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By the Bi

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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

  1. 1.
    #161 - Listener Questions06/12/2019
    1:02:01
  2. 2.
    #160 - Pendulum X 06/04/2019
    1:04:56
  3. 3.
    #159 - The Great Gangbang05/28/2019
    1:11:06
  4. 4.
    #158 - Sex Positive Parenting05/22/2019
    1:13:26
  5. 5.
    #157 - Reproductive Justice05/15/2019
    1:09:22
  6. 6.
    #156 Angela Returns to the Sauna05/07/2019
    57:49
  7. 7.
    #155 Returning to Play & April Wrap Up04/30/2019
    56:42
  8. 8.
    #154 The Economics of Swinging... Part 204/23/2019
    1:02:42
  1. 9.
    #153 - Angela's First Sauna!04/16/2019
    58:37
  2. 10.
    #152 - Sexiness on the Road04/03/2019
    48:50
  3. 11.
    #151 - The Economics of Swinging03/26/2019
    1:05:51
  4. 12.
    #150 - Neon Wand ... Rainbow or Rambo?03/20/2019
    57:23
  5. 13.
    #149 - Sexcapades VI03/12/2019
    57:21
  6. 14.
    #148 - Mardis Gras Madness03/05/2019
    1:05:01
  7. 15.
    #147 - Replay: The 7 Types of Love02/26/2019
    1:15:14
  8. 16.
    #146 - Sexual Fantasies with Actual Statistical Values02/19/2019
    1:03:22
  9. 17.
    #145 - Gender Discussions & Club V02/13/2019
    56:28
  10. 18.
    #144 - Safer Sex with Cooper S Beckett02/05/2019
    55:57
  11. 19.
    #143 - STI Redux01/29/2019
    1:03:02
  12. 20.
    #142 - 50 Shades of Crap01/22/2019
    1:10:26
  13. 21.
    #141 - Orgylicious01/15/2019
    1:13:51
  14. 22.
    #140 - Live from Desire Riviera Maya!01/08/2019
    1:14:48
  15. 23.
    #139 - Welcome to 20BiTeen!!!01/01/2019
    1:05:47
  16. 24.
    #138 - The Swingers of Christmas Past, Present, and Future12/25/2018
    1:08:05
  17. 25.
    #137 - Desire Resort Full Recap (Part 2)12/18/2018
    1:23:32
  18. 26.
    #136 - Desire Resort Full Recap (Part 1)12/11/2018
    1:16:06
  19. 27.
    #135 - Passion, Pendulum, and Parties12/05/2018
    1:04:04
  20. 28.
    #134 Desire Resort Comparison11/27/2018
    28:11
  21. 29.
    #133 Consent, Compersion, and Climaxes a special crossover with The Bed Hoppers11/25/2018
    59:08
  22. 30.
    #132 Bad Flirts & Bad Dates (Recorded at PiP)11/20/2018
    1:04:20
  23. 31.
    #131 - Swingcations (Planning & Pitfalls)11/13/2018
    1:10:29
  24. 32.
    #130 Return of the Bisexual Last Crusade11/06/2018
    52:23
  25. 33.
    #129 TaBOO Fetishes A - Z10/30/2018
    1:29:26
  26. 34.
    #128 Pet Play10/23/2018
    1:00:35
  27. 35.
    #127 Pre-Vacation or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Swingcations10/16/2018
    1:00:11
  28. 36.
    #126 Another Deep Dive into Bisexuality10/09/2018
    1:00:36
  29. 37.
    #125 Hey Yeah Yeah Yeah, What's Going on?10/02/2018
    57:27
  30. 38.
    #124 A Deep Dive into Bisexuality09/25/2018
    54:24
  31. 39.
    #123 Chats with Madeline and a Cranky Bear09/18/2018
    1:14:19
  32. 40.
    #122 Into the Malebag 409/11/2018
    59:31
  33. 41.
    #121 Another Sexy Product Review09/04/2018
    1:08:20
  34. 42.
    #120 Pendulum VII08/28/2018
    1:13:04
  35. 43.
    #119 Sexpo, Switch, and VR Porn08/21/2018
    1:11:57
  36. 44.
    #118 Sexcapades V08/14/2018
    1:03:30
  37. 45.
    #117 Roller Coaster Ride08/07/2018
    57:21
  38. 46.
    #116 Chats with Cooper07/31/2018
    1:00:51
  39. 47.
    #115 Club Euphoria07/24/2018
    55:08
  40. 48.
    #114 The Gentleman Makes Waffles07/18/2018
    1:10:44
  41. 49.
    #113 Podcast Pen Pals07/10/2018
    1:15:50
  42. 50.
    #112 Conversations with The Lady07/03/2018
    54:42
  43. 51.
    #111 Swinger Jargon06/26/2018
    59:41
  44. 52.
    #110 Lube Up06/19/2018
    55:46
  45. 53.
