Love With Intelligence

Lily Walford

We love to see the women we work with get life changing results and find loving, connected relationships; we get both inspired and excited by having the creative freedom to use our passion for psychology and behavioural change to provide the help that we ourselves once needed.

We believe that every woman deserves real, honest and genuine love, but not every woman knows how to get it. So we will be sharing our insights on how you can find undeniable love.

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3 Simple Ways To Ensure You Don't Lose Yourself Whilst Dating Or In A Relationship​ ​ Watch our training to understand three simple ways to avoid losing yourself whilst dating or whilst you are in a relationship. We shall go into these three elements: ​ ​Your identity/happiness & needs​ Your relationship vision ​ Your boundaries​ ​ Ensuring that you don’t lose yourself is so important, yet it’s a common trap that most women and men fall into which can then cause things like: ​ Self sabotage which can lead to pushing partners way ​ Co-dependency where you are living in each others pockets, this can lead to insecurity and missing out on the elements of your life which were once really important to you. ​ Resentment, where you have given your all into that relationship but feeling unfulfilled, angry and frustrated. ​ ​ ​ When you are in a healthy, loving relationship these are what you can enjoy: ​ The space to grow as an individual as well as the enjoyment of growing as a couple. We can only grow in healthy relationships with ourselves and our partners. ​ Feeling confident within yourself without seeking validation from others (including your partner). Confidence causes people to instantly become more attractive. ​ You and your partner embody the same dreams and goals for your relationship and the safe space to be yourselves whilst being open, honest and authentic with each other.​ ​ Check out The Desired Woman Training: https://bit.ly/TheDesiredWoman --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jul 14

17 min 24 sec

In this video we discuss how to get over your ex and general advice for someone struggling after a breakup.​ ​ Find out how to get over your ex and some simple tips that you can do to speed up the process.​ ​ 5 ways to get over your ex & stop thinking about them.​ ​ How to: get over your ex, a crush, or a breakup!​ ​ If you can't get over your ex, watch this! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

11 min 38 sec

Desired Woman Training: https://bit.ly/TheDesiredWoman​ Join our facebook group:https://bit.ly/LWI-Group​ ​ Highlights of training - You will learn how to: ​ ​ Understand why you attract distant and avoidant partners​ How to recognise a commitment phobe - no matter how good they are at hiding it​ What needs to happen so you can break the pattern --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

16 min 7 sec

Highlights of training - You will learn how to:​ Unmask what your subconscious patterns are​ The reasons why you are going for the same type of partners again and again​ What the main areas that influence your relationships​ ​ What happens to people who haven't realised their patterns?​ - Can end up in the same type of relationships again and again​ - You can end up self sabotaging yourself because you don’t believe you can have a loving relationship​ - Wasting more time with the wrong ones and losing hope of if the right one is out there​ - They can cause a healthy relationship to become an unhealthy one​ They continue the patterns due to unresolved issues from the past​ What happens to people who take time to learn this training ?​ - Break the patterns and able to see who is right for them so they can enjoy a healthy relationship with the right one!​ -Knowing when the self sabotaging patterns pop up, so you can make a choice on whether to act on it​ Feeling confident that you will enjoy a loving relationship in the future because of your new found clarity and awareness​ -Feeling more confident and worthy of a loving relationship​ -Feeling at peace with your past --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

17 min 53 sec

Highlights of training - You will learn how to: ​ ​ - See a major red flag that most people miss when they are online dating that could mean the difference between meeting someone who is dangerous and/or emotionally unavailable​ ​ - Know how to tap into who this person is from just a few photos so you don’t have to waste time messaging to see if they are compatible with you. ​ ​ Book a call: https://calendly.com/withintelligence/loveconsultation​ ​ The Steps​ 1) Facial Expressions ​ 2) How do they want to be seen?​ 3) Are they a narcissist or manipulative​ 4) What’s their lifestyle?​ 5) Your confirmation bias --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

14 min 8 sec

Desired Woman Training: https://bit.ly/TheDesiredWoman --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

