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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

By JLML Press

Each episode addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy. Janet is a respected parenting adviser, author, and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create relationships of respect, trust, and love. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription. Episodes of "Sessions," a collection of intimate recorded phone consultations with parents, are available exclusively at SessionsAudio.com. Recommended Best Parenting Podcast by "The Washington Post," The Bump, Fatherly, "Early Childhood Education Zone," and many, many more. Copyright JLML Press (2020) All Rights Reserved

  1. 1.
    The Best Way to Encourage Toddler Manners11/18/2020
    18:20
  2. 2.
    Helping Children Thrive in Preschool - What Parents and Teachers Can Do (with Mr. Chazz)11/04/2020
    33:12
  3. 3.
    Meltdowns at Bedtime (or Anytime)10/21/2020
    29:53
  4. 4.
    Why Bribes and Threats Aren't Helpful (and What to Do Instead)10/13/2020
    22:37
  5. 5.
    Don't Miss the Secrets Your Children Share10/08/2020
    20:02
  6. 6.
    When Kids Say Shocking or Rude Things – What’s a Parent To Do?09/22/2020
    21:32
  7. 7.
    Sibling Strife - When Your Child Keeps Hating On Her Little Brother09/08/2020
    26:58
  8. 8.
    Calming Our Reactivity to Children's Irritating, Demanding Behaviors08/25/2020
    21:27
  1. 9.
    Abuse Prevention Strategies to Keep Our Kids Safe (with Rosalia Rivera)08/12/2020
    42:54
  2. 10.
    3 Hints for Parents Working at Home08/05/2020
    25:27
  3. 11.
    Engaging in Your Child's Play Without Interrupting07/22/2020
    24:46
  4. 12.
    The Power of Bias and How to Disrupt It in Our Children (with Dr. Jennifer Eberhardt)07/15/2020
    41:57
  5. 13.
    How to Make No Mean No07/01/2020
    18:46
  6. 14.
    It's Not Regression06/24/2020
    23:25
  7. 15.
    Raising Anti-Racist Children - A Holistic Approach (with Kristen Coggins)06/10/2020
    36:28
  8. 16.
    How Self-Care and Boundaries Work Together06/02/2020
    32:32
  9. 17.
    Is It Too Late to Set Limits with My Strong-Willed Child?05/19/2020
    20:56
  10. 18.
    Stop Worrying About Your Preschooler's Education (with Teacher Tom)05/12/2020
    22:57
  11. 19.
    Raising Emotional Intelligence and Resilience for a Meaningful Life (with Susan David)04/28/2020
    43:30
  12. 20.
    5 Ways Parents Can Make Their Lives Easier Right Now04/20/2020
    21:47
  13. 21.
    Repeating Yourself Won't Help (What to Do Instead)04/07/2020
    19:39
  14. 22.
    Helping Parent-Child Relationships Thrive During Long Separations and Transitions04/01/2020
    34:02
  15. 23.
    Kickstarting Your Child's Learning and Play at Home (with Lisa Griffen-Murphy)03/25/2020
    30:58
  16. 24.
    Parenting in Anxious Times (with Susan Stiffelman, MFT)03/20/2020
    23:29
  17. 25.
    How to Help a Strong-Willed Child Listen (Without Wounding His Spirit)03/10/2020
    22:29
  18. 26.
    Anger, Sadness, Fear: Showing Our Emotions to Our Kids03/03/2020
    18:20
  19. 27.
    What Children Really Need to Succeed in School... and Life (with Rick Ackerly)02/18/2020
    26:05
  20. 28.
    What to Do About Your Clingy Child02/11/2020
    23:08
  21. 29.
    The Most Helpful Response When Your Child Gets Hurt (4 Guidelines)01/28/2020
    20:10
  22. 30.
    My Kids Seem Ungrateful and Entitled01/21/2020
    14:24
  23. 31.
    No Bad Kids: Questions About Tantrums, Mealtimes, and Cleaning Up01/14/2020
    18:27
  24. 32.
    The Securely Attached Child and How to Handle Disrespectful Behavior (with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson)01/07/2020
    34:28
  25. 33.
    Teaching a Child to Control His Feelings12/30/2019
    14:20
  26. 34.
