive interactions on social media02/06/2020
    18:50
  15. 23.
    Yes, the emotional abuser can change, but...01/30/2020
    25:56
  16. 24.
    Understanding the thought process behind manipulative behavior01/14/2020
    23:11
  17. 25.
    Dealing with adversity and toxic behavior in all your relationships12/31/2019
    39:19
  18. 26.
    Emotionally abusive behavior breaks apart what could be a good relationship12/12/2019
    55:23
  19. 27.
    You will never, ever be good enough for a manipulative and controlling person11/27/2019
    36:50
  20. 28.
    Kind words carefully crafted to plant the seed of guilt and shame11/21/2019
    31:38
  21. 29.
    Why you get conned into the psychologically abusive relationship11/16/2019
    27:12
  22. 30.
    How to stop being hurtful and controlling with the people you love11/05/2019
    38:35
  23. 31.
    An analysis of emotional abuse: Breaking down the bad behavior10/25/2019
    40:54
  24. 32.
    Is your response to their bad behavior emotional abuse?10/15/2019
    27:45
  25. 33.
    When someone tarnishes your good name and reputation - The Smear Campaign10/09/2019
    45:45
  26. 34.
    If you leave me, I'll kill myself - The ultimate abuse of your empathy and compassion09/25/2019
    37:32
  27. 35.
    Being Loved Shouldn't Hurt - Coach and survivor Stephanie McPhail tells you how to take care of yourself in and out of the abusive relationship09/17/2019
    1:01:07
  28. 36.
    When you love the emotional abuser so much you won't leave09/04/2019
    35:27
  29. 37.
    Don't show them how crazy you feel and sharing custody with the emotional abuser08/07/2019
    51:58
  30. 38.
    Emotional Abuse explained for your friends, family, attorney, therapist or anyone else that may need to know what you're experiencing08/04/2019
    31:37
  31. 39.
    The toxic relationship alters your view of reality making you think your future is dark07/16/2019
    18:54
  32. 40.
    You can't fix emotional abuse, you can only heal yourself and hope they do the same07/10/2019
    27:59
  33. 41.
    How judgment in relationships destroys love and connection06/17/2019
    36:46
  34. 42.
    Identifying the signs of toxic or manipulative behavior while dating05/29/2019
    16:35
  35. 43.
    Have they really changed or are they faking it? Learning to differentiate between true change and acting.05/27/2019
    19:13
  36. 44.
    It takes two to build and one to destroy: The cheating partner works alone05/24/2019
    13:50
  37. 45.
    Are they for real: Is it all lies and deception or are you just going nuts?05/17/2019
    33:41
  38. 46.
    How isolation ensures you lose your friends, family and support system05/06/2019
    20:29
  39. 47.
    In love with someone that wants it both ways: Healing from the obsession over the unhealthy relationship04/23/2019
    1:14:15
  40. 48.
    Stopping the downward spiral of unhealthy communication patterns with self-reflection04/22/2019
    15:39
  41. 49.
    There is nothing you could have done differently, emotional abuse would have happened anyway04/10/2019
    30:42
  42. 50.
    How you enable manipulative and controlling behavior by being your wonderful self03/27/2019
    15:22
  43. 51.
    Yes, there are people that know how to control you and steal your power03/23/2019
    23:35
  44. 52.
    The narcissist under the hood - The difficulty of explaining emotional abuse to friends and family03/15/2019
    31:40
  45. 53.
    Are you with a manipulative person?03/13/2019
    29:08
  46. 54.
    The texts after the breakup: When breadcrumbing keeps you from reaching closure03/12/2019
    14:35
  47. 55.
    When manipulative people change your reality: Crazymaking and Gaslighting03/11/2019
    12:17
  48. 56.
    Confusing you into submission: A common manipulation you may fall for again and again03/06/2019
    15:06
  49. 57.
    Remembering only the good times can sometimes perpetuate the bad times03/03/2019
    16:20
  50. 58.
    Selfish people just don't really care about you02/28/2019
    14:31
  51. 59.
    Recognizing you are being emotionally abused when you don't see the signs02/27/2019
    16:40
  52. 60.
    When you're constantly defending yourself02/19/2019
    18:58
  53. 61.
    Are you the manipulative one?02/18/2019
    15:12
  54. 62.
    Watching out for emotional predators. Are you being brainwashed into becoming a manipulation or emotional abuse victim?02/15/2019
    27:41
  55. 63.
    The "You're too sensitive" game02/14/2019
    17:15
  56. 64.
    Don't dismiss the red flags of manipulation and deception02/14/2019
    15:00
  57. 65.
    Introduction: The show about unhealthy communication, emotional abuse and manipulation02/14/2019
    7:22

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