Where Do We Go From Here

By Devi Abraham & Jessica Van Der Wyngaard

Do you wonder what comes after purity culture? Do conservatives think you're too progressive while progressives think you're too conservative? Are you frustrated by the simplistic way the church spoke about sexuality and humanity? We untangle sex, self, and community for a new generation of Christians through conversations that give you the tools you need to develop your own ideas to help you, your community, and your church live a wholehearted life exactly where you are today. Sound theological framing and psychological insights shape our conversations with thought leaders in their fields. And you will leave equipped and empowered to live your life. Leave purity culture behind, save what matters. Together, let's rebuild life and faith with Jesus at the center so you can figure out where will you go from here? For more information, check out www.wheredowegopod.com.

  1. 1.
    81: On Premarital Sex: What Are The Rules When There Are No Rules?
    1:12:50
  2. 2.
    80: Masculinity Needs Definitions
    56:31
  3. 3.
    BONUS: Reflections on Christian Celebrity After 'I Survived I Kissed Dating Goodbye'
    1:02:09
  4. 4.
    BONUS: Mars Hill, Mark Driscoll, and the Pollution of Our Sexual Imaginations
    1:00:48
  5. 5.
    79: "Causing Some Good Trouble"
    39:24
  6. 6.
    78: We Can't 'Love the Sinner and Hate the Sin'
    51:15
  7. 7.
    Taking a break!
    1:01
  8. 8.
    77: "I'm Afraid of Making Mistakes"
    49:23
  1. 9.
    76: Modesty Was The Gateway Drug To Purity Culture
    47:45
  2. 10.
    75: "I'm Queer And In The Church"
    1:01:14
  3. 11.
    74: The Troubled History of Manufactured Masculinity in American Evangelicalism
    1:00:55
  4. 12.
    73: Obligation Sex and the Other Problems with Christian Sex Books
    1:16:58
  5. 13.
    72: The Truths & Myths of Dating a Non-Christian
    1:14:21
  6. 14.
    71: "They Taught Me How To Be A Good Girl But Not How To Be A Woman"
    45:37
  7. 15.
    70: 3 Mistakes Christians Make When Reading the Bible
    53:30
  8. 16.
    69: The Big One About Consent
    45:08
  9. 17.
    68: Why You Need To Watch 'Promising Young Woman'
    1:01:41
  10. 18.
    67: Where Did Jenna Go From Here?
    36:33
  11. 19.
    66: Relationships & Attachment Triggers with Krispin Mayfield
    46:41
  12. 20.
    65: Is Your Love Preoccupied, Avoidant, or Disorganized?
    56:13
  13. 21.
    64: 'Biblical' Womanhood Was Always Cultural Womanhood With Professor Beth Allison Barr
    50:24
  14. 22.
    63: What To Do When #MeToo Is In The News?
    52:07
  15. 23.
    62: Where Did Julia Go From Here?
    37:56
  16. 24.
    61: What Does the Bible Really Say
    47:46
  17. 25.
    60: First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then What?
    50:32
  18. 26.
    59: Does The Movie 'Never Been Kissed' Hold Up?
    49:04
  19. 27.
    58: Where Did Amy Go From Here?
    39:25
  20. 28.
    57: An Expansive Vision for Human Sexuality with Debra Hirsch
    50:50
  21. 29.
    BONUS: An Update on Ravi Zacharias
    22:04
  22. 30.
    56: What Breaks Us And Why Sharing Helps With Laura Tremaine
    44:22
  23. 31.
    55: Galentines and the Celebration of Friendship in a Romance World
    36:45
  24. 32.
    54: Where Did Jason Go From Here?
    35:24
  25. 33.
    53: What Makes Sex Good with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
    51:27
  26. 34.
    52: Parenting and Re-parenting Without Sexual Shame with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
    52:25
  27. 35.
    51: Ravi Zacharias Update, Love Actually and More!
    49:09
  28. 36.
    50: Say goodbye to those "heroes"
    47:16
  29. 37.
    49: Sex and Agency
    43:10
  30. 38.
    48: When You're Alone For The Holidays
    56:33
  31. 39.
    47: Finding Common Ground on Sex, family, & Faith
    49:03
  32. 40.
    46: There's more to Sex Than 'Purity' & 'Virginity'
    52:30
  33. 41.
    45: Taylor Swift From Love Story To Exile
    1:00:52
  34. 42.
    44: Untangling Sexual Ethics Without Religion
    43:22
  35. 43.
    43: Rebuilding Sexual Ethics After Purity Culture
    52:12
  36. 44.
    42: How Can We Have a Better Conversation About Abortion?
    47:11
  37. 45.
    41: Do We Still Have a Christian Dating Problem?
    1:02:41
  38. 46.
    40: Christians break up too
    46:33
  39. 47.
    39: Courage and Conviction in the Life of Josephine Butler
    47:46
  40. 48.
    38: Pelvic Health After Purity Culture
    40:42
  41. 49.
    Taking A Break
    1:00
  42. 50.
    37: It's Queer, Not "Same-Sex Attracted"
    44:33

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