Boldly Becoming you

Tasha Skillin

The Boldly Becoming You Podcast is your invitation to become who you were born to be. Underneath the layers of rules and expectations you have adopted over your lifetime, in an effort to connect and be accepted, you’ve lost much of who you were when you entered this world. During our time here on the podcast, I will call on you to answer that whisper from your inner wisdom that you have been shushing for years and begin the redesign of your life.

In reality, there are no Universal rules about what is right and wrong or good and bad in parenting, partnership, friendship, your money, your health, spirituality, etc. It’s about what is aligned with your purpose...and what is not. You deserve all you want and I'm committed to passing along everything I learn or find that will help set you free. Thanks for being here.

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There is not a person in history who has recovered from burnout without adjusting or implementing new boundaries. If boundaries have felt hard, or you find yourself having false starts, this episode is going to clarify why. Putting boundaries in place requires an entire skillset that we didn't learn. Listen and share this episode, screenshot it and tag @tashaskillin and @rulesandrebellion on Instagram. You can join the Rules & Rebellion Village with this link to receive $10 off your monthly subscription exclusively for Boldly Becoming You podcast listeners. Or use the code BOLDLY at checkout when you go to www.rulesandrebellion.com/village.

Nov 22

26 min 5 sec

How do you set boundaries with parents who are triggering? How can I stop feeling guilty when I am putting boundaries in place with family? How do you set boundaries when you aren’t ready to talk about why or dig into the trauma? This week I answer 3 questions from listeners about boundaries.   Do you have a question you’d like us to answer? Send a text to 804.207.4028 and I’ll answer it here on an upcoming episode. For more on Boundaries, listen to episodes 35, 40, 74 and make sure to join us in Clubhouse this week as we talk about boundaries and burnout. Enrollment for the Rules & Rebellion Village Membership is open through Monday, Nov 22, 2021. Tap the link above or use the code BOLDLY to receive $10 off your monthly subscription, to this life-changing community. 

Nov 15

11 min 54 sec

Today we dig into your relationship with time, what productivity really means and the actual input we have available spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Ultimately, are you ready and prepared to RECEIVE? Take the time to answer some of the questions toward the end. I am looking forward to seeing what comes up for you. Remember to take a screenshot and share this with your social media community if it resonates. Tag us at @rulesandrebellion And you can grab your seat at www.rulesandrebellion.com/village for The Village Experience that begins this weekend, November 14-19. Can't wait to see you there!

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Nov 8

15 min 50 sec

Perfectionism isn’t who you are, it’s what you learned to do. But do you know why? Do you know where it came from? Do you know how it's impacting your kids? And the ticket out of being in perfectionism anxiety hell is the exact thing that perfectionists are the most scared of. Screenshot this episode, tag @rulesandrebellion and let us know which question you are going to dig into this week. The last Village Experience for 2021 is coming up so grab your ticket at www.rulesandrebellion.com/village. Get a front row seat to the connection, clarity and community only available in our Rules & Rebellion Village membership community. It will change your life. 🤗  

Nov 1

16 min 34 sec

One of the major reliefs for me in my journey to self discovery and increasing my self awareness was learning the Introvert vs Extrovert characteristics. In this episode, I offer the 2 simple differences between these personality traits and how not knowing this impacted every aspect of my life. At the end I offer you some questions to dig into if you discover your introvertedness was not recognized earlier in life.  Leave a review and share it with your friends, if you loved this episode. Thank you for leaning into Boldly Becoming You.

Oct 25

12 min 5 sec

I "came out" a few weeks ago as not straight. In this episode I share with you why as well as offer some questions in hopes you find some freedom and relief in being another step closer to who you were born to be. Last call for the Vision Board Workshop this weekend. Grab your virtual seat here and join the rest of us who are taking up all the space we are meant to inhabit and set yourself free. If you share this episode on social media, please tag us @rulesandrebellion on IG and FB. Thank you for spreading our messages!

Oct 18

9 min 21 sec

There is nothing wrong with you and in this episode, I highlight some major short comings of the systems and methodologies we have been told are THE way to success which is why you believe it's your fault you don't have this "dream life" people talk about. I'm over it and I hope this helps you release some of the pressure you have carried for the last few decades. I love you. Grab your virtual seat at the Vision Board Workshop on Oct 23 & 24 and start upgrading your approach to all things so that you can continue Boldly Becoming You.

