The Road to Self Love

Paul Fishman

Join Self Love Coach, Paul Fishman, and his guests literally and figuratively on the road to self love. You can expect candid conversation about life, self love and a road trip game or two!

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Want the perfect accounting service for your business? Check out Collective Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today on the road to self love, we talk to the one and only Ashley Wray. She is a mindfulness coach and helps you connect to your purpose, potential, your highest self and she is the founder of the Mala Collective. This episode is all about learning how to trust yourself, to overcome your self doubt and step into your highest self. So, if you are going through a big transition period in your life and are ready to sail your way through it, get buckled up because you are in for a treat! Apply for The Self Love Diet today  EPISODE LINKS (4:14) - Who is Ashley Wray? (6:34) - Ashley’s Business Story (9:24) - Self Trust and Surrender (13:45) - First Step towards trusting yourself (15:57) - The only person holding you accountable is YOU (18:03) - Road Trip Game #1 (29:12) - Mentally handling the process of raising funds for your business. (36:35) -  What does Self Love Means to You? EPISODE LINKS -  Get your Mala from the Mala Collective here Reach out to Ashley on IG - @ashley_wray Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love

Nov 23

46 min 32 sec

oh hey Self Lovers! After lots of feedback and requests, we launched a Patreon and it's so exciting! I'm calling it The Road to Self Love Carpool and I want you to join us. check it out at www.patreon.com/paulfishman Today's solocast is all about boundaries and some little know mistakes you might be making when setting them. This audio was taken from a recent call inside The Self Love Diet my transformative group coaching program. I love you and can't wait to hear from you on IG @paulfishman  

Nov 18

26 min 18 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today on this virtual road to self love, we’re joined by my very special friend Becca Piastrelli.  She is the author of the book Root & Ritual which is a beautifully illustrated guide for connecting with the earth, your ancestors, and your communities as you come home to your whole self. In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of belonging and the journey of courageous reconnection where we explore what it means to belong to the earth, to yourself, to who and what you come from, and in community.  Join the Family constellation retreat, December 10th - 12th in San Diego here. EPISODE LINKS 7:52 - Who is Becca Piastrelli? 12:12 - Becca’s definition of belonging  19:23 - a journey of belonging 28:01 - Becca's baby and parenting 29:42 - Netflix Series 33:00 - The Fear of Coming to the Table 38:07 - Appropriation 41:34 - Appreciation 46:57 - Credit to the Original Artist 55:48 - Road Trip Game #1 1:06:25 - Becca's Book Details   EPISODE LINKS -  Grab your copy of the Root & Ritual here or at your local book stores. Becca’s IG - @beccapiastrelli Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love

Nov 16

1 hr 12 min

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today we are joined by the founder of Raw Beauty Co., Erin Treloar. Her company is driven to help women live from a place of self-love and become their most authentic selves.  This episode is full of us having relatable and vulnerable conversations around the ups and downs of being an entrepreneur, what to and what not to share online, healing your relationship with money, and of course coming home to yourself.   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (4:30) - What makes Erin, ‘Erin’? (5:44) - Origin story (12:54) - Coming home to yourself (16:10) - Erin’s Self-love journey as a wellness coach (30:06) - road trip game #1 (33:11) - Having relatable & vulnerable conversations about money (55:20) - What does self-love mean to you (57:38) - Where can people find you   EPISODE LINKS  If you're #obsessed with Erin, checkout her IG - @rawbeautytalks Checkout her website - https://www.rawbeauty.co/ Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love

Nov 9

1 hr 1 min

oh hey Self Lovers! The last 18 months of my life have been some of the hardest I have ever had to grow through and guess what? I am getting vulnerable again... but real talk, this is the most vulnerable I've ever been on the show. I can't wait for you to snag all the juicy gems from this episode and I cry at the end so that's cute too. I love you! let connect @paulfishman on IG @paul.fishman on tiktok PaulFishman on YouTube www.paulfishman.love on the world wide web

Nov 4

51 min 38 sec

If you want to be in community and are excited to go on a deeply transformative healing journey, Join us for the ancestral constellation retreat from December 10th - 12th in San Diego.   Oh hey, Self Lovers!  Today we are joined by grandmother Sarah who has been healing generational wounds since the last 15 years using the power of ancestral constellation.  In this episode we get to see the healing work I’ve been doing to become the most empowered version of myself and how grandmother Sarah has played such an important role in that. We also try to shed some light on how far back your traumas go and how it’s not your fault that you have them, however it is your responsibility to heal them. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (6:26) - Who is Sarah? And what get’s her out of bed? (8:37) - The true meaning of healing (11:50) - Sarah’s origin story  (17:18) - ancestral constellation  (28:42) - My experience in ancestral constellation  (40:12) - We are not really strangers  (42:38) - How can you connect with Sarah (45:32) - What does self love mean to you  (48:36) - last words + outro  EPISODE LINKS  If you want to work with Sarah, checkout her website here Click here to join the village green  Sarah’s instagram - @grandmother_sarah Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love