    #109 - Into the Malebag 306/12/2018
    1:07:25
  46. 54.
    #108 - Pendulum VI & Femme06/05/2018
    1:02:13
  47. 55.
    #107 - The Chastity Challenge05/29/2018
    1:09:40
  48. 56.
    #106 - The Seven Contrary Virtues05/22/2018
    58:59
  49. 57.
    #105 - The Seven Deadly Sins05/15/2018
    59:32
  50. 58.
    #104 - Sexcapades IV05/08/2018
    57:30
  51. 59.
    #103 - Miss Penelope Dreadful05/02/2018
    1:08:55
  52. 60.
    #102 - (Dubious) Sex Facts04/25/2018
    1:03:12
  53. 61.
    #101 - Conversations with Naughty and Rocket04/17/2018
    56:55
  54. 62.
    #100 - Sintenary04/10/2018
    1:24:58
  55. 63.
    #99 - The Origin Story04/03/2018
    1:00:42
  56. 64.
    #98 - An Orgy of a Weekend03/27/2018
    55:25
  57. 65.
    #97 - Interview with Our Favorite Pornstar03/20/2018
    1:10:30
  58. 66.
    #96 - Vacation on the Seas03/13/2018
    1:00:18
  59. 67.
    #95 - Lady Headspace03/06/2018
    1:08:58
  60. 68.
    #94 - Headspace02/27/2018
    1:01:04
  61. 69.
    #93 - Rambling Escapades02/20/2018
    1:02:50
  62. 70.
    #92 - Mistakes We Make in the Bedroom02/13/2018
    1:13:14
  63. 71.
    #91 - Since You've Been Gone02/06/2018
    1:05:17
  64. 72.
    #90 - The Gentleman Walks Into a Sauna01/30/2018
    1:06:50
  65. 73.
    #89 - Dirty Talk01/23/2018
    56:34
  66. 74.
    #88 - Dating Challenges with Chastity01/16/2018
    55:06
  67. 75.
    #87 - Never Have I Ever01/10/2018
    1:43:16
  68. 76.
    #86 A Debaucherous Week01/02/2018
    1:08:35
  69. 77.
    #85 A Year in Review12/26/2017
    1:02:33
  70. 78.
    #84 Pegging 101 (Part 2)12/19/2017
    53:01
  71. 79.
    #83 Pegging 101 (Part 1)12/12/2017
    53:38
  72. 80.
    #82 Flirting 10112/05/2017
    58:53
  73. 81.
    #81 The Wet and Pendulum Tales11/28/2017
    1:01:13
  74. 82.
    #80 Sexpo Melbourne 2017 Review11/21/2017
    1:00:45
  75. 83.
    #79 First Time Club Advice11/14/2017
    1:09:41
  76. 84.
    #78 Party Time... and The Tale of The Haunted Sauna11/07/2017
    58:13
  77. 85.
    #77 Passion in Paradise Part 210/31/2017
    1:37:58
  78. 86.
    #76 Passion in Paradise Part 110/24/2017
    1:12:28
  79. 87.
    #75 Pre-Passion in Paradise10/17/2017
    1:11:44
  80. 88.
    #74 - Conversations with The Gentleman10/10/2017
    54:39
  81. 89.
    #73 Recent Sexcapades10/03/2017
    57:08
  82. 90.
    #72 Conversations with Our Secret Spot09/26/2017
    1:01:34
  83. 91.
    #71 The 7 Types of Love09/19/2017
    1:02:48
  84. 92.
    #70 Bisexuality in Our Everyday Life09/12/2017
    1:02:47
  85. 93.
    #69 Games We Play09/05/2017
    58:55
  86. 94.
    #68 A Tale of Two Parties08/29/2017
    1:00:33
  87. 95.
    #67 Awkward Stories with Our Secret Spot08/22/2017
    1:01:15
  88. 96.
    #66 Sexpo Brisbane08/15/2017
    1:22:27
  89. 97.
    #65 Would You Rather? (Part 3)08/08/2017
    1:08:35
  90. 98.
    #64 The Meet & Mingle and Malebag #208/02/2017
    1:07:22
  91. 99.
    #63 – The Manticore07/25/2017
    59:19
  92. 100.
    #62 – The Australian Adult Industry Awards 201707/18/2017
    1:03:21
  93. 101.
    #61 – Would You Rather? (Part 2)07/11/2017
    56:14
  94. 102.
    #60 The Second Pendulum Party & A New Lady06/27/2017
    57:39
  95. 103.
    #59 Twelve Couples Walk into a Bar…06/20/2017
    1:02:16
  96. 104.
    #58 MysteryVibe Crescendo Review06/13/2017
    43:56
  97. 105.
    #57 Body Image Issues – Part 206/06/2017
    1:02:37
  98. 106.
    #56 Body Image Issues – Part 105/31/2017
    1:06:46
  99. 107.