Oct 11

12 min 6 sec

In this episode, I share my stagnation and uncertainty since we came back from our trip to California. And what I learned about myself as well as the catalyst for moving toward my goals and vision again AND a big audacious goal that made me sweaty recording it. The Vision Board Workshop is coming up again on October 23&24 so grab your spot at www.rulesandrebellion.com/visionboard Don't forget to leave a review and share this episode to your social, tagging @rulesandrebellion on IG and FB.

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Oct 4

8 min 7 sec

Extreme Independence is out, community and collaboration is in and not because it's a trend or a fad. But because it's truly the only way to do everything you want and need. Being intentional about who you allow into your world and building a community who is 100% team YOU is not something we learned how to do. We learned to swallow our feelings, make other people comfortable and at ease, even at the expense of our own peace. But when you have a village who is genuinely interested in your well-being, your purpose, your unique contributions to the world, you become unstoppable. Share this episode with the friends you want to be in your village. And let us know what came up for you in answering the questions.   Enrollment for The Rules & Rebellion Village is now open through Friday, September 24 so go to www.rulesandrebellion.com/village to become a Founding Member of this life changing community. We will see you in there!

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Sep 20

15 min 53 sec

The world shifts modes when school starts, with or without kids, and in this episode we talk about how to sail smoothly into the next season without overwhelm or burning out trying to keep all your habits the same. We have been living with a certain set of habits and routines over the summer months and now all the cues and prompts, ability factors and maybe even motivations are shifting. What your family does in the summer isn’t the same as what it does in the fall, winter, spring. But you still expect yourself to maintain the habits of the previous season and it's draining you. Share this with your friends, especially those mamas and friends who work in education! Last chance for Coaching Week! You can sign up here and access all the goodies through Sunday September 19. And next week the Rules & Rebellion Village opens for enrollment so keep an eye out so you can make an educated decision for this next season of life.  

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Sep 13

25 min 37 sec

In this episode, Brandon and I dig into the 5 Phases of Transformation that we all move through when we are intentionally evolving as people. We wish we had known these phases existed, what to do in each of them and what to expect because maybe it wouldn't have been so lonely. As always, our goal is to shorten the path for you from where you are to where you want to be and in today's show, you'll be able to identify where you are and what you can do to move toward the next phase. And Coaching Week is designed to accelerate your clarity and get you closer to feeling settled, focused and energized instead overwhelmed and burned out. It starts next week so grab your seat now at www.rulesandrebellion.com/coachingweek. See you there!

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Sep 6

56 min 54 sec

Super personal episode with a trigger warning for child abuse. Ultimately I hope this episode helps you on your journey to healing and setting yourself free.  I will no longer abandon myself and I am hopeful you'll do the same for your truest self. But if it is not yet time, you'll know I'm cheering you on when you do. Coaching week is coming up - grab your seat now for this life changing event - only $7.

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Aug 30

16 min 26 sec

In this episode, we dig into the specifics on having hard conversations in our adult friendships. This was a very active Clubhouse conversation and after I shared these 5 things to consider, the Clubhouse room was alive with women sharing, asking questions and supporting one another in deepening  their friendships and navigating hard conversations.  Did you sign up for Coaching Week yet? Get on in here! Are you on Clubhouse yet? We'd love to have you join us. Have a question? Hit us up on IG and we'll answer it on a podcast!

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Aug 23

22 min 43 sec

What does community really mean? How does it impact our growth? What are doing next? In this episode, Brandon and Tasha dig into the journey to episode 100 of the Boldly Becoming You Podcast AND what the accumulating lessons are pointing to next. Here is the link to our Clubhouse Club: Rules & Rebellion. We are excited to see you at the launch party!  Thank you for being on this journey to 100 episodes with us! XO www.rulesandrebellion.com/coachingweek   

Aug 16

1 hr 8 min

99 episodes in and I am here to open up more, share more and something you'll hear from me way more often, I love you.  Thank you for going on this journey with me. Imagine what we will uncover in the next 99 episodes together :)   www.rulesandrebellion.com/jumpstart for the questions to get you started on the journey back to yourself. Share this episode on Instagram and tag @rulesandrebellion so we can say thank you!

Aug 9

16 min 34 sec

There are many rules we have learned about "family" and what it means to be in one, to stay in one and what parts of yourself to deprioritize because of family. And for many family members, it doesn't matter how toxic the behaviors are. What are the signs? What do you do? In this episode, I answer a question from a listener "How do you know if a family member is toxic?" Power & Peace Through Purpose waitlist is here. If you haven't gotten, these SUPER clarifying questions yet, go grab them here! Gotta a question you want us to answer on the Podcast? DM us on Instagram or shoot me a message on Clubhouse!