Nov 2

51 min 54 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers!  Today on the road we are joined by the one and only Stevie Wright. Stevie is an embodiment coach & breathwork guide, she helps people quantum leap with somatic & subconscious practices. This episode is the perfect amalgamation of super fun songwriting games and having deep conversations around how to feel safe to receive, how to effortlessly progress in life and call in more abundance and so much more.  Do you want a sacred space where you can feel welcomed and supported? Join Self52! EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (3:45) - Intro + being receptive (5:38) - How did Stevie discover what she really likes  (7:48) - The breath channel and the breathwork community (11:29) - How did Stevie vision everything that happened (15:21) - Resistance in Stevie’s life (22:54) - Songwriting game (31:18) - What are you going/growing through now? (41:53) - Road trip game #2 (50:01) - Fuck, marry, kill EPISODE LINKS  If you are just casually obsessed with Stevie, find her on instagram - @stevielwright_ Join the breath channel here. Want to work with her 1:1 for a whole year? Click here Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love

Oct 26

54 min 10 sec

oh hey, Self Lovers! Today I invited my husband Richard to take the interviewers seat and ask me all the questions. It's a super vulnerable episode because he asks some really hard questions and I'm really excited for you to listen. Apply for the new 12 month Self Love Diet program at https://paulfishman.love/selflovediet

Oct 21

48 min 43 sec

Do you want a sacred space where you feel welcomed and supported? Join Self52!  Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today on the virtual road we’re joined by Samantha Belle who in her own words is a kaleidoscope. She is an actor & helps creatives release imposter syndrome + overwhelm. She has been on a beautiful and brave journey of self-exploration in the past few years & shares valuable lessons that she has learned with us! If you looking for  Powerful ways to reconnect  with your truest self Tangible tools for removing self-sabotage from your life Help with understanding your insecurities from your childhood Get yourself buckled up because you are absolutely going to love this episode! EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (0:00) - Intro + origin story of her evolution  (16:30) - What did you learn from your parent's divorce? (22:15) - Self sabotage & practical ways of removing it (35:23) - road trip game #1 & understanding Self inflicted trauma (50:50) - fuck marry kill (55:30) - outro EPISODE LINKS  The best way to reach Samantha is via Instagram - @its_samanthabelle Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love  

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Oct 19

57 min 28 sec

Do you want a sacred space where you feel welcomed and supported? Join Self52! Oh hey, Self Lovers! This episode is all about how spending time with your best friends and being surrounded by the right community should be of the highest priority for us self lovers. We are joined by Bailey Stanworth and Jaccirai, the two incredible hosts of What day is it? podcast. Our conversation today is just like 3 best friends hanging out in the car and talking about everything from their backstories and how they ended up hosting a very successful podcast together to sharing vulnerable moments about unhealed traumas. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (0:00) - Intro + a very special announcement  (9:22) - Diving into the backstories of Bailey & Jaci (16:50) - Working with a business partner who is also your friend   (26:20) - Playing we’re not really strangers  (41:27) - What does self love mean to you? (42:53) - Fuck marry kill (45:42) - Outro EPISODE LINKS Listen to What day is it? podcast Instagram- Podcast - @whatdayistitpodcast Bailey - @baileyjst Jacci - @jaccirai DM me on instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love Text: 619-202-8353  

Oct 12

47 min 35 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! We're getting vulnerable today- like, pit in my stomach am I actually publishing this, vulnerable. We chat taking your power back, what's going on behind the scenes of my business, comparison and so much more. come say hi on IG @paulfishman check out my website www.paulfishman.love

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Oct 7

30 min 31 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today we’re joined by Madelyn Moon! She is a walking permission slip, a soul igniter and helps humans turn their “drama” into “dharma” so they can have deep love and intimacy.  This episode is for you if you struggle with- Slowing down in life Giving yourself the permission to evolve.  Making yourself wrong for having emotions. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (4:10) - Madelyn’s back story and how to navigate through negative things in life (12:41) - What is masculine & feminine energy? (22:19) - How to notice if you are in balance with your masculine & feminine (27:09) - Road trip game #1 (35:23) - How to give yourself permission to evolve (39:58) - What does self love mean to you? If you are just casually obsessed with Madelyn, you can find her at- Instagram: @madelynmoon Website: https://maddymoon.com/ I want you to know that you are not a burden at all and I would love to help you with your self-love journey so DM me on Instagram: @PaulFishman Youtube: Paul Fishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love Text: 619-202-8353 Apply for The Self Love Diet today 

