Paul's friend shares about the co-dependent relationship with his longtime lover that ended in tragedy & Todd's PTSD, porn & meth binges tailspinning into a showdown on his roof vs a SWAT team, before finally having a moment of clarity and getting his life together piece by piece. Episodes older than one year can be found ad-free exclusively at Stitcher Premium for $4.99/month. Get one month free by using offer code MENTAL at signup at www.StitcherPremium.com/mentalpod. Subscriptions include episodes going all the way back to ep #1 in 2011, plus back catalogs of tons of other great podcasts, standup albums, original content and more. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp online counseling. To get a free week go to www.BetterHelp.com/mental Must be 18.