Aug 2

8 min 15 sec

There are several problems I noticed in my journey of setting goals, making vision boards and experiencing "success. In this episode, Brandon interviews me about where this process started and why I flipped the Vision Board process on its head so that anyone could find inspiration and actually see them work. He also makes me cry so...there's that. The Vision Boards to Beat Burnout Summer workshop is July 31 and Aug 1 12-3pm EST. Grab your seat at www.rulesandrebellion.com/visionboard - can't wait to see you!  

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Jul 26

1 hr 6 min

Our entire life we have been conditioned to push, hustle and never slow down. We’ve been judged not only by our success but by the goals themselves. If we aren’t striving for more, bigger, better, newer we are dismissed and passed over, so in turn we “level up” and grind it out. But at what cost? How much of your life and your relationships are you willing to sacrifice to achieve them? Brandon and I dig into our experience with this and share what we discovered in the journey out of burnout mode. Vision Boards to Beat Burnout is coming up on July 31 & Aug 1 12-3pm EST both days. Grab your seat here!

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Jul 19

1 hr 1 min

We are used to seeing happy shiny people AFTER their glow up aka transformation but that's not the whole story. In this episode, Brandon and I talk about 3 things you have to say goodbye to when you are going through a transformation AND I clear up what transformation really is. Can't wait to hear what resonates with you. And as always, we invite you to answer a question for yourself as you navigate transformation in your own life. Don't forget to check out the NEW and UPDATED Pre-Vision Board Clarity questions at www.rulesandrebellion.com/vbquestions or snag them when you sign up for the Vision Boards to Beat Burnout 2 part workshop on July 31 and Aug 1. Grab your seat here: www.rulesandrebellion.com/visionboard  

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Jul 12

32 min 43 sec

We're in California after a cross country road trip that was EPIC. In this episode, Brandon and I share what we had to do, let go of and rules we intentionally broke to make the trip what it was. Clarity from every direction - our students, about our family's well being, how we ended up in California and what's coming up. Special note: Our Instagram account has been updated to reflect the name of our company rather than just the podcast so make sure you are following us here: Rules & Rebellion  And head over to www.rulesandrebellion.com/links to check out all the resources, workshops and courses coming up.

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Jul 5

1 hr

What does being positive mean? And how have we turned what was intended to be a powerful option for maintaining a healthy attitude into a toxic pattern that actually limits our abundance and creates challenges in the moment and long term? Where is the line between a positive attitude and dodging real life with a toxic positive mindset? One will set you in motion for abundance, the other will block all you are meant to have. That’s what we are digging into today. Check out the NEW and Updated Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions here!

Jun 28

14 min 57 sec

Gratitude isn't just "thank you" - it's all the ways we show that we see, hear, understand and appreciate someone. In this short episode, I invite you to consider the ways you can activate your gratitude with a variety of appreciation to the people who need it the most in your life. When you say thank you, in any of the many ways you can appreciate someone, you invite more of that into your life. What are you attracting more of into your world? The Vision Board to Beat Burnout Workshop is coming up. Grab the Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions here.

Jun 21

6 min 3 sec

Whether you are looking at your health practices, your content for your business or saving money, "consistency" seems to be the cure-all for anything you want to do in life.  But doesn't is feel like a lot of pressure to do it EVERY DAY, no matter what, whatever "it" is? If you have goals in all areas of your life, it's not possible to consistently produce every day for all of your life and for many of us, it results in feeling like we've failed.  What if your commitment to consistency was pointed at the wrong thing? That's what we dig into in this episode. And don't forget to snag the Pre-Vision Board Clarity questions at www.rulesandrebellion.com/vbquestions  

Jun 14

7 min 46 sec

Do you remember the last time you received a compliment from a stranger? Someone told you that you had a nice smile, they liked your jacket, your work was well done? What did it trigger in you? Did you feel shy or nervous or uncomfortable? Today's episode is longer than most of the Monday episodes so you'll hear some changes at the beginning and end. Screenshot this episode and tag @boldlybecomingyou on Instagram. And Power & Peace Through Purpose is NOW open! Grab your spot and get ready for a life-changing experience with other brilliant recovering perfectionists who refuse to let burnout steal their dreams, purpose and impact.  