Oct 5

47 min 36 sec

Oh hey Self Lovers, today we're talking about the difference between being a victim and living in victimhood. Plus I give you my 3 step process for healing trauma. DM me on Instagram @paulfishman or email me at hi@paulfishman.love if you want to work together 1:1 Apply for The Self Love Diet

Sep 30

25 min 16 sec

oh hey, Self Lovers, today I'm joined by Amanda Hainline, an author and emotional empowerment coach. Today we chat about how to ditch the negative self-talk, Self Love for Empaths, and Amanda's journey into emotional resiliency. Timestamps: 2:35 - Amanda's spiritual awaking and back story. 12:24 - Being aware of negative self-talk 17:47 - How to ditch the negative self-talk 32:36 - the story of how to feel better in 5 mins 38:42 - Trauma reframed! 41:45 - road trip game #1 50:10 - What does self-love mean to you? Get Amanda's new book Feel Better in Five Minutes Connect with Amanda Instagram: @akhainline Website: https://www.amandahainline.com/ Connect with Paul: Instagram: @paulfishman website: paulfishman.love

Sep 28

54 min 48 sec

Oh hey Self Lovers! Today's episode of Self Love Solocasts is a very important one. We are diving deep into the "F Word" and that word is Failure! If you struggle doing the things you want to do because you're scared to fail If you hold yourself back because you're worried what other's will think of you If you so badly want things that you don't feel worthy of This episode is for you! --- Apply for The Self Love Diet: www.paulfishman.love/selflovediet Come hang out with me: Instagram @paulfishman tiktok @paul.fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman

Sep 23

22 min 37 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today we're joined by Audrey Christensen, a full-time textile artist and visionary. Just a few months ago Audrey was forced to quit her job and leap headfirst into the career she had always dreamt of! Hear Audrey's story, learn all about the magic that happened when she trusted herself, what it means to step fully into your dreams and how to move through the fear of failure. Watch the interview on YouTube Follow Audrey everywhere @heybefab visit her website: heybefab.com Apply for The Self Love Diet today  Follow Paul @paulfishman

Sep 21

51 min 15 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers!  We're back at it again with ANOTHER repeat guest! That makes two weeks in a row of featuring people I HAD to have another road trip with!  This week, allow me to introduce the very vibrant Ms. Tracy Duhs (pronounced Dues, not like Duh).  Tracy is a fellow podcaster, a single mom, and an expert in all things hydration. She also has SO. MANY words of wisdom when it comes to relationships! The second half of our conversation revolves entirely around that subject, so listen to this one, hard.  EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!  (7:21) Combating Perfectionism (22:26) Nature's Medicine (38:47) Your Responsibility to Yourself EPISODE LINKS! Find Tracy Online! Website: TracyDuhs.Com Instagram: @TracyDuhs Listen to Tracy's Podcast, Hydrate! Pre-Order Hydrate, Tracy's Book! Don't forget to tag Tracy and I on Instagram to let us know YOUR response to our Self Reflection card!  Find Me Online! DM me on Instagram: @PaulFishman to let me know how else I can support you!  TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love Text: 619-202-8353

Sep 14

1 hr 10 min

Self Lovers! Today we're getting real about getting present in your life. I'm giving you real-life examples around how I got a present, easy things to do and we'll also chat about why being present is so hard for so many of us. Apply for The Self Love Diet Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman youtube: Paul Fishman text "Self Love" to 619-202-8353  

Sep 9

27 min 26 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers!  This week I am SO excited to bring you episode TWO with my stunning, fabulous, profound friend, Loralei Bayette!  Loralei joined me on the road back in January, when we talked about why manifestation isn't working for you. Now, she is back to discuss getting connected and centered so that you can be the best, most authentic version of yourself.  I love all of my conversations with Loralei, so I can't wait to share her with you again!    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!  (7:18) Healing Before Contributing (15:12) The First Step in Getting to Know Yourself (42:55) Driven by Trauma   EPISODE LINKS!  Go say hi to Loralei on her Instagram! @LoraleiBayette ...and when you're done, come say hi to ME on my Instagram! @PaulFishman Listen to Loralei's Last Episode! Find Me On... TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love Text: 619-202-8353