    Resolving a Toddler’s Aggressive Behavior (Hitting, Pushing, Hair Pulling)12/17/2019
    19:52
  27. 35.
    Traveling with Babies, Toddlers, Preschoolers (8 Tips)12/11/2019
    17:44
  28. 36.
    Boys Do Cry and They Need To (with Maggie Dent)12/02/2019
    25:27
  29. 37.
    Lying, Stealing, Hoarding11/20/2019
    19:11
  30. 38.
    Our Biggest Challenge as Parents10/30/2019
    21:58
  31. 39.
    Faced with Troubling Behavior - Now What? (with Susan Stiffelman and Maggie Dent)10/16/2019
    32:55
  32. 40.
    4-Year-Old Seems Fixated on Dark, Negative Scenarios10/08/2019
    21:01
  33. 41.
    The Real Reasons for Your Child's Behavior (A Science-Based Approach with Dr. Mona Delahooke)10/01/2019
    27:40
  34. 42.
    Be Careful What You Teach (It Might Interfere with What They Are Learning)09/11/2019
    22:00
  35. 43.
    When It's Difficult to Physically Stop the Behavior09/05/2019
    25:21
  36. 44.
    The Way We Praise Matters08/21/2019
    20:30
  37. 45.
    Afraid to Start School08/12/2019
    19:36
  38. 46.
    Your Child's Erratic, Disruptive Behavior07/31/2019
    17:49
  39. 47.
    Learning Through Social Struggles with Our Support07/17/2019
    26:22
  40. 48.
    Losing It - Understanding What Makes Us Snap (With Elisabeth Corey)07/02/2019
    29:49
  41. 49.
    Drowning in Chaos (4 Parenting Lifelines)06/20/2019
    22:03
  42. 50.
    Dear Parent: You Are Not Failing06/05/2019
    21:45
  43. 51.
    Seriously Bugged by Bugs: Working with Your Child to Overcome Fears05/29/2019
    20:24
  44. 52.
    3 Steps To Help Children Dress Independently05/22/2019
    17:21
  45. 53.
    When Your Child Is Unkind (She Needs Your Help)05/15/2019
    18:22
  46. 54.
    Connecting with Your Kids When They're Upset (Works with Siblings Too)05/08/2019
    18:39
  47. 55.
    Parent Feels Abused By Her Children's Verbal Outbursts05/01/2019
    20:02
  48. 56.
    Respectful Care is Less Tiring and Stressful04/24/2019
    17:35
  49. 57.
    Extreme Favoritism Toward One Parent04/17/2019
    15:05
  50. 58.
    Should We Give a Screaming Toddler What He Wants?04/10/2019
    20:19
  51. 59.
    5 Best Ways to Communicate Respectful Parenting (to Friends, Relatives, and Strangers)04/03/2019
    19:39
  52. 60.
    How to Handle Boastful, Competitive Behavior03/27/2019
    17:32
  53. 61.
    Instead of No, No, No... (4 Tips for Keeping Your Baby Explorer Safe)03/19/2019
    16:49
  54. 62.
    Help! Our Child Keeps Interrupting and Demanding Attention03/06/2019
    20:34
  55. 63.
    Teaching Children to Respect Personal Boundaries by Asserting Our Own02/27/2019
    17:53
  56. 64.
    How to Encourage Your Baby's Language Development02/20/2019
    16:02
  57. 65.
    Bossy, Controlling and Emotional Over Random Things02/12/2019
    18:27
  58. 66.
    Never Too Late to Become the Parent You Want To Be02/06/2019
    22:54
  59. 67.
    Responding to Your Sweet Toddler's Sudden Aggression01/30/2019
    14:51
  60. 68.
    Already Exhausted by a 15-Month-Old's Behavior01/23/2019
    18:48
  61. 69.
    Stop Being a Captive to Your Children's Emotions01/14/2019
    16:06
  62. 70.
    Concerned About a Child's Anxiety01/08/2019
    16:14
  63. 71.
    Mothering Boys - Secrets to Understanding Our Sons (with Best-Selling Author Maggie Dent)12/18/2018
    22:39
  64. 72.
    How and When to Prepare Your Child for a New Sibling (or Any Big Transition)12/11/2018
    18:43
  65. 73.