21 min 17 sec

THE IMPORTANCE OF HEALING FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS BEFORE YOU GO AND DATE AGAIN​ - Find yourself dating the same person again and again​ - Pining over the ex despite knowing that relationship was bad/didn’t work out​ - Releasing the fear of being alone​ - The need for human connection/validation​ - Not giving yourself the chance to fully recover confidence/rejection​ Something to remember: HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT DECREASE YOURSELF WORTH/CONFIDENCE​ I was on a call the other day with a lovely lady who had gone through a break up and we’ve all been there where we feel the need to help and support the other person (even if they were the one who broke up with you) and she had mentioned how her relationship had decreased her self worth and confidence and how that was her fault and her issue to work through.​ Let me tell you how unhealthy/borderline abusive relationships work (and also how even cults work). They say small one liners that stick! ​ - Oh you’ll never meet anyone as good as me​ - Only silly people think that way – don’t be so stupid​ - Gawd you are so insecure​ Which then plays on to identity issues.​ Remember out identity and the way we see ourselves will impact on the type of relationship we have. This is why I take my clients through the Desired Woman Approach which is a blend of healing, releasing old subconscious patterns and building up the confidence to build up the life and relationship you do want. ​ This is only one of the three approaches I take my clients through but it’s so important as what happens when we don’t get this right is SELF SABOTAGE​ The types of self sabotage I tend to see is: ​ - Dating for validation​ - Reaching out to the ex for whatever reasons​ - Feeling the need to tell EVERYONE the issues and the ins and outs of what went wrong in their relationship to JUSTIFY and PROCESS what they had actually been through​ - Dating people who are wrong for them​ - Pushing the right ones away as they are too afraid to have someone close to their heart again​ - Sleeping with lots of people – To either FEEL something as they feel numb or as a punishment to themselves (LOW SELF WORTH) ​ WE CAN NOT HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IF WE ARE CREATING A RELATIONSHIP FROM AN UNHEALTHY PLACE​ When we create a relationship from a healed place – like my clients do after the “Desired Woman Approach” ​ - They are confident within themselves​ - They feel excited about dating and enjoy connecting with people​ - They have standards and hold themselves to those standards​ - They know who is right to date for them and where to meet the right one for them due to the compatibility matrix which is personalised to them. ​ - They are at peace with their past – no matter how awful it was was – shame, guilt, fear​ - They also know what a healthy relationship looks like and how to create it. ​ - They are excited for the future and have an idea of what the future looks like for them.​ ​ If you are currently stuck, then it would be great to speak with you. I’ve free’d up my calendar to speak with people who are struggling with this healing element. ​ ​ https://calendly.com/withintelligence/love-blue-print​ ​ Healing your trauma before dating again is so important because. ​ ​ Healing your trauma before dating again is so important because if you don't look at and heal the wounds you will be vulnerable to getting caught with another abuser. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

13 min 9 sec

3 Steps To Improve Your Love Life!  Click here to book a free Personalised Love Strategy Blueprint session: https://calendly.com/withintelligence/love-blue-print --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

16 min 2 sec

So you want a committed relationship?  Here's where to start....  https://bit.ly/TheDesiredWoman --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jun 23

13 min 34 sec

Website: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com Free Training on how to meet a high quality partner: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com/webinar  Emir Samardzic is 34 years old, based in Belgrade, Serbia.    He has been professional magician and hypnotist for the past 11 years.  He entered the world of behavior profiling 10 years ago, through performing magic, by learning the general psychology and body language skills.    Short after that, he entered the world of “Pick Up Artistry”, where he became an instructor and started sharing his knowledge with many different clients, in the classroom and in the field.   His experience as the PUA instructor led him even deeper into the world of profiling people and influence. It also helped him learn a lot about dating, attraction and true connection.   He continued to grow even more after that, delving much deeper into the profiling side of things, completing multiple master courses with the industry leaders from all over the world, some of which are part of this summit.   Today, Emir is a part of “Love with intelligence” as one of the coaches, helping people find true love and true connection through his decade long experience. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Mar 26

57 min 27 sec

Website: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com  Free Webinar on 5 Steps To Meet A High Quality Partner: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com/webinar  ​   Ben has been studying how to read people and all of the facets of skill that it entails for over 20 years now, it all stemmed from his obsession with Sherlock Holmes, the detective with infinite reasoning and logic with an aptitude for picking out the smallest detail of a person within seconds of meeting them.  Ben was curious as to whether this super human ability was achievable and sort to find out. Since then Ben has been consulted by the Police on a number of occasions both domestically and internationally. A global reputation built on being able to read information that others cannot. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Mar 19