Sep 7

58 min 9 sec

Self Lovers! Get your tissues because we are about to get emotional on the road today. I'm joined by 3 of my Self Love Diet clients for a conversation about how self-love changed their lives. Hear from Beth who graduated nearly 4 years ago, Lindsay who just graduated, and Lisa who brought us to tears with her experience inside the program. Apply to join The Self Love Diet today at paulfishman.love/selflovediet

Sep 2

38 min 53 sec

  Self lovers! I’m joined by Monica Berg on the road to chat all things relationships and change.   Monica is an international speaker, spiritual thought leader, and author of Fear is Not an Option and Rethink Love and host of the Spiritually Hungry podcast.   Follow Monica on IG: @monicaberg74   Follow Paul: @paulfishman Tiktok: @paul.Fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman Self Love Texts: 619.202.8353

Aug 31

47 min

Welcome, Self Lover! Or, if it’s not your first time – Welcome back! This week I get to share my conversation with the stunningly authentic Chinae Alexander! We were able to connect on the socially distanced road to talk all things relationships, vulnerability, and the investment of self work. Chinae is my newest best friend, and one of the few who is NOT afraid to be real online – a trait that I admire. She is also a podcaster, a social entrepreneur, and a self described body confidence aficianado.  I hope Chinae inspires you to show up in your truth with no (or, maybe less) fear. Enjoy!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!   (11:50) Getting Vulnerable Online (18:50) Real Relationships (28:00) Investing in Your Self   EPISODE LINKS! Find Chinae Online! Website: ChinaeAlexander.Com Instagram: @ChinaeAlexander Podcastagram: @PressSendPodcast Chinae is so beautifully, authentically herself – if you were inspired by her story, and would like to apply for the Self Love Diet here!   Find Me Online! Instagram: @PaulFishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love Text: 619-202-8353

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Aug 24

52 min 53 sec

oh Hey Self Lover! Today I am taking you on a journey through the past 7 months and how I healed my rare skin disorder rapidly with very little medical intervention. You can apply these tools to your own healing journey regardless of what you're healing- emotional, physical or spiritual wounds. Apply for The *FREE* Own Your Authenticity Masterclass Apply for The Self Love Diet PhSalts for Restoring Skin The Breath Channel (use code BC25 for $5 off your membership) IG @paulfishman links may include affiliate commissions

Aug 19

43 min 23 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! This week, I get to introduce you to the (self proclaimed) LOUD Pia Baroncini! Pia wears many hats, but just to name a few: Mother Podcaster Clothing Designer Italian Food Importer I could go on, but I like to keep these *somewhat* short and sweet. Pia joins me on the virtual road this week to discuss balancing the work/parent/wife life, how her and her beautiful husband have decided to parent, her journey in starting her brand, and how relationships are a lot like investing in a business. If you take anything from this episode, I hope that you especially tune in to our discussion about her unique (but oh, so insightful) view on relationships – it truly inspired me, and I hope you feel the same!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!   (7:34) How Does Pia Balance all of the Things? (15:20) SO, Parenting is Fun…! (29:16) Bestie, Your Relationship Does NOT Define You (51:08) Advice for Someone Starting Their Brand   EPISODE LINKS! Find Pia Online! Website: PiaBaroncini.Com Instagram: @PiaBaroncini Clothing Line: @GhiaiaCashmere Olive Oil: @BaronciniImportAndCo Pia is so beautifully, authentically herself – if you were inspired by her story, and would like to apply to join the Own Your Own Authenticity Masterclass, visit me here – OR if you feel so inclined, you can commit to a longer journey, and you can apply for the Self Love Diet here!   Find Me Online! Instagram: @PaulFishman TikTok: @Paul.Fishman Website: PaulFishman.Love Text: 619-202-8353

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Aug 17

1 hr 3 min

if you struggle asking for help this episode is for you! Take my Self Love Trip Survey: https://paulf.love/tripsurvey Apply for The Self Love "Diet": https://paulfishman.love/selflovediet Instagram: @paulfishman Tiktok: @paul.fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman

Aug 12

19 min 11 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! This week we sit down with my friend Pamela Gold – she is a mother, an author, a resident of NYC, and many other things! Pamela has been described as a modern-day Yoda (for real - check out the reviews on her website) because she has so many useful tools for you to implement in your day to day, and she is passionate about helping others become fulfilled. In this new episode we talk about: (9:20) How Pamela discovered her authenticity (15:17) Being Excited about the Unknown (39:27) The Opportunity of Being Responsible (51:00) How is Gratitude a Ladder?   EPISODE LINKS! Find Pamela Online! Website: PamelaGold.Com Instagram: @PamelaPGold  Follow Paul Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman text your questions to: 619-212-8353 If you’d like to get to know and embrace the authentic version of you, consider applying for my program, The Self Love Diet! I dedicate an entire module of my course to self awareness, because I believe that is the foundation to YOUR Road to Self Love!

