Overcoming Betrayal & Addiction

By Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst

The Overcoming Betrayal and Addiction podcast, featuring Dr. Rob Weiss and Tami VerHelst, presents a conversational Q&A style discussion drawn from listener questions about sex and porn addictions, infidelity, cheating, and hard work required to heal relationship betrayal. Dr. Rob and Tami are very good at engaging people struggling with painful life issues in a useful, respectful way. They also invite you to join them on their live weekly webinar (Mondays, 5 p.m. Pacific at https://bit.ly/DrRobandTami), where they answer questions live Dr. Rob is Chief Clinical Officer for Seeking integrity Treatment Centers. He is a 25-year licensed therapist, a PhD sexologist, and author Sex Addiction 101, Prodependence, and Out of the Doghouse, among other books. Tami is Chief Relationships Officer for Seeking Integrity LLC. Tami brings over 30 years of personal addiction knowledge, helping supply struggling individuals and couples with the resources and direction they need to heal.

  1. 1.
    Can I Take Psychedelics to Cure My Addiction?
    29:14
  2. 2.
    My Addict Still Hangs Out With His Enabler Friends
    30:15
  3. 3.
    What Do You Need to Do for Yourself?
    31:40
  4. 4.
    Why Isn’t The CSAT Doing His Job?
    29:44
  5. 5.
    If He Wants Butt Stuff, Does That Mean He’s Gay?
    27:22
  6. 6.
    Will My Addict Ever Change?
    27:08
  7. 7.
    My Betrayed Spouse Wants to Manage MY Money!
    31:42
  8. 8.
    My Addict Still Sleeps with His Ex-Wife!
    35:34
  1. 9.
    How Can I Overcome Religious Shame While Recovering From My Addiction?
    32:02
  2. 10.
    Addicts Don’t Have Addictions, They Have Intimacy Disorders
    29:14
  3. 11.
    My Addict Wants to Leave! How Can I Help Him?
    31:49
  4. 12.
    Did I Marry an Illusion of a Man or Did the Addiction Just Take Over?
    30:15
  5. 13.
    He Got Caught, Now He Feels Remorse. What’s the Deal?
    29:17
  6. 14.
    Why Do I Still Care After All the Hurt and Disrespect?
    31:39
  7. 15.
    My Husband Is in Recovery, but He’s Still a Jerk!
    31:09
  8. 16.
    In Recovery for 2 Years From Sex Addiction, but I Still Want Connection
    32:49
  9. 17.
    It’s Hard To See Anything Other Than the Hurt and Pain, but It Does Get Better
    28:33
  10. 18.
    My Parents Are Addicts and They Trigger Me. How Do I Cope?
    30:48
  11. 19.
    Addiction Is a 24/7 Process
    29:45
  12. 20.
    Prodependence vs. Codependency: A Clarification from Dr. Rob
    30:52
  13. 21.
    Rape, Childhood Neglect, and Getting Stuck in the Addiction
    36:39
  14. 22.
    My Addict Has Become Paranoid and Is Collecting Evidence Against Me
    31:28
  15. 23.
    An Addicts an Addict Until They Get Help.
    29:48
  16. 24.
    My Husband is Suicidal and in The Military. How Do I Help Him?
    27:58
  17. 25.
    He’s Still Going to Brothels, Is He Still Clean?
    32:32
  18. 26.
    How Can I Heal My Addiction?
    30:28
  19. 27.
    What Are the Stages of Healing?
    32:33
  20. 28.
    I Don’t Know Who I Want More. My Wife or My Mistress?
    27:53
  21. 29.
    Would a Therapist Ever Openly Lie to the Betrayed Spouse?
    31:10
  22. 30.
    Addicts Are Responsible for Their Own Healing. Spouses Get To Be Angry.
    30:20
  23. 31.
    I’m Obsessed with a Woman who Wants Nothing to Do with me. Help!
    28:40
  24. 32.
    You Re-Build Trust Over Time By Taking Things Slow
    30:31
  25. 33.
    Grief is a Process and so is Forgiveness.
    34:14
  26. 34.
    Is This a Sex Addiction or Does He Just Like To Hook Up?
    30:16
  27. 35.
    I’m The Only Addict In My Family. Why Me?
    29:56
  28. 36.
    He Cheated On Me, So Why Do I Still Miss That Jerk?
    31:58
  29. 37.
    My Addict Husband Resents Me, but I still Love Him.
    32:45
  30. 38.
    Therapy May End, but Your Addiction Doesn’t
    32:58
  31. 39.
    Is My ADHD the Reason Why I’m an Addict?
    28:23
  32. 40.
    My Daughter Found Out About My Addiction and Now My Family Is in Crisis
    31:50
  33. 41.
    My Addict’s Therapist Blames Me for His Wrong Doings!
    31:01
  34. 42.
    Why Does My Addict Keep Threatening Divorce?
    31:44
  35. 43.
    Can Betrayed Spouses be Addicts Too?
    32:31
  36. 44.
    Temptation is Everywhere, but You Can Manage It
    35:06
  37. 45.
    My Sex Addict has Sex with Everyone But Me
    29:31
  38. 46.
    My Addict Blames Me For His Recovery Journey
    29:08
  39. 47.
    I Want to Meet The Women My Husband Cheated on Me With
    31:01
  40. 48.
    When Is It Time To Stop Loving Your Addict and Move on?
    30:02
  41. 49.
    You Can’t Fix Your Partner. You Can Only Work on Your Addiction and Your Healing
    32:15
  42. 50.
    When Should We Tell Family About Our Addictions?
    31:27

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