1 hr 13 min

We had an amazing interview with Dr David Snyder talking about all things relationships and dating.    We dived into what it really takes to have a fantastic connected relationship.   To learn more about David Snyder check out his work here: https://www.nlppower.com/  Website: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com  Free Webinar: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com/webinar  Book Your Free Consultation Here: https://calendly.com/withintelligence/loveconsultation  Dr. David Snyder DACM  Dr of Integrated Chinese Medicine, NLP Master Practitioner, Expert in Human Influence  TOPIC: Understanding The Male & Female Minds To Create A Deeper Connection In Relationships   Dr. David Snyder DACM, Is a World-Recognized  Expert In The Field of  Specialized Human Influence Technologies, Having Personally Trained Members   of the:      - Legal,   - Law enforcement,   - Military and Intelligence   - Real Estate   - Entertainment,   - Martial Arts and Hypnosis Communities,     all over the world teaching advanced real-world applicable  mind/body technologies for peak performance, influence and persuasion, rapid Mind and Body Healing, relationships and more...      Dr. David holds a Doctor of Integrative Chinese Medicine from Pacific College of Oriental Medicine, Masters of Arts in Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine - Southern California University of Health Sciences,  Associate of Science - Business Management - Oklahoma State University and has maintained a practice in Solana Beach California where he specializes in treating physiological illness that is cause by repressed emotions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Mar 5

1 hr 19 min

We had a wonderful interview with Scott, diving into all things Psychopaths!  Scott Rouse - Body Language Expert and Analyst  TOPIC: Understanding The Mind Of A Psychopath - What To Look Out For And How To Avoid!  Scott is a behavior analyst and body language expert with a focus on healthcare. He holds multiple certificates in advanced interrogation training and has been trained along side the FBI, Secret Service, U.S. Military Intelligence, and Dept. of defense.  His extensive training, education, and practice of nonverbal communication has made Scott an expert and consultant to healthcare companies as well as law enforcement, Fortune 500 CEO’s, doctors, attorneys, executives, wealth managers, financial advisors, and entertainers.  After receiving a diagnosis of Thyroid Cancer and experiencing the rapid changes in healthcare from a patients perspective, he instantly recognized the overlooked, yet blatant, causes of patient mistrust, fear, and frustration. In other words, he found the problems that cause more lawsuits and once successful practices to fail.  Now Scott speaks to and trains healthcare professionals, showing them what these problems are and most importantly how to fix them. From your bedside manner to the way your waiting area is setup and looks, Scott covers everything science shows us that works to make patients feel more comfortable and confident in their healthcare situation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Mar 2

55 min 34 sec

How Self Image Impacts Your Life, Your Relationships & Self Sabotage www.LoveWithIntelligence.com https://krystynalennon.co.uk/ More about Krystyna Lennon Krystyna Lennon, a psychotherapist, leadership development coach and celebrity hypnotist, invites you to take back control of your mindset, habits and Life. Taking delegates on a moving journey using her own story: the loss of both parents, teenage pregnancy, homelessness and abusive relationships, all of which left her with anxiety, zero self-worth and seriously limiting beliefs. Now the UK’s answer to Tony Robbins, Krystyna is an hilarious, moving and engaging speaker – a TV star, named ‘The World’s Best Hypnotist’ by CBS. This published author shares the experiences and techniques she has honed over a period of 20 years, successfully treating herself and a host of international celebrities, producers and CEOs. Krystyna teaches you everything you need to know to programme your mind for success. Her keynotes and workshops leave her audiences inspired transformed. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Feb 18