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Aug 10

1 hr 13 min

oh hey Self Lovers! This week I'm sharing a recent IG Live where we talk about ditching the need for your parent's approval. Make sure to follow me on IG @paulfishman so you don't miss the next live session. apply for the self love "diet" at paulfishman.love/selflovediet

Aug 5

47 min 46 sec

Self Lovers! Kenzie Elizabeth joins us on the road today to chat all things transitioning from college to "the real world". Kenzie is a lifestyle YouTuber, podcast host, and influencer who got her start while in school. In this jam-packed episode we chat: Growing up in the spotlight Dealing with anxiety Therapy stigmas Evolving and getting judgement for it and so much more! Follow Kenzie on Instagram and YouTube and see if you can find me in one of her recent vlogs: @kenzieelizabeth Listen to her podcast ILYSM: I'm an upcoming guest! Follow Paul Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman text your questions to: 619-212-8353 APPLY FOR THE SELF LOVE "DIET": https://paulfishman.love/selflovediet    

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Aug 3

36 min 53 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today on the show we're chatting about all things intention setting, especially when it comes to your self-love journey. In this episode, I dive deep into the difference between setting intentions for yourself vs setting intentions for others, why you must set intentions, and some major mistakes I see my clients make prior to working with me. Apply for the Self Love Diet at paulfishman.love/selflovediet

Jul 29

30 min 53 sec

oh hey, Self Lovers! I'm joined this week by Deborah Hanekamp aka Mama Medicine. In this episode, Deborah opens up about her childhood trauma and how she managed to heal herself by choosing to heal others. Connect with Deborah Instagram: @mamamedicine Join Space by Mama Medicine Buy her Book: Ritual Baths Connect with Paul Instagram: @paulfishman TikTok: @paul.fishman Website: paulfishman.love

Jul 27

51 min 40 sec

Oh hey, Self Lover! A few weeks ago my client Kirsey joined me in San Diego for a VIP weekend and we had a quick chat while on our way to the airport about self-trust and surrender. Watch the entire weekend on my YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/Quk_Um1TmaQ Want to win a VIP weekend with me? Everyone who joins The Self Love Diet has the opportunity to win a 1:1 VIP Weekend with me. Apply today -> https://paulfishman.love/selflovediet connect with Paul Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman text me: 619.202.8353

Jul 22

11 min 39 sec

Oh hello there, Self Lover! This week I am so excited to bring you the wonderful Dr. Margie Warrell! Dr. Margie is an adventurous, brave hearted, Australian native who is passionate about making the most out of her one and only precious life, while simultaneously guiding others to do the same. We met on the virtual road to discuss such things as Self awareness Authenticity Mindfulness Flawsomeness But wait – what does it even mean to be flawesome? Listen to find out!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS (5:30) How to Embrace who you REALLY are (11:35) How to Know if you’re the Authentic Version of Yourself (20:08) Your Relationship with Control   EPISODE LINKS Find Dr. Margie Online! Website: MargieWarrell.Com Shop Her Books!  Instagram & Twitter: @MargieWarrell  Facebook! If you’d like to get to know and embrace the authentic version of you, consider applying for my program, The Self Love Diet! I dedicate an entire module of my course to self awareness, because I believe that is the foundation to YOUR Road to Self Love! For 10% off of your first month of Better Help Online Counseling, visit TryBetterHelp.Com/RoadToSelfLove Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353

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Jul 20

43 min 54 sec

Oh hey Self Lovers! This week's solocast is all about Validation. I break down the difference between external and internal validation, what to do if you feel like you need other people's validation to do anything and how to start living your life for you. APPLY FOR THE SELF LOVE DIET: www.paulfishman.love/selflovediet Connect with Paul: Instagram @paulfishman tiktok @paul.fishman text me: 619-202-8353 website: paulfishman.love