Jun 7

20 min 59 sec

Loyalty to someone other than yourself is the breeding ground for inauthenticity and for surrendering your autonomy. Autonomy is the antithesis of codependency and a crucial ingredient in interdependence. Today’s show is an invitation to look at where in your relationships perfectionism - the rules, expectations or obligations, have overpowered autonomy. AND Power & Peace Through Purpose opens this week. Head on over to www.rulesandrebellion.com/p3 to learn more about this transformational course. We can't wait to see you in there 🤩

May 31

9 min 53 sec

Acknowledging your co-creators throughout your life opens the doors for more collaborative efforts, less loneliness and exponential impact and abundance. Your trauma-response independence is blocking your abundance.  Today I'm inviting you to reflect with some insightful questions at the end of the episode.  For more questions to reflect on, head over to www.rulesandrebellion.com/jumpstart to download the 16 Qs to Jumpstart Your Journey Back to You. 

May 24

11 min 35 sec

Being loyal to your own core values, your truest and highest self is the most effective long term strategy for health, happiness and fulfillment but most of us have agreed to loyalty in many areas of our lives.  Loyalty to anyone outside of yourself is going to create resentment, lost time and inauthenticity and delay your efforts to be the person you were born to be. Wanna start your journey back to you? Use these questions as a practice and get back to the incredible person who is here to have a meaningful impact.

May 17

8 min 24 sec

One of the reasons I didn’t express gratitude is because of the rules I assumed and adopted about the right and wrong way (perfectionism) to say thanks. I watched adults and peers deny thanks, defer it, deflect it and expect it. We will dig into these topics in this series but today we are talking about the rules that say there is a right time, a right way and by default the wrong way to express thanks.  A review would mean the world to me. Thank you for joining me on this journey and sharing how this podcast has helped you. Don't forget to snag your 16 Qs to Jumpstart Your Journey Back to You!

May 10

11 min 20 sec

At the end of the day, are you deciding it was a good day vs a bad day based on the number of things you got checked off your list? Do you feel annoyed at others who are resting, playing or relaxing when there is so much to do? These are just a few examples of productivity-based self worth. In this episode, I give you 8 signs you are operating from this productivity-based self worth and 6 steps to start shifting into alignment and fulfillment. Screenshot while listening and let me know how this lands for you @boldlybecomingyou on IG!

May 3

15 min 54 sec

This is the beginning of a series about how gratitude has plateaued for so many of us and how to multiply the impact personally and globally. What if journaling gratitude was just the beginning of the power and impact you could have in your own life and in the world? This is a game changer and I'm excited to share this journey with you. If you are on Clubhouse, make sure to follow me there @tashaskillin. You can also text Clubhouse to 804.207.4028 and you'll receive info about upcoming rooms I'm hosting or guest speaking in. Also, make sure you grab the 16 Qs to Jumpstart your Journey Back to You!

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Apr 26

14 min 13 sec

As recovering perfectionists, we are unlearning the patterns and habits of people pleasing, procrastination guilt, performative based self worth and preoccupation of flaws.  But as humans we crave meaningful impact and a sense of purpose - above all we want peace, ease and joy. So how do you close the gap between the anxiety of how to get it all done and the "hard work" of achieving goals to becoming a person who enjoys life, feels at peace and accomplishes dreams? What is the KEY ingredient to moving from where you are to where you want to be?  That's what we dive into in this episode. Thanks for listening. Want to get to know yourself a bit better? Download and use these questions to continue the journey back to your truest self.

Apr 19

17 min 47 sec

If you are like me, you've been working hard to reach your goals for most of your life. And you have found yourself exhausted, occasionally defeated and most definitely burnt out. What if that wasn't actually how all the successful people we look up to actually achieved their success? What if the path to accomplishing dreams and having everything we want was about NOT focusing on the goals, but something different? I pivoted from this path of a goal-driven life a few years ago...and it's been working. Have you shared this episode with your friend, sister or coworkers yet? Do it! You are part of the community of healers and co-creators passing along messages that matter. Thank you for listening! More goodness is coming up in the next few months so stay tuned! Free resources here

Apr 12

13 min 7 sec

In this episode, we do a deep dive into questions and practices that provide self-awareness and how it benefits the many aspects of day to day life. You will want to grab pen and paper, or open your notes section in your phone, to capture some of these questions. Thank you for your support during this relapse. Looking forward to being live more often with you soon! Snag your 11 Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have. And join us April 10&11 for the Vision Board Workshop!  If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

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Apr 5

15 min 7 sec

I've had my share of setbacks, as have you. And when you are a perfectionist, even in recovery, it feels especially challenging to navigate unexpected delays and obstacles when there was a well-thought out plan or strategy. In this episode, we talk about how to deal with setbacks and what you can do to move through them with less loss time and more grace. The Vision Board Workshop is April 10&11 and registration is now open. Snag your seat at www.rulesandrebellion.com/visionboard  Make sure you download the free resource, 11 Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions, to dig into what you may want/need that is underneath all the rules, obligations and expectations you unknowingly adopted through the years.

