He got me pregnant but is in business with his ex! What do I do?
By Jesse And Jenna's Messy Podcast
"Hi Jesse & Jenna!" My name is Hope. I'm a big fan and am currently involved with an 'older' man - I'm 30 and he's 40 and I'm hoping you can help me. We've been dating for 2 months and I thought it was going well until we talked about the next step in our relationship. He said that he CANNOT be in a relationship right now because he still has financial obligations to his ex-girlfriend who lives in Texas. They 'co-own' a business together, which she has put in the majority of the capital. So in return, there are some strings attached to their arrangement. Part of the arrangement is that he still talks to her on the phone all the time and that they will meet up to talk about the business, but he's insinuated that when they see each other that they sleep together too. I really like this guy and he tells me that he's not in love with her anymore and he loves me. I've been trying to convince myself that I'm fine with this set up, but at the same time, I know I am a relationship girl. What should I do? I really want to be with him. Oh, and I'm also pregnant. Do I tell him? Should I keep the baby? I need some advice!"