Jul 15

17 min 48 sec

Hello, my sweet Self Lover! Before we jump in, I wanted to let you know that today’s episode could be triggering, as we will be discussing teen suicide. If you choose not to listen, I completely understand, and I will see you next week. Take care of you. This episode is heavy, raw, and real. Our guest this week is Jason Reid – he is an entrepreneur who coaches CEOs and writes books. But, three years ago his world was forever changed with the loss of his youngest son, Ryan, to suicide. Since then, Jason has made it his life’s mission to educate other parents on how they can be a better advocate for their children’s mental health – because it is JUST as important as their physical health. If you feel called to, please share this episode with someone who may benefit from hearing Jason’s story. If you or anyone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, please call 1-800-273-8255. Or, visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org – there is a chat feature available, in case you are not comfortable speaking with someone over the phone. You are not alone.   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS (10:29) The Signs (14:02) Can you Protect Your Kids 100%? (21:40 / 46:00) Tips for Having the Hard Talks (40:49) Forgiveness   EPISODE LINKS Visit Jason’s Website: ChooseLife.Org Watch “Tell My Story” For 10% off of your first month of Better Help Online Counseling, visit TryBetterHelp.Com/RoadToSelfLove Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353    

Jul 13

1 hr 12 min

oh hey self lovers! This episode is inspired by a conversation that went down in my DMs and I am so excited to be having it here on the show! Today we chat all things TRUST -how to trust yourself -how to trust others -Is there a difference between self trust and intuition and so much more! Apply for The Self Love Diet: www.paulfishman.love/selflovediet connect with Paul IG: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman youtube: Paul Fishman text me: 619-202-8353

Jul 8

27 min 27 sec

Happy July, Self Lover! It’s officially summer, officially over halfway through 2021, and I officially get to share this episode with my good friend, Vienna Farlow, aka the Cuntsultant! Did you cringe at her title? Fear not, Self Lover. My guest this week is here to drop some knowledge about your vagina, or, someone you love’s vagina! Western culture has sexualized the vagina, but it’s made for so much more than just sex! In fact – did you know that it’s actually more of an exit than an entrance? True Story. Listen on! I learned so much from my conversation with Vienna – I hope this is just as informative for you!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!    (10:45) Why are we so afraid of the vagina? (22:58) What does Vienna wish we knew about the vagina? (36:50) The stigma around the vagina/how to get to know yourself (58:44) The great coconut milk debate   EPISODE LINKS! Connect with Vienna on her Website or her Instagram!   Books mentioned in this episode: Sex for One  Petals Do Less Word Slut Come As You Are Visit SujaJuice.com and use the code SELFLOVE for 15% off of your next cleanse or function shot pack! Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353  

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Jul 6

1 hr 22 min

Oh Hey Self Lovers! This cute little episode is all about ditching the one thing that is standing in the way of your dreams. My friend just called me out about this and I'm happy I get to share it with you! Send me a DM with your dreams on Instagram! Apply for the Self Love Diet  Let's Connect: Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman youtube: Paul Fishman text me: 619-202-8353 website: www.paulfishman.love

Jul 1

12 min 35 sec

Oh hey there, Self Lover! To cap off my June Podcast series, Proud to Love Myself, I have the privilege of sharing my conversation with the amazing Cael O’Donnell. Cael is a light worker, a psychic medium, an author, and a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. His story of overcoming his obstacles to live in his truth is so inspiring, and I can’t wait for you to hear it!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!    (9:02) A Medium Prophet (12:40) The Stigma Around Psychic Readings (15:40) A TikTok Story (28:14) A Sexuality Journey   EPISODE LINKS!   Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!  Connect with Cael on his Website, Instagram, or TikTok! Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353

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Jun 29

47 min 37 sec

Oh hey Self Lovers! This week's Self Love Solocast is all about taking your power back. It's a quick listen that will seriously reframe the way you look at your life. If you're tired of letting other people control your life or you're ready to break free of societal expectations this episode is for you. Let's connect Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman text me: 619-202-8353

Jun 24

10 min 11 sec

Oh hey there, Sweet Self Lover!    This week we continue the Proud to Love Myself series by introducing my friend Eric Feltes. Eric is an actor who also has amassed over 20 thousand followers on TikTok playing such characters as Double D Chadd and Samson the Plant Daddy. Throughout this episode, you will notice that Eric tells several stories about some situations he has felt stuck in, only to realize it was his need to control the situation that was keeping him stuck. I love hearing Eric's process, and I hope that you are equally as impressed!    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!    (7:58) Coming Out Controlled   (16:58) Dating & Auditioning   (26:34) Relationship with Religion   (35:00) Releasing Control   EPISODE LINKS! Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!  Connect with Eric on TikTok or Instagram! Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353 This episode is brought to you by Suja Juice. Suja is on a mission to support more people drinking their nutrients and receiving organic fruits and vegetables! Visit sujajuice.com and use code SelfLove to save 15% off of your cleanse or shot pack!  