Mar 29

13 min 2 sec

Where does abundance come from? What does alignment really mean? In this episode, we dig into answering both of those questions and clarify the importance of including all areas of your life in your future vision. When you open your definition of abundance beyond cash and include the many ways your truest self can manifest, you end up looking around saying "OMG, this is really happening!" Snag your 11 Pre-Vision Board Clarity Questions to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

Mar 22

14 min 49 sec

Vision boards can be fun and pretty and inspirational but they are ultimately TOOLS to manifest the life you are meant to live.  Vision Boards are visuals that you create that include images and text that conveys the life you want or crave to live. It is the visual representation of the dreams and goals achieved when you are aligned spiritually, mentally, physically and emotionally. In this episode, I talk about 2 different ways to use your Vision Board to manifest the life you dream of and have the meaningful impact you are meant to have. Make sure to get on The Vision Board Workshop waitlist to be notified when the April Vision Board workshop registration opens up!  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

Mar 15

13 min 28 sec

In this episode, I share what you may be doing that is creating a direct, fast track path to burnout AND what the two basic stages of burnout are. You may want to grab paper and pen for this one - it's interactive.  Thank you for sharing this episode and others that resonate, with those you love. Let's keep collaborating on supporting one another OUT of these perfectionism patterns that are stealing years, even decades, of this one precious life.  Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Mar 8

13 min 3 sec

Perfectionism leads to limited connection and vulnerability in friendships, often an imbalance of pouring into others and then feeling underappreciated or drained.  And the people pleaser in the perfectionist patterns avoids conflict and has many ambiguous friendships which keep you stuck trying to make sure you are likeable rather than being the truest you. What would happen if you got clear on what you want a friendship to provide you?  What kind of connections could you develop if you just had the conversation about intentions?   Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Mar 1

11 min 58 sec

You've tried all the hacks, all the strategies and the systems and still you feel defeated, constantly behind, exhausted and unsatisfied with what you've gotten done at the end of the day. I get it - I lived that life for almost 20 years. Here's the thing, those systems were not designed for people like us. They were created by old white dudes who weren't responsible for the emotional well-being of their family and communities. Those systems weren't created with the flexibility we need for how real life happens - moments, hours and sometimes days or weeks hijacked by taking care of people - which we love but also takes time. So no more controlling time - Time Integrity is a whole mood and today's episode is just the beginning. NEW! You've heard us mention the course we are launching in March to pass along the tools and the systems we developed as we moved out of the Burnt Out Perfectionist life into the Confident Connected Rebel lifestyle. Enrollment will be opening soon but snag your spot on the waitlist to be the first notified when we open up the limited number of seats for our Beta run of this course at a ridiculously low investment this one time. Sign up here! Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

Feb 22

11 min 16 sec

In this episode we talk about a few of the challenges that you face when first implementing boundaries in your relationships and with yourself. Sure, boundaries are hard, but why? Is it the fear of hurt feelings, possible rejection, change?  Maybe it's that you feel like you don't have a good track record following through with things, so why bother? Whatever the reason, we're here for ya. Thanks for listening. Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion.  

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Feb 18

45 min 54 sec

We have been taught to look outside of ourselves to determine what we do, how we love, where we give our attention and energy. So after decades of that conditioning, it's time to go back inside yourself. This short episode is packed with some powerful questions. One specific question that will provide direction and clarity in how to have a joy-filled and meaningful impact. Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin.