    #55 Our Latest Sexcapades – Volume 105/24/2017
    1:02:54
  100. 108.
    #54 An Interview with Cooper S Beckett05/16/2017
    1:39:44
  101. 109.
    #53 The Pleasure Lounge Review05/09/2017
    46:16
  102. 110.
    #52 Clone-a-Willy05/02/2017
    43:03
  103. 111.
    #51 Mike’s Place Review04/25/2017
    1:06:39
  104. 112.
    #50 Jealousy Revisited04/18/2017
    1:03:15
  105. 113.
    #49 Hack Live Review04/11/2017
    55:25
  106. 114.
    #48 Sex Furniture04/04/2017
    55:36
  107. 115.
    #47 The Big Birthday Weekend03/29/2017
    55:16
  108. 116.
    #46 Introducing MisJif03/21/2017
    1:15:59
  109. 117.
    #45 Sex-Ed in the City (and other news)03/14/2017
    56:32
  110. 118.
    #44 Interview with Our Secret Spot03/07/2017
    1:20:00
  111. 119.
    #43 Managing Children in the Lifestyle03/01/2017
    59:40
  112. 120.
    #42 The Pendulum Party!02/21/2017
    1:01:55
  113. 121.
    #41 Sexiness in NYC02/14/2017
    1:28:22
  114. 122.
    #40 – Well THAT was Awkward.02/07/2017
    56:56
  115. 123.
    #39 Would You Rather?01/31/2017
    54:51
  116. 124.
    #38 Swinging 102 – Profile Profiling01/25/2017
    1:09:35
  117. 125.
    #37 Aussie Slang01/18/2017
    1:01:52
  118. 126.
    #36 Happy New Year!01/11/2017
    1:09:50
  119. 127.
    #35 Swinging 101 – So You Want to be a Swinger01/03/2017
    1:16:15
  120. 128.
    #34 The Interview12/27/2016
    54:25
  121. 129.
    #33 Anal 10112/19/2016
    1:06:53
  122. 130.
    #32 Breaking Rules12/13/2016
    57:29
  123. 131.
    #31 We’re Coming Out12/05/2016
    1:04:49
  124. 132.
    #30 Toys, toys, toys… Part 211/29/2016
    1:15:41
  125. 133.
    #29 What’s been going on?11/22/2016
    1:01:19
  126. 134.
    #28 Love Languages11/15/2016
    1:08:54
  127. 135.
    #27 Sex Ed – G-Spot and Clitoral Massage11/08/2016
    1:07:12
  128. 136.
    #26 Mr. Atom’s Night Out11/01/2016
    1:02:07
  129. 137.
    #25 SexEd – After Party at OSS10/25/2016
    58:13
  130. 138.
    #24 Sex Ed – Giving Good Head10/18/2016
    50:56
  131. 139.
    #23 Hellfire10/10/2016
    1:00:43
  132. 140.
    #22 STIs10/05/2016
    1:05:14
  133. 141.
    #21 Glow Party09/27/2016
    1:04:22
  134. 142.
    #20 Couple’s Club09/20/2016
    1:08:23
  135. 143.
    #19 Discussions with therapists who encourage us to drink (Bartenders)09/13/2016
    2:23:45
  136. 144.
    #18 Mistakes We Make09/06/2016
    1:07:43
  137. 145.
    #17 Ladies’ Night08/30/2016
    1:16:32
  138. 146.
    #16 Kinktopia (Volume 3 – Guess the Kink)08/23/2016
    1:06:45
  139. 147.
    #15 Kinktopia (Volume 2 – Top 10 Kinks)08/16/2016
    1:11:37
  140. 148.
    #14 Kinktopia (Volume 1 – Tryst)08/09/2016
    1:11:08
  141. 149.
    #13 Sharing is Caring – First Time Sharing Each Other08/04/2016
    1:02:02
  142. 150.
    #12 So… How do I have a threesome?07/26/2016
    1:16:27
  143. 151.
    #11 Bisexual Experiences07/07/2016
    59:49
  144. 152.
    #10 Toys toys toys (and shame)06/25/2016
    1:04:01
  145. 153.
    #9 SEXPO06/07/2016
    1:05:33
  146. 154.
    #8 The Swinging Downunder Crossover!04/29/2016
    39:21
  147. 155.
    #7 Out of the Malebag #103/10/2016
    1:11:02
  148. 156.
    #6 The Green Eyed Monster!03/02/2016
    1:24:46
  149. 157.
    #5 The Numbers Episode02/04/2016
    1:00:33
  150. 158.
    #4 Mr. Atom’s big adventure01/24/2016
    1:04:58
  151. 159.
    #3 Pegging01/10/2016
    46:44
  152. 160.
    #2 New Year’s Eve01/04/2016
    57:14
  153. 161.
    #1 Hi there, nice to meet you.12/29/2015
    16:59

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