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Jun 22

1 hr 5 min

oh hey Self Lovers, I wanted to give you an inside look into what it's like to work with me. On today's self-love solo cast with a twist, I'm joined by one of my group coaching clients as we discuss her journey inside the program so far. This is a recording of the call I hosted in my group program this week and I'm so excited to share it with you. Apply for the August round of group coaching here Connect with me: Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman website: www.paulfishman.love text me: 619.202.8353

Jun 17

54 min 19 sec

Oh hey, Self Lover! How’s it going? This week I have thrown us back to the archives and I am resharing this beautiful episode that I did with Ben Wallace early last year.   Ben is transgender, but he is so much more than his gender identity. I love this episode so much, and I feel like I take something new away from it every time I listen.   I felt called to reshare this episode under a different title because I thought the message about loving your body was so important. The last time this episode was released, it was under the title “Trans is Beautiful”.   Please note that the Instagram handle for Ben mentioned in this episode has been updated – it is now @bennett_wallace EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (4:00) Ben’s Origins (10:00) Advice for Parents of Trans Children (17:10) Getting to Know Yourself (30:00) Ben’s Body Breakthrough EPISODE LINKS! Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!  Connect with Ben on Instagram or through his Website Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353 To get 10% off of your first month with Better Help, visit TryBetterHelp.Com/RoadToSelfLove    

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Jun 15

48 min 15 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! How are you feeling? Today we continue my June series, Proud to Love Myself! This week I get to share my conversation with a very talented male makeup artist, Joel Correa. Joel has amassed a large following on his Instagram and TikTok (linked below!) for his unique ability to combine colorful makeup looks with comedy. My favorite thing about these conversations with influencers from TikTok/Instagram is that I get to dig in and get into the person underneath what they choose to show online. Joel is intriguing both online and underneath his multicolored eyeshadow. He has a lot to share about how he became who he is today, and how he is able to not get caught up in his follower count. Plus, we discuss what it means to know your worth. I can’t wait to hear what you think about this episode! EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (7:41) The magic of winged eyeliner (12:26) Making mountains out of molehills (15:06) What happens when a “Yes Man” says no   (50:17) What is gaslighting? EPISODE LINKS! Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!  Watch Joel on TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube! Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s Website: PaulFishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353 To get 10% off of your first month with Better Help, visit TryBetterHelp.Com/RoadToSelfLove  

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Jun 8

1 hr 11 min

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today is the beginning of Pride Month, and this episode marks the beginning of my June series, Proud to Love Myself. And to start us off, we have the majestic Mason Denver! Mason gained notoriety on TikTok for his videos about sexuality and his character, the non binary demon receptionist. He currently has 1.3 million followers, and is primarily using the format of having conversations with himself about every day nuances, such as – people pleasing, perfectionism, and boundaries. Mason has such a calming and refreshing outlook on life. We discuss everything from him being fired for his TikToks, the victim cycle, and of course, the Kardashians. Keep an eye out for Mason’s podcast and poetry book – both coming soon! I had so much fun talking to Mason and hearing about his journey to TikTok success. I can’t wait to hear how much y’all enjoy this one as well!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (11:44) The Cycle of Victimhood (26:00) Signs of being healed (30:01) The illusion of glamour (52:46) TikTok Comments / Judgy People   EPISODE LINKS! Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!  Connect with Mason! Watch him on TikTok, check out his Instagram, and keep an eye out for his podcast! Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s website: Paulfishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353    

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Jun 1

1 hr 2 min

Join the waitlist for my Proud to Love Yourself Program at www.paulf.love/proudlist Today we're kicking off the pre-party for Pride month and the Proud to Love Myself series that we've got going on on The Road. I introduce you to my journey towards loving myself as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community and share a very special announcement.  This episode is brought to you by Suja Juice. Enjoy 15% off your cleanse pack or functional shots with code SELFLOVE at sujajuice.com  Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman text me: 619.202.8353