Feb 15

8 min 25 sec

What is the meaning of life? What makes life worth living? These are questions philosophers, and scientists, have been working on for thousands of years. The answer continues to be having a sense of purpose - delivering a meaningful impact on the world at large. And yet, so many of us hold ourselves back from doing the things we are passionate about. Where do these fears of ridicule, imperfection and inadequacy come from? Why does it feel so hard to figure out what your purpose is? In this episode, we talk about what's stopping you and what to do to move into a meaningful life filled with purpose and joy. Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Feb 8

9 min 34 sec

People Pleasing: What is it, what does it look like, and how does it affect your life and relationships? Do you even know if you’re doing it? In this episode we share our respective journeys through people pleasing and how identifying it changed our relationship with each other, our parenting and ourselves. People pleasing has multiple layers and offers a chance to be the hero in a lot of stories. But what if by releasing the identity of “hero”, you could find deeper connection in your relationships, encourage resiliency and confidence in the people you love, all while becoming that person you know deep down that you truly are? Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, we'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion.

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Feb 4

51 min 8 sec

We have been told that people who procrastinate are lazy, unmotivated, non-committal and a slew of other offensive and damaging things. But what if we approached procrastination from a completely different angle? What if the people we love could move out of procrastination - we could move out of the pattern of false starts and piles of incomplete projects - by asking a question rather than blaming and assuming? The impact of the habit of procrastination is huge, especially over the span of a lifetime or a relationship. In this episode, you'll hear some alternatives in parenting, partnership, friendships and professional relationships so you can reconnect and work together on overcoming the ever present fears. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin. Are you on Clubhouse? I host a daily Boldly Becoming You room Mon-Sat at 7am EST @tashaskillin 

Feb 1

9 min 36 sec

Your relationship with money may be the missing link to the security and impact you crave. Even with all the strategies and budgeting tools, if you still feel anxiety, fear, dread or anger when interacting with money - it's time to consider a different approach to your money. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Jan 25

10 min 38 sec

In order to have the meaningful impact you are designed to have, you have to pursue the nudges that come up to explore an idea or make changes in your life. But for so many, doing this in the past has led to someone labeling you selfish or you feeling guilty because someone you love or care about is not immediately on board with the shifts you made.  You aren't selfish for going after what lights you up. You are selfish if you don't. Listen to this episode to dig in a little deeper about how crucial it is that you do the things calling to you. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Jan 18

10 min 2 sec

Motivation, self discipline and will power have held the #1 position in the ranking of who gets to be successful in personal and professional goals and dreams for far too long. But what if what you have achieved and not achieved in your life is not a result of motivation or lack thereof? What if you just didn't complete the process and journey to success because you didn't have all the information? In today's episode, I share with you the life-changing work of BJ Fogg and how I've seen this information transform my life and the lives of so many others who apply it. Snag your free 11 question checklist to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down: Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.   If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.  

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Jan 11

13 min 47 sec

In this quickie conversation, we take a moment to talk about the journey here and introduce the next chapter of the Boldly Becoming You podcast. New beginnings and growing authenticity. Don't forget: The first Vision Board Actualized Workshop is this weekend! Snag your seat - go here to set up for an epic 2021. And until then, snag your free 11 question checklist to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

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Jan 7

12 min 9 sec

If you answered "myself" you are not alone. Guilt, remorse and shame are often based on a false foundation yet stop most of us from taking risks and dreaming big enough. Most of what you feel guilt about, as well as things you want to forgive yourself for, are eating up space in your mind and depleting your energy. In this episode, I offer another angle and some relief as you move into your renewed habits and practices for self-care and fulfilling your purpose in 2021. The first Vision Board Actualized Workshop is this weekend! Snag your seat - go here to set up for an epic 2021. And until then, snag your free 11 question checklist to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin. Are you part of our community yet? Come check out the conversations about purpose, impact and self discovery in the Boldly Becoming You village online.  Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self. Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down: Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

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Jan 4

15 min 9 sec

Brandon has been a professional artist for 20 years, focusing mostly in theatre, design, and the event industry. During that time he has grown to fully embrace the strength and benefits that collaboration and the creative process afford everyone. As a Creativity Coach, Brandon helps people identify their own unique version of creativity and how to better express it, and ultimately themselves. Whether it is navigating daily tasks like cooking and scheduling, designing your personal space, or making “art”, creativity is at the center of it all and tuning in and embracing it is one of the key elements to living a full, bold, meaningful life.      In this episode we discussed: Parenting Relationships Creativity Toxic Masculinity Follow Brandon on Instagram The Vision Board Actualized Workshop is January 9&10 2021. Enrollment is open - go here to grab your seat! And until then, snag your free 11 question checklist to get started manifesting the life you want and were born to have. If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Rules & Rebellion @rulesandrebellion or @TashaSkillin. Download the free Boldly Becoming You Jumpstart Checklist to fast track your journey to your truest self.

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Dec 2020

1 hr 12 min