1 hr 1 min

In this episode we interview Chris Hadnagy on relationships and dating. In particular we dive into dating scams and how they happen and how you can avoid them. Our Website www.LoveWithIntelligence.com Free training on how you can meet the right one: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com/webinar To learn more about Chris Hadnagy check out: https://www.social-engineer.com/ Check out his latest book! https://www.amazon.co.uk/Human-Hacking-Friends-Influence-People About Chris Hadnagy Christopher Hadnagy is the founder and CEO of Social-Engineer, LLC.  During Chris’ 16 years in the information security industry, he created the world’s first social engineering framework and newsletter, as well as hosted the first social engineering based podcast. Chris is also a well-known author, having written four books on social engineering. Chris’ new book, “Human Hacking: Win Friends, Influence People and Leave Them Better Off for Having Met You”, will be available January 5, 2021. Christopher Hadnagy is an Adjunct Professor of Social Engineering for the University of Arizona’s NSA designated Center of Academic Excellence in Cyber Operations (CAE-CO). He also lectures and teaches about social engineering around the globe. Moreover, he’s been invited to speak at the Pentagon, as well as other high secure facilities.  Additionally, as the creator of the world’s first Social Engineering Capture the Flag (SECTF), Chris leads the way in educating people on this serious threat. Chris works with some of the world’s leaders in scientific research for the purpose of acquiring a deeper understanding of social engineering. Notably, Chris authored a book with Dr. Paul Ekman regarding the use of nonverbal communication by social engineers. Chris is certified as an Offensive Security Certified Professional (OSCP) as well as an Offensive Security Wireless Professional (OSWP).  He is also the creator of the Social Engineering Pentest Professional (SEPP) and Master’s Level Social Engineering (MLSE) Certifications. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Feb 15

1 hr 4 min

We had an amazing interview with Mark Bowden talking about all things relationships and dating.   We dived into making that great first impression, understanding if you can really be authentic during that first date, what it really takes to have a fantastic connected relationship.  To learn more about Mark Bowden check out his work here: https://truthplane.com/ Website: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com  Free Webinar on how to meet the right one: www.LoveWithIntelligence.com/webinar  Book Your Free Consultation Here: https://calendly.com/withintelligence/loveconsultation More about Mark Bowden Voted the #1 Body Language Professional in the world for two years running, Mark Bowden is passionate about giving your audience the most influential and persuasive communication techniques to stand out, win trust, and gain credibility every time they speak. Inspiring, energetic, engaging, and entirely entertaining, Mark’s memorable talks and training programs not only educate but have proven life-changing in helping people and organizations grow across all industries and sectors. Mark’s work is consistently invaluable to sales and leadership teams, CEOs of Fortune 500 companies, and prime ministers of G7 powers. His highly acclaimed TEDx talk has reached millions of people, and he has presented to many of the biggest, coolest, and most innovative organizations in the world, including Shopify, Dell, Viacom, RBC, Fidelity, Amex, Unilever, Daimler, Microsoft, Toyota, VW, Samsung, KPMG, GSK, Walmart, Nestle, and even Real Madrid. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Feb 11

1 hr 9 min

In this episode Lily Walford and Jonam Ross share their insights on real love. With all the books, tv programs and films that portray a romanticised view of love which can make even the most toxic relationships look acceptable, we want to share with you what real love really is and what the real qualities are that make a healthy and loving relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Jan 8

24 min 35 sec

We are so excited to start 2021 off with our new series "His & Her's Point Of View". In this episode we talk about ways to improve your love life in 2021 and how you can find undeniable love that lasts. www.LoveWithIntelligence.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

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Jan 1

19 min 58 sec

Can you believe 2020 is almost over.  We have something exciting to share with you - check out the first video of the 5 part series here of how to achieve your goal of enjoying undeniable love that lasts. Click here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Dec 2020

5 min 47 sec

Our Exclusive Strategy For Single Professionals To End Up In Relationship - Here's a link to book your free blueprint strategy for love  https://www.lovewithintelligence.com/Love-Blue-Print-Consultation --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Dec 2020

13 min 10 sec

Everyone is seeking commitment in a relationship. Commitment embodies trust, respect, honesty and love. So how is commitment made? How can you attract a partner who will be committed to the relationship as much as you are? https://calendly.com/withintelligence/loveconsultation --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Dec 2020

11 min 1 sec

There is no denying that intimacy is the blood line to any relationship.  Without intimacy the relationship never begins. With intimacy a relationship never ends. So what makes up intimacy and how can you cultivate intimacy with your current or future partner? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Dec 2020