    The Best Way to Deal with Intense Tantrums12/05/2018
    18:28
  66. 74.
    My Daughter Wants To Look Like a Boy11/28/2018
    14:04
  67. 75.
    What Can I Do When I Find My Adorable Children Annoying?11/23/2018
    18:36
  68. 76.
    Is It Ever Okay to Use Force with a Resistant Toddler?11/15/2018
    16:29
  69. 77.
    How to Stop Arguing with Your Child10/29/2018
    14:28
  70. 78.
    5 Hints for Raising Twins That Will Help Every Parent10/22/2018
    18:46
  71. 79.
    Why Is My Child Ignoring Me?10/08/2018
    17:27
  72. 80.
    Destructive Behavior - Why It Happens And What We Can Do10/02/2018
    17:06
  73. 81.
    4 Reasons Children Seek Validation (And How to Respond)09/24/2018
    15:42
  74. 82.
    Can Imaginary Play Be Unhealthy?09/11/2018
    14:32
  75. 83.
    No Remorse for Aggressive Behavior09/04/2018
    21:36
  76. 84.
    Exhausted By A Whiny, Cranky Child08/27/2018
    16:12
  77. 85.
    Supporting A Child Who Has Differences08/20/2018
    17:04
  78. 86.
    Dad Feels Undermined and Defeated by Partner's Lack of Limits08/13/2018
    17:44
  79. 87.
    It's Really Okay to Say ‘No’ to Playing with Your Child (5 Reasons)08/06/2018
    15:55
  80. 88.
    Public Tantrums (Why They Happen and How to Avoid Them)07/30/2018
    18:53
  81. 89.
    Impatience, Perfectionism, Fear of Failure07/23/2018
    15:40
  82. 90.
    A Toddler's Do-It-Myself Attitude Ends In Tantrums07/09/2018
    17:43
  83. 91.
    Raising Self-Directed Learners in Any School Environment (with Laura Grace Weldon)07/02/2018
    22:48
  84. 92.
    Recognizing the Cause of Disruptive, Aggressive Behavior06/20/2018
    15:10
  85. 93.
    From Toddler to Teen – How Our Confident Leadership Fosters Resilience (with Susan Stiffelman)06/11/2018
    26:40
  86. 94.
    Our Child Is Not Listening (And a Positive Approach Doesn't Seem to Work)06/04/2018
    15:52
  87. 95.
    Helping Siblings Engage Safely and Positively05/21/2018
    19:28
  88. 96.
    Adventures in Free Range Learning with Laura Grace Weldon05/14/2018
    35:00
  89. 97.
    Getting Dressed Is a Daily Struggle05/01/2018
    18:43
  90. 98.
    Can You Trust Your Child's Social Instincts? Or is She a Bully?04/23/2018
    13:46
  91. 99.
    Mom Suffering for Lack of Clear Boundaries04/16/2018
    21:19
  92. 100.
    Not Easy to Cut Off Screen Time04/02/2018
    14:13
  93. 101.
    Children Hurting Themselves When They're Upset03/21/2018
    11:22
  94. 102.
    "My Toddler Doesn't Behave This Way with Anyone Else!"03/07/2018
    17:36
  95. 103.
    How to Listen to Your Baby02/26/2018
    16:43
  96. 104.
    "You're Not the Boss of Me!"02/14/2018
    12:39
  97. 105.
    My Child Won't Stop Hitting02/08/2018
    15:28
  98. 106.
    Getting Your Partner on the Same Page with Respectful Discipline01/31/2018
    12:02
  99. 107.
    Age 4 Seems Like Another Planet01/17/2018
    19:24
  100. 108.
    Helping a Child Adjust to Two Households or Other Changes in Care01/05/2018
    13:47
  101. 109.
    When We're Stuck in a Pattern of Frustration, Impatience and Anger12/20/2017
    17:46
  102. 110.
    Our Clingy Child Won't Let Us Leave12/13/2017
    19:35
  103. 111.
    Potty Struggles with a 4-Year-Old12/06/2017
    13:58
  104. 112.
    Concerns About a Sensitive Child in Social Situations11/29/2017
    13:35
  105. 113.