May 27

19 min 23 sec

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Meet Scott Shute, the head of Mindfulness and Compassion at LinkedIn. Did you know that was a job title before now? Because I certainly didn't! His mission is to change work from the inside out. But there is so much more to Scott than just his job title. To name a few things, Scott is: A Father A Husband An Unrelenting Optimist An Ambassador for Compassion The Author of “The Full Body Yes” Scott’s current position stems directly from his love of meditation, but also from his dedication to showing up authentically, wherever he is. He started meditation at 13 years old, but in the beginning, hid that part of himself. Listen to find out how Scott overcame the urge to cover his true self, and how he got to where he is today – oh, and there’s also a short mindful meditation that you won’t want to miss!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (11:24) What is Self Compassion? (14:00) The Full Body Yes (19:20) Corporate Compassion (35:34 – 39:40) A Mindful Meditation (42:44) What is Failure?   EPISODE LINKS! Connect with Scott! ScottShute.Com or check out his Instagram Purchase The Full Body Yes wherever you get books!   Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s website: Paulfishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353  

May 25

58 min 39 sec

It’s a beautiful day to love yourself! Meet Jenna and Ellen, the hosts of the She’s My Person podcast. These two have been friends for half of their lives – which, these days, is quite an accomplishment.   What does it mean to have a “person”? Perhaps Instagram would lead you to believe that your person is a spouse – but that’s not always the case. Take the explanation from Christina Yang:  “If I murdered someone, she’s the person I’d call to help me drag the corpse across the living room floor. She’s my person.” If you’re not into that, then simply calling it your “ride or die” will suffice. Or – take a definition from our guests: “I believe in soulmates, and I trust in the magic they hold, because I found one in a friend before a lover.” This is an episode for anyone who already has their person – or for anyone who has yet to find their person.   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! (6:24) She’s my Person (12:34) Making New Friends (14:42) It’s a Love Story (34:34) What is Integrity?   EPISODE LINKS! Connect with Jenna & Ellen on Instagram: @ShesMyPersonPodcast Jenna’s Instagram: @JennaIrvin Ellen’s Instagram: @EllenCrook Check out the She’s My Person podcast!   Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s website: Paulfishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353

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May 18

1 hr 1 min

Self Lovers, today we're getting real about grief and how it has impacted my life. I hope you are ready to not feel so alone on your journey to healing! Please subscribe if you haven't already and make sure to follow me on Instagram @paulfishman

May 13

27 min 45 sec

Let’s get real, Self Lovers! This week I took an adventure with Chelsea London Lloyd. Chelsea is a comedian, an Aries, a volunteer grief counselor, and the host of the podcast, Dying of Laughter. This episode could not have come at a better time because (as you may know) I have been dealing with some grief myself as of late (if you DON’T know what’s going on with this, head over to my Instagram). Maybe you’re you are dealing with grief? Maybe you are feeling uncomfortable with expressing how you’re REALLY feeling? Maybe you just enjoy podcasts featuring your friend Paul Fishman and an Aries comedian? Either way, you are definitely in for a treat this week. I was so delighted to receive the gift that is Chelsea, and I can’t wait for you to receive her light as well!   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: (10:40) Learning to Receive Compliments (15:52) Uncomfortable Conversations about Your Truth (22:36) Let’s Talk About Grief (29:36) When the “Small Joys” seem Avoidant   EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Chelsea on her Instagram or YouTube! Listen to Chelsea’s Podcast on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you stream podcasts! The latest episode is with Yours Truly ;).  To purchase the book  "The Power of Now", visit Here. Take control over your mental health! Take 10% off of your first month of Better Help by visiting trybetterhelp.com/RoadToSelfLove Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s website: Paulfishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353        

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May 11

59 min 47 sec

Oh hey there, Self Lover! Meet Lauren Mones, my friend and the brains behind The Fermenting Fairy. Lauren had to take a crash course in gut health when she was diagnosed with Crohn’s Disease in 2014. She refused to accept that she would have to sit back and be medicated for the rest of her life, and she decided that she needed different approach. By altering her personal life, she healed the world around her - and by purchasing and consuming a jar of sauerkraut, she began her journey to healing her gut and was on her way to creating The Fermenting Fairy. But what is the gut? And why should you care about healing it? Tune in, my dear Self Lover. Sometimes loving your insides can reflect back on your life around you! EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: (5:26) What is your gut & why does it need to be healthy? (11:29) How to get your gut healthy (28:18) How do you know when your gut is healed? (30:14) Why are fermented foods important?   EPISODE LINKS: Apply to join my LAST transformative group coaching program! Connect with the Fermenting Fairy on Instagram, Facebook, or on their Website. Take control over your mental health! Take 10% off of your first month of Better Help by visiting trybetterhelp.com/RoadToSelfLove Paul’s Instagram: @PaulFishman Paul’s website: Paulfishman.Love For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send “self love” to 619-202-8353  

May 4

48 min 18 sec