16 min 12 sec

There's no denying that my love life has had it's ups and downs. I'm super grateful to have a relationship filled with unconditional love where we are both seen and loved for who we are. It wasn't always like that for me though, from abusive relationship, to narcissistic relationships and I was also stalked for five years  - I had a lot to learn on how to find real love and what real love is all about. www.LoveWithIntelligence.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Dec 2020

37 min 4 sec

Everyone wants a committed relationship where they are loved unconditionally, so how can you tell from the beginning that you are in a relationship that can truly provide that? There is nothing worse than investing precious time, emotions and energy into a relationship that isn't going anywhere. Listen to this episode to find out what you need to watch out for to know if you have met someone who is ready to commit fully to you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Dec 2020

12 min 38 sec

In this episode we are going into the issues of online dating and what you can do to improve your chances of meeting the right one online. We also are sharing an amazing announcement that we will share with you at the end of this episode.  Here's how you can apply www.lovewithintelligence.com/matchmaking --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Nov 2020

10 min 58 sec

No one likes to be lied to. It undermines your self-worth and insults your intelligence. In relationships and dating, the stakes around truth and honesty are even higher. But how can you tell if a person is telling you the truth? First, ignore the pop psychology that says he’s lying if he looks in a particular direction. There is no single sign that says someone is lying. Even lie detectors aren’t always effective at spotting deception. Instead, people will display a series of cues when they aren’t telling the truth. These can be verbal (spoken) and non-verbal (body language). When these cues happen together, it's called a cluster. Someone can be nervous and display one of these cues even when they’re telling the truth. So spotting a cluster—or three or more cues—is a more accurate way to answer the question “Is he lying?” Let’s see what the cues are. For more information check out our website www.LoveWithIntelligence.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Nov 2020

20 min 35 sec

Ever felt disconnected in relationships or felt like something was missing? Then check out this episode, as it's more than likely you were missing intimacy. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Nov 2020

13 min 30 sec

Dating has certainly been interesting in 2020. Do you really have to put your love life on hold, or is there a way that you can still meet the partner that you can enjoy making life long memories with? Here are my 5 tips! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Nov 2020

12 min 52 sec

With so many blogs and videos out on how to spot a narcissist, there's nothing out there to disarm a narcissist! Why? Because most people don't know how. This is one of the many reasons why we partnered up with a world leader in behavioural profiling to understand the narcissistic mind and to provide you with the advantage when you encounter a narcissist. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

18 min 19 sec

Loved interviewing my partner Jonam Ross behavioural profiler, hypnotist and nlp master practitioner on what it takes to have a healthy, loving and genuine relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

47 min 32 sec

Only when you understand trauma and the way narcissistic relationships work is when you can give yourself the tools to heal. In this episode we give you the awareness you need to make the choice to heal and to find passion within your life again. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

19 min 23 sec

We are never taught how to heal from a break up. Yet it can be a traumatic event, think about it. In most circumstances you are uprooting your life and its changed forever in a few short moments. Learn how you can heal now. www.lovewithintelligence.com/overcoming-trauma-workshop --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

16 min 33 sec

What are boundaries? How can you set them? How can I benefit from them? Plus the importance of them when it comes to growing as an individual and as growing as a couple too. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

12 min 57 sec

No one ever talks about this but its real!!! If you are successful and looking for love, you'll notice these 5 challenges for sure. We will go through what to do about it! Check out our website for your free guide: 10 Ways Successful Women Find Real, Honest & Genuine Love - Fast! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

19 min 59 sec

Trauma has been a hot topic within the industry. In this episode we will be talking about what trauma is and how you can release that in an effective way. www.lovewithintelligence.com/overcoming-trauma-workshop --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

13 min 8 sec

In this episode we uncover what makes a compatible relationship and that elements are important to look at within yourself. We go deep into beliefs, values and even influencing aspects of our parents relationship. Check out our free guide "10 Ways For Successful Women To Improve Their Chances Of Elegantly Finding Mr Right, Fast" https://www.lovewithintelligence.com/Free-Guide --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lovewithintelligence/message

Oct 2020

23 min 51 sec

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Oct 2020

39 sec