    Challenging Moments With Kids: How To Keep Your Cool (with Psychotherapist Tasha Lansbury)11/22/2017
    17:52
  106. 114.
    Demanding Behavior Makes Mom Shout and Scold11/15/2017
    11:38
  107. 115.
    How to Handle Behavior We Can't Physically Control11/08/2017
    16:11
  108. 116.
    Independent Play, Bonding, and Setting Limits11/01/2017
    15:12
  109. 117.
    Disturbed My Boy is Losing Self-Confidence10/24/2017
    14:17
  110. 118.
    Sportscasting Sibling Struggles10/18/2017
    13:48
  111. 119.
    High Energy Boy Won't Cooperate10/10/2017
    15:52
  112. 120.
    Imitating Annoying Behavior10/04/2017
    17:24
  113. 121.
    Can a Child Be Taught Resilience?09/27/2017
    17:02
  114. 122.
    Solving Toddler Sleep Issues with Sleep Expert Lisa Sunbury09/19/2017
    27:06
  115. 123.
    Setting Limits with Your Possessive Toddler09/13/2017
    18:59
  116. 124.
    Can a Mom's Empathy Be Patronizing?09/05/2017
    13:27
  117. 125.
    My Toddler's A Little Rough With The Baby08/29/2017
    16:59
  118. 126.
    Does My Child Feel Safe Expressing Emotions?08/22/2017
    11:35
  119. 127.
    Working Mom Feels Like a Bad Parent08/15/2017
    16:13
  120. 128.
    Encouraging An Easily Frustrated Child08/09/2017
    17:23
  121. 129.
    "Terrified I've Damaged My Spirited Daughter"08/01/2017
    14:22
  122. 130.
    When Your Kids Won't Give You a Break07/25/2017
    15:42
  123. 131.
    "Mommy, Are You Happy?"07/18/2017
    20:22
  124. 132.
    Setting Limits That Make Mealtimes Enjoyable07/11/2017
    24:14
  125. 133.
    Helping Babies Take Their Medicine07/05/2017
    20:03
  126. 134.
    Getting Family on Board with Your Parenting Beliefs06/26/2017
    14:55
  127. 135.
    How to Stop Carrying and Start Encouraging Your Baby's Play06/19/2017
    20:09
  128. 136.
    No Tolerance for Bullying06/05/2017
    13:17
  129. 137.
    Is There a Problem with Pacifiers?05/22/2017
    16:40
  130. 138.
    My Daughter's Friend is a Bad Influence05/15/2017
    17:17
  131. 139.
    Why Not Swat My Toddler's Hand?05/08/2017
    18:37
  132. 140.
    Help Me Stop Yelling at My Child05/01/2017
    12:54
  133. 141.
    Explosive Reactions to Minor Events04/25/2017
    11:50
  134. 142.
    My Toddler Wants EVERYTHING04/17/2017
    14:19
  135. 143.
    Challenges at Pick-Up Time04/04/2017
    15:39
  136. 144.
    Dealing with Your Child's Aggressive Playmate03/28/2017
    13:18
  137. 145.
    No Self-Confidence03/20/2017
    13:19
  138. 146.
    Extremely Clingy and Whiny Since Grandma Moved In03/12/2017
    23:14
  139. 147.
    Peeing on the Floor is an Attention-Getter03/02/2017
    14:56
  140. 148.
    When Children Ask About Death (or Other Heavy Topics)02/22/2017
    11:23
  141. 149.
    Shouldn't a 6-Year-Old Know Better?02/15/2017
    15:28
  142. 150.
    Handling My Toddler's First Tantrum02/09/2017
    18:28
  143. 151.
    My Toddler's Blankie Blues02/02/2017
    12:36
  144. 152.
    When Your Child Seems Afraid of Other People01/26/2017
    14:37
  145. 153.
    My Daughter Is Never Satisfied (And It's Making Me Nuts)01/19/2017
    14:02
  146. 154.
    Managing the Conflicting Demands of Siblings01/08/2017
    19:37
  147. 155.
    Helping Your Child Through a Difficult Transition12/14/2016
    12:46
  148. 156.
    Coping with a High Needs Baby (special guest: Lisa Sunbury)12/08/2016
    24:31
  149. 157.
