What She's Thinking: men's dating & sex questions answered by women

By Greg Schwartz, Debug Dating

Men, submit your dating + sex questions to have them answered by female guests, moderated by your dating coach Greg

  1. 1.
    Building a dating app update: depression sucks
    5:42
  2. 2.
    It's been a while, bc I'm building a dating app for LTRs
    12:49
  3. 3.
    Covid-19 Cuties Z and C, part 2: why Z is having more sex, but dating less, and C isn't dating at all
    20:25
  4. 4.
    Covid-19 Cuties Z and C, part 1: why Z is having more sex, but dating less, and C isn't dating at all
    23:10
  5. 5.
    Bonus Coronavirus episode for women: do you want sex more or less during the pandemic, types of video dates
    13:24
  6. 6.
    More Coronavirus Dating with S and D: do you want sex more or less during the pandemic, types of video dates
    18:37
  7. 7.
    Coronavirus Dating with S and D, part 1: dates in the era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing
    27:26
  8. 8.
    Top 2 love languages, what does "gifts" really mean, should I send a 2nd message, "good" aggressiveness vs scary, how a man can tell her sex drive
    27:44
  1. 9.
    No kiss by the 2nd date=move on, best activity for 1st date, does work stress affect your libido, and more!
    42:52
  2. 10.
    Who pays on 1st date, favorite foreplay spots, how to ask if she likes what you're doing during sex, attractive parts of men's bodies, things she appreciates when you do
    28:44
  3. 11.
    Best way to get consent, length of ideal sex session, creating connection on a date, top 2 languages of love, discussing fantasies that aren't mainstream
    34:39
  4. 12.
    Turn-ons during sex, caring about how much you make, how to tell her you're excited for sex, how you can create connection on a date
    37:10
  5. 13.
    21: work affecting libido, when to talk about sex, aggressiveness you like in a man
    34:12
  6. 14.
    20: who pays on 1st date, do you care how much a guy makes, what can he do to help her make clear sexual requests, how does work stress affect dating and sex, optimal sex session length
    28:14
  7. 15.
    19: First date topics, languages of love, women's short answers, Instagram, older vs younger matches, last things you appreciate
    24:34
  8. 16.
    18: Non-American perspective, part 3: do you enjoy teasing men, best venues to meet potential partners, who pays on the first dates
    18:42
  9. 17.
    17: Non-American perspective: wanting sex more than he does, favorite foreplay spots, favorite parts of men's bodies, breast touching, favorite ways for man to tell you he's excited for sex
    23:42
  10. 18.
    16: Non-American perspective: good first dates, creating connection, stress affecting dating & libido, asking for feedback during sex
    36:07
  11. 19.
    15: Frequent travelers: How to tell she's not interested, turn-ons before & during sex, best offline ways to meet, top languages of love
    29:33
  12. 20.
    14: Frequent travelers: sending a 2nd message, who pays on first date, dating preferences in 20s vs 30s, men being emotionally present, talk on Instagram vs app
    31:37
  13. 21.
    13: best places to meet besides online, turn-ons before sex, turn-ons during sex, opposites attracting, when she follows you Instagram, final things they appreciate men doing
    31:53
  14. 22.
    12: how can men help when her work affects libido, how to tell she has a high sex drive, kickstarting her sex drive, first date topics, length of sex, how to help her ask for what she wants
    27:48
  15. 23.
    11: Favorite ways for nipples and clit to be touched, do opposites attract, how to ask what she wants during sex, rate your sex drive
    18:54
  16. 24.
    10: Teasing/hinting makes sex better, wanting sex more than he does, being emotionally present in sex, dating preferences 20s vs 30s
    31:34
  17. 25.
    9: First dates, languages of love, creating connection, how to see if she's not into you
    32:22
  18. 26.
    8: Making more than him, how dating online is for you vs men, profile mistakes, appreciating things men do
    30:41
  19. 27.
    7: Turnons, talking about sexual desires, "what do you want" vs "may I?", length of ideal sex, etiquette to get back in touch
    28:41
  20. 28.
    6: Teasing; Foreplay spots; Saying no thanks to her, and how she'll show she's not interested; Where to meet besides online
    32:05
  21. 29.
    5: turn-offs, discussing fantasies with a guy, her sex drive compared to avg woman, how to ask what she likes, kegels
    25:43
  22. 30.
    4: Consent, foreplay, turn-ons, aggressiveness, length of ideal session, favorite parts of men's bodies, and more! (Sex Q's Part 1)
    31:15
  23. 31.
    3: Should I send a second message? Why she followed you on Instagram... (Dating Q's Part 2)
    19:47
  24. 32.
    2: Good first dates, and should I pay? Why she sends short answers (Dating Q's Part 1)
    30:53
  25. 33.
    1: Hello & What this podcast is about (trailer)
    1:26

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