    My Son Is Saying the F-Word11/30/2016
    15:02
  150. 158.
    My Toddler's Becoming a Bully11/17/2016
    17:55
  151. 159.
    Overwhelmed by a Toddler's Constant Demands, Screaming and Testing11/08/2016
    16:36
  152. 160.
    When Play Seems Too Rough11/01/2016
    12:58
  153. 161.
    Motivating Your Child10/26/2016
    16:55
  154. 162.
    The Facts About Your Kids and Screen Time (with Dr. Meghan Owenz)10/18/2016
    30:43
  155. 163.
    Too Much Jumping and Climbing in the House10/11/2016
    16:38
  156. 164.
    Stressed by a Child's Relentless Demands for Attention10/02/2016
    18:11
  157. 165.
    Should We Referee Toy Conflicts?09/26/2016
    13:33
  158. 166.
    When a Child Can't Get Her Act Together in the Morning09/16/2016
    16:08
  159. 167.
    Choosing Your Battles with a Controlling Child09/07/2016
    14:35
  160. 168.
    4-Year-Old Has Emotional, Aggressive Responses to Limits08/30/2016
    16:21
  161. 169.
    Frazzled by Baby’s Frustrated Noises08/23/2016
    14:44
  162. 170.
    When Toddlers Take Toys08/10/2016
    15:35
  163. 171.
    My Two-Year-Old Won't Behave in Class08/02/2016
    11:06
  164. 172.
    Should I Teach My Child to Say 'No'?07/26/2016
    8:14
  165. 173.
    Intense Difficulties with a Defiant, Resistant Child07/19/2016
    21:20
  166. 174.
    Am I Giving My Baby Enough Attention?07/12/2016
    15:44
  167. 175.
    Encouraging Your Baby's Independent Play07/08/2016
    22:26
  168. 176.
    When Parents Separate06/28/2016
    14:34
  169. 177.
    Help! My Daughter Has Become A Hitter And Shover06/22/2016
    12:35
  170. 178.
    Sensitive Boy Doesn't Like Hearing "No"06/07/2016
    13:14
  171. 179.
    What To Expect From Your Older Child When You're Expecting (And Thoughts About Classes For Toddlers)05/31/2016
    16:03
  172. 180.
    What To Do About Your Screeching Child05/17/2016
    9:05
  173. 181.
    Help With A Toddler Who Bites05/12/2016
    16:21
  174. 182.
    Toddler Tattoo Artist (Why Limit Creativity?)05/04/2016
    9:55
  175. 183.
    Helping Your Child Say "I'm Sorry"04/27/2016
    13:14
  176. 184.
    My Child Is Too Passive04/20/2016
    17:39
  177. 185.
    Childhood Fears04/12/2016
    12:58
  178. 186.
    Aggressive Toddler Behavior (Hitting, Biting, Spitting)04/05/2016
    15:49
  179. 187.
    Encouraging Kids To Play By Themselves03/30/2016
    19:17
  180. 188.
    Motor Development, Praise, Motivation, Emotional Health (More RIE Parenting Basics)03/22/2016
    13:34
  181. 189.
    3 RIE Parenting Basics03/15/2016
    16:59
  182. 190.
    Toilet Training Isn't Working03/09/2016
    14:11
  183. 191.
    When A Child's Hugs Aren't Welcome03/02/2016
    15:51
  184. 192.
    Hard To Feel Compassion For Unreasonable Emotions02/24/2016
    16:02
  185. 193.
    Alternatives To Time Out02/17/2016
    15:14
  186. 194.
    Sibling Conflicts (In This Case, Twins)02/10/2016
    25:15
  187. 195.
    When Toddlers And Dogs Don't Mix02/02/2016
    12:18
  188. 196.
    Dealing With Mischief After The Fact01/26/2016
    14:45
  189. 197.
    "I No Like You"01/20/2016
    13:02
  190. 198.
    Struggles With Dressing And Diaper Changes01/12/2016
    19:05
  191. 199.
    The Fuss About Crying (with Lisa Sunbury)01/07/2016
    28:47
  192. 200.
    Your Child Asks Again, And Again... And Again12/16/2